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Lavelle, 45

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About Me

Wow. What can I say that isn't a cliche or hasn't been written in one of these profiles 1,***times before?? Well,I'll be honest and try not to bore you to tears. At this point in my life, I'm old enough and experienced enough to know what I'm looking for in a relationship and a partner, but smart enough to realize that there's always more to learn...so I'm willing to be open-minded to surprises ( with the exclusion of prison terms or extended stays in mental *** would say I'm warm, personable, funny, caring, compassionate, passionate and down-to-earth. I can be outrageous & silly at times, and serious & quiet at other times (not in a bipolar way, at least I hope ;***. In a partner I look for someone who is honest and has a strong sense of self, a quiet confidence, what you might call 'character'...someone who's not pretentious and treats everyone with respect, whether they mop floors or own a hedge fund (actually, with recent economic shennanigans, I should update that to someone working on a cancer cure or a running a non-profit for the poor, ***, I guess). I also wouldn't mind if he can make me laugh, keeps himself in relatively decent shape and doesn't look like Shrek (and, yes, to all those who comment, Shrek IS cute in his own way, I agree!).I love to laugh til I cry, find such a great book that I dread that it has to end, an ice--roof; update: a Honda w/o a sunroof - times are tough!) on a gorgeous day singing at the top of my lungs - badly, good hair days & good butt days, and too many other things to list!If you actually made it through this entire thing, mazel toz:).Please do not respond without a recent photo. Thanks.Update: Oh, and I only check my e-mails, not the "favorite" and meet me" shenanigans on here!Update #2: And please don't contact me if you're a player (you know who you are;-)); been there, done that, and so over it. Thanks again.Update #3: Wow, I guess it's true that most of you guys really DON'T read our profiles, huh? (Basing this on the # of "favorites" & "meet mes" that continue to flow in).

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Glayds

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I'm very outgoing, can be outspoken. Comfortable in my own skin. You should be too! I love anything outdoors-camping,fishing,boating. Love animals. I like all types of music excluding metal, makes me want to throw something ;) Love exploring new things and places, great love for good food. I'm an eternal optimist glass is always half full! So no negative nellies! And being tall helps! But not a deal breaker.Update; As flattering as it may be if your within 15 years of my 20 yr old daughter.... Well I'm pretty sure I'm not your "match" but thank you :)One more thing, mean what you say and say what you mean, No Gaming necessary, you might just be surprised by the outcome.

  • Consuela

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am an intelligent, open minded, educated and accomplished woman looking for someone to laugh with, hang out with, be spontaneous with, and have fun with! I like being adventurous, romantic, surprising , sensual and very playful. I try not to take life too seriously. I’m looking for someone who has similar qualities and desires. Someone who believes love, honesty, communication, respect and trust should be the pillars of the relationship. Random things about me:A romantic.Faithful, kind, caring, sincere, sensual and lovingWould love to dance in the rain.Love the water.Yes wine.Love going outside the city limits.. Any city limits. Most any type of music.Love for the outdoors: hiking, camping, fires, kayaking, rivers, beaches, stars, etc...Fires..Fires. Fires.The moon.The zooRoad tripsFavorite cartoons when I was a kid: The Jetsons, Scooby Doo, The Flintstones. A great smelling man!!Looking to find someone who is secure in himself as I work in a predominantly male field. Confident, trusting . Most importantly I want honesty...be up front and you will always get the same from me. I think we have all been hurt in past relationships but I believe we should learn from it, move on and not punish the next person in your life. So be warned!! Everyone is fair game! Communication is also a must!! If you don't have good communication then there is no chance of any future. ..just my opinion. I need someone who is affectionate and who is not afraid of a little PDA. A man who is caring, loving, generous, honest, patient, believes in communication, fun, spontaneous. **Apparantly I now have to add this: If you don't like affection, holding hands, being touched, kissing, please do not contact me. I am a very affectionate person without being clingy but I expect the person I am with to want affection and to give back as well. If you have never been married and not had fifteen years of psychotherapy please do not contact me. You have issues.. I don't need them... No games please. Already been that route. MUST love dogs!! I have a rather large dog with whom I am very close to. He is usually a good judge of character... But I take him places with me frequently.

  • Acheflour

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I like all kinds of animals, enjoy riding and training horses. I enjoy outdoor activities like boating,fishing and hunting. Physical activity is very important to me, I like to roller blade, ride bikes or walk. coffee or food

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