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Lavelle, 45

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About Me

Wow. What can I say that isn't a cliche or hasn't been written in one of these profiles 1,***times before?? Well,I'll be honest and try not to bore you to tears. At this point in my life, I'm old enough and experienced enough to know what I'm looking for in a relationship and a partner, but smart enough to realize that there's always more to learn...so I'm willing to be open-minded to surprises ( with the exclusion of prison terms or extended stays in mental *** would say I'm warm, personable, funny, caring, compassionate, passionate and down-to-earth. I can be outrageous & silly at times, and serious & quiet at other times (not in a bipolar way, at least I hope ;***. In a partner I look for someone who is honest and has a strong sense of self, a quiet confidence, what you might call 'character'...someone who's not pretentious and treats everyone with respect, whether they mop floors or own a hedge fund (actually, with recent economic shennanigans, I should update that to someone working on a cancer cure or a running a non-profit for the poor, ***, I guess). I also wouldn't mind if he can make me laugh, keeps himself in relatively decent shape and doesn't look like Shrek (and, yes, to all those who comment, Shrek IS cute in his own way, I agree!).I love to laugh til I cry, find such a great book that I dread that it has to end, an ice--roof; update: a Honda w/o a sunroof - times are tough!) on a gorgeous day singing at the top of my lungs - badly, good hair days & good butt days, and too many other things to list!If you actually made it through this entire thing, mazel toz:).Please do not respond without a recent photo. Thanks.Update: Oh, and I only check my e-mails, not the "favorite" and meet me" shenanigans on here!Update #2: And please don't contact me if you're a player (you know who you are;-)); been there, done that, and so over it. Thanks again.Update #3: Wow, I guess it's true that most of you guys really DON'T read our profiles, huh? (Basing this on the # of "favorites" & "meet mes" that continue to flow in).

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Rimon

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Looking to date & see what happens. I love to work out but not a gym rat.. I do believe, learning to discipline yourself in the gym &/or at home only leads to internal changes like more confidence, which can help you in all aspects of your life. love the out doors & all .I've been told I am Very laid back & easy going and to nice sometimes.. Sorry not the fighting type.. Don't like drama & loves to laugh and joke around... Looking for a confident & happy man. Someone who can hold their own on a conversation , come up with ideas to do things, not just stay or be a couch potato drink beer all day or a Bar Scene every weekend... a Man who knows what he wants , not afraid to go after it, not possessive but cares that shows in is actions. A man who can work to take care of his own but also know an appreciate a women who can do the same but both find the time to meet in the middle to have fun and NO DRAMA.....and specially a man who is looking to build a strong relationship not just a filler or something that will work for right now.... On important thing.. IF YOU LIVE with Your Ex "Wife, Girlfriend " please move on. That is just DRAMA waiting to happen I would hope you have your own place as I do and is somewhat Goal oriented, I am very easy going about what I like to do, wouldnt mind staying home and cooking and watching movies or go see a movie, a game or play games. Just being open to do things going on in life not a couch potato or bar junkie.. I am the type, You have your guys friends and you want to go out with them, I would be the type to say.. have a great time. . Time can be wonderful thing to find out about each other.. We find a connection, I am one to be a Full no holds bar One Man kinda Women.. I want an intense fun-filled romance & laughs. had it once long time ago. Loved that feeling but I want it to be Real, not pushed or forced because your lonely, most things that last forever just happen.. I know what will work for me, I know what I want.. .. I hate drama and will find every which way to allude it!! I want my Best Friend, not Friends w/Benefits. LOL... i am a deep thinking & hard affectionate women with the right guy and love a deep conversation .. Thats all. :) Respect, Confidence, Loyalty and Communication is KEY>> My Philosophy ... If someone is really interested they will always find the time to communicate with you no matter how busy they are! I do believe... We can keep our individuality but find our compatibility and run with it. Honestly... lets get to know each other a little then if we decided to meet somewhere to chat a little at a coffee place that would be good. Not into a Drink out at a bar to meet you or dinner, just something very simple and easy...

  • Kathlyn

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Life is good in terms of work, family and friends but I know I have even more to offer that special someone. I am looking for someone who is responsible, respectful, fun and generally together. I've decided I'm mostly a City girl who enjoys the niceties of City life but I do also love the beach and outdoor activities. I like to stay active and work out at the gym regularly. I'm open to a night on the town of dancing, dinner, a concert, wine tasting...or anything. I'm an outgoing person who enjoys meeting new people so let's chat.I do not have kids but am fine with dating someone who has kids. I am not into drugs at all, that includes marijuana.

  • David

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I liked to travel. Weekend trips and try new places. I like the outdoors camping and hiking, bike riding,horseback riding, canoeing, boating. Adventure is always fun. I would love to go to Europe i have never been yet. Looking to go some time in my lifetime. Going to dinner and watch a football game. Follow up with going to play pool or bowling.

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