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Lavelle, 45
United States, Georgia, Saint Marys

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About Me

Wow. What can I say that isn't a cliche or hasn't been written in one of these profiles 1,***times before?? Well,I'll be honest and try not to bore you to tears. At this point in my life, I'm old enough and experienced enough to know what I'm looking for in a relationship and a partner, but smart enough to realize that there's always more to learn...so I'm willing to be open-minded to surprises ( with the exclusion of prison terms or extended stays in mental *** would say I'm warm, personable, funny, caring, compassionate, passionate and down-to-earth. I can be outrageous & silly at times, and serious & quiet at other times (not in a bipolar way, at least I hope ;***. In a partner I look for someone who is honest and has a strong sense of self, a quiet confidence, what you might call 'character'...someone who's not pretentious and treats everyone with respect, whether they mop floors or own a hedge fund (actually, with recent economic shennanigans, I should update that to someone working on a cancer cure or a running a non-profit for the poor, ***, I guess). I also wouldn't mind if he can make me laugh, keeps himself in relatively decent shape and doesn't look like Shrek (and, yes, to all those who comment, Shrek IS cute in his own way, I agree!).I love to laugh til I cry, find such a great book that I dread that it has to end, an ice--roof; update: a Honda w/o a sunroof - times are tough!) on a gorgeous day singing at the top of my lungs - badly, good hair days & good butt days, and too many other things to list!If you actually made it through this entire thing, mazel toz:).Please do not respond without a recent photo. Thanks.Update: Oh, and I only check my e-mails, not the "favorite" and meet me" shenanigans on here!Update #2: And please don't contact me if you're a player (you know who you are;-)); been there, done that, and so over it. Thanks again.Update #3: Wow, I guess it's true that most of you guys really DON'T read our profiles, huh? (Basing this on the # of "favorites" & "meet mes" that continue to flow in).

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

House Bowling Ice Hockey
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    Solange

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

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    Karyl

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am not Spanish, nor do I speak it. BeautifulGirl was taken.I am a beautiful woman who chooses to see myself as a wonderful, lovely, nice, and aware person. I have a sense of humor, I can be funny or serious, I am tender, kind, whole, honest, and dedicated. I have impeccable manners, as I am a believer in the adage 'manners matter!' My youngest daughter has a funny story about me with manners...I have integrity and respect it in others. I feel deeply and I am real. I am a visual and hands on learner, as well as a vocal processor. I am LDS, but the important things in life about love, spirituality, sensuality, honor, respect are things I learned in unconventional ways, ways that many LDS people would not understand. I have known some men that are not LDS, that are more honorable than some LDS men. I am very spiritual and believe wholeheartedly that we are all spiritual beings having a mortal journey. I am only interested in being with a man that understands himself and is ready to be in a fulfilling relationship that leads to marriage. With that said, I feel sex is sacred and should be taken seriously, and is not something I am going to just jump into. I would very much prefer being with a man that really can go down that path with me. I am not looking to get married in like 6 months :), but I do want my relationship to head to that point. I am very sorry to say this, but if you have just awful baggage from your ex wife, (I am talking making your life hell, please move on). As I have been there, done that... I want to know that I can feel safe in my relationship.I long to have that great love of my life in my life. Having a gentlemen as my guy is very important to me. I want to be his everything, as he will be mine. I want to be able to come to him with any and all my thoughts and feelings, and know that no matter what, those things matter to him as well. I believe in the man being the man. I am great at being a women, and I need him to be a man. I am a strong woman, but I need him to be strong as well. If I am having a melt down over dishes, then I need for him to hold me, knowing that there is something else that is bothering me. I want to be able to recognize the same in him. I want for him to respect what only I can give him, and I want the same.I was married at the age of ***no one is ready at that age for a forever commitment!) and have been divorced for almost 9 years now. When I first left my marriage, I blamed my ex husband for everything. I have learned that is not the case. I am very much aware and healed enough to be able to see the whole thing for what it was. I am at a place in my life where I can appreciate the good things from that time period and have the lessons as well. I have made peace with it. I have taken responsibility for my own part in the fall of that. I am not perfect, not by a long shot, but I try to do my best in everything. I would like to have a healthy relationship, where both partners matter and are taken care of by each other. One in which we only see each other, we are each others cheer leaders.Family is most important to me. I am the mother of 3 amazing kids, (I hope all parents feel this way), whom I love very much. They are my favorite people in the world. My youngest is a senior in High School this coming school year. I am not sure I want to start over with having or being a 'mom' to young children, but maybe. I am much more of a home body then an outdoorsy girl, although, I enjoy being outside and doing things like hiking, camping, sightseeing... I just don't have many opportunities or much experience in these things. I am willing to learn and be apart of those wonderful things, though. My 64 year old mother hiked with us to the Delicate Arch. That was quite a challenge, but so worth it. It was so great to help her to achieve that....it is so wonderful there. Lots of good memories. I am more productive in the morning. I go to bed early and get up early. I am very clean - and need my man to be as well (if you don't wash your hands after the bathroom - don't touch me, as I am a bit of a germ-a-phobe), but my apartment feels cluttered, because it is a small place. I strive to continue learning daily and I gravitate toward the more simple things as well as round angles. I go to a local facility to work out, but I am not a gym rat. I am not as tech savvy as I would like and I don't know how to swim. I eat as well as I can. I like buying organic as much as I can, especially my produce. My favorite seasons are fall and spring... with fall being my first choice. I love to slow dance. oh I am I love shoes!If you are interested in a girls girl, then contact me. I have many a first date. Some really not very ideal, some where just fun. I have gone bowling, playing in a park, walks, dinner and a movie.I like the more creative ideas.

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  • Stevania from Saint Marys | Woman | 41 years old | Libra
    Stevania

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I'm a mellow, low-maintenance person. Probably one of the most laid back, drama free girls you'll meet :-)I'm looking for a really good guy who doesn't have to think too hard about wanting to do things, has a little bit of a crude edge and in good shape. And WANTS work towards a relationship if we click. I'm affectionate and cuddly but not clingy.I love to travel and learn about the world. I'm where I want to be in life and want to find someone to share life with. I want to be with someone who is into each other....not someone just looking for a relationship to fit into their life. I'm an honest, loyal, dependable, caring person and I expect that in return from the people in my life.Oh and please don't message me if you don't have pics. Sorry but looks matter :-) Depends on what we feel like doing! Would have to see what our chemistry is like :-)

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