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I am DEF a creative, dreaming square peg in a round hole.; am extremely independent. BUT... I do like being treated like a woman, I pray chivalry isn't really dead. Believe me... you guys pull out ALL the stops these days just to get laid, but I'm very good at spotting the BS. I can give as well as take. Yes... I am looking to get into a relationship, not just a fling. I've had my share of those the past few years... it's boring & tiresome. I want an equal, someone who compliments, not complains & I hope to give that in return. I just beat Cervical Cancer, so to say I have a new lease on life is an understatement. I love artistic & creative guys, but also appreciate a man who knows how to use his hands building, saving, fixing & playing. I am very girlie, but can most definitely hang with the guys. I hate when people talk while my football team is playing, soccer is my porn :)It says here to talk about the music I like... How about books,film, music & food in a nutshell?Y The Last Man, The Alchemist (Anything Paulo Coleho), Where the Red Fern Grows, Where the Sidewalk Ends, Watchmen (graphic novel &-essentially anything that allows meat-I'm not a rabbit & don't do much raw organic stuff much This question is hard, because this almost means setting expectations & that is something I hardly choose to do. I can say my first date will NOT consist of dinner & a movie or dinner period. I need time to get to know you & that means talking & sitting 2 hours in a theater in silence won't help & shoveling food in your mouth isn't always an attractive sight.I would hope whatever we do there is lots of conversation & more importantly a lot of laughing. That is KEY. Other than that... if it's not a movie or dinner... I'm down to try anything

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Margarette

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I'm a very kick back low maintenance girl, but like girly things, I love traveling!!!, trying new things, eating out..... eating in....,snuggling up watching a DVD, or going out to a movie, I'm pretty happy in any setting... I'm an open book so *** you have questions & ill let you know the answer.. I am LDS and would like to date someone whom is also LDS. As for friends I'm open to meeting anyone, you never know where you will find THE ONE!!!!! I'm huge into open honest communication, there are 2 ways to get from A to B & my way isn't right or wrong & your way isn't right or wrong, we can both have our own way & were both right...(if that makes sense) My motto is "HURT ME WITH THE TRUTH, BUT DON'T EVER DECEIVE ME WITH A LIE."Just keep it real, and be yourself.. Happy searching?? ....PS... Speaking of being honest & keeping it real, I have had cancer a few times, but I am in remission & doing great. But with my 2nd cancer I did have very extensive chemotherapy & radiation that did fry part of my lungs, so I only have 65% of the oxygen capacity that you have, & a few other dings & dents. So while I LOVE fun physical things I do have some limitations. I will still play as hard as I can, life is too short not to, but it does take a tole on me if I have a couple of really active days back to back, but I recover within a day or so. hopefully that doesn't scare you away, but as I said I'm an open book & I'd rather tell you now than spring it on you later ( & yes I was bald as a bat for a year, but the upside to that was not having to shave anything for a year.... I just think that anyone that looses their hair from cancer should be able to request where they want their hair to grow back, cause I'd love to never have to shave again. Muahahaha ) OK, one last thing, if you have made it this far into my novel, I only check this site 1-2x per month, so if i don't get back to you ASAP, PLEASE DON'T TAKE IT PERSONAL, or as a sign. I will get back to you though.. OK, you have past a huge part of the test by reading this as far as you have.. If you survived reading this you must be a good guy :-) I think for a first date its nice to keep it short & sweet, see if there's a click & if WE want to continue on and do something after the initial date we can decide that then. So for a 1st date, id say meeting for a soda, hot chocolate, ice cream, lunch, is a great way to start, but a dinner & a movie date is fine too, typically with the guy paying, I don't want to waste his money or time (or mine) if that initial click isn't there... But if the click is there id play it all by ear & see where it goes!!!

  • Ros

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am looking for someone who is ready to be in a relationship. I am LDS/Mormon but open to meeting others with similar goals and priorities. I am not looking for casual. I like the outdoors (hiking, snowshoeing, camping). I enjoy the arts (opera, ballet, symphony, plays, concerts, film, visual arts). Travel and other cultures, especially ethnic food, are a big interest of mine. I don't enjoy country music or the lifestyle that goes with it. I prefer city life. I am not into pets or hunting. I do love kids, so if you have them, that is great. Please don't message me if you are just 'playing around' or looking for a 'good time'. I want to take the time to get to know you if there is a connection.As far as attraction, more slender and moderately in shape fits my lifestyle. I am not in perfect shape but I do take care of myself and want someone that can be active. But if you spend all your spare time at the gym, we probably won't relate either. Moderation in all thing :) Something simple where we can talk.

  • Nelida

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Hello gentlemen, I would love to talk, I love the outdoors, camping, fishing, hunting although I have never killed anything I love to be outside. I would like to meet someone that is outgoing but laid back, and likes to just have fun whether at home cuddling on the couch or hiking up a mountain. I do have one child at home still, she just turned 10, she is the last of my three best friends. If you would like to talk let me know...;) A first date should be,going somewhere you can talk, get to know each other. Maybe have a drink.

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