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Tonda, 43

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About Me

Hello fellas! Thanks for stopping by. I don't really like to go on and on about myself, but I think that's what is expected here, so here it goes:All photos are within the last few months. The one with my nephews was taken late September ***.I like football, travelling, I cook, clean (sometimes),I like kids, well behaved ones especially, love to throw parties and can make the best margarita you've ever had. I have a great career, an amazing 13 year old son, and life in general is pretty stinkin' good. I am a "few extra pounds," but I'm still ridiculously awesome. I'm not jaded, nor do I need pharmaceuticals (legal or illegal ones) to be normal. I have a lot of friends and am very close to my family, especially my Dad. I can sniff out a player and liar a mile away so bring your A game, lol. I'm an adventurous foodie, and I might let you slide on integrity if you like Indian cuisine....:)Once in a committed relationship, I'm very much into affection and MORE...I find that most guys on here don't make much of an effort to start and carry on a conversation, so if I don't respond, that's probably why. Like kids, be adventurous, don't be intimidated by my Dad and you and I will get along very well. Any number of things would work on a first date - as long as conversation and company aren't dull! It's always nice to have an activity to distract somewhat from the awkwardness of first meeting - an icebreaker if you will.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Timotha

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am honest...have a wonderful heart, caring, considerate and kind. I have a lot of love to give...but still looking for that one special man to give my entire self too. But I also have a little wild streak and I'm willing to try just about anything once? Still wanting to skydive...but have yet to find a partner willing to jump with me.I have two wonderful boys. My oldest is 26 and my younger is 17, going on 18 and lives with me half of the time. They are my pride and joy...my everything. I love my children...and if my future partner has children...all the more love to go around :-). I'm looking for a life long partner. A good man...a gentleman. One who walks next to me...not in front of me. A man with a good heart..who is honest. Someone who wants to share their lives yet knows that its still ok if we both have our own hobbies and interest that the other may not share. I want to be loved and adored...and love and adore in return. I'm looking for my best friend, partner, lover...my soul mate. I know no ones perfect...and we all have our flaws so I'm not looking for perfection....just a good....honest man...A little update ~ I will be making a big life change this Jan, ***. Looking so very forward to adding a new chapter/adventure into my big book of life....

  • Paityn

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I have been to 49 of the 50 states. Hopefully get to the last one someday. I enjoy travel whether its a couple hour road trip or cross country adventure. I would love to someday travel to Europe and Scandanavia. The only foreign countries I have been to are in North or Central America. I am a trivia wizard, basically useless information sticks in my brain for some reason. Not very helpful in life but a trivia game or game show I'd be great!! I can do anything from casual to formal dress depending on the occasion prefer dresses most of the time but not in a prissy princess kind of way. I don't have a lot of specific hobbies but am always up for new adventures and trying new things. I love to take road trips, read books(mostly mystery), have two rescue dogs I love, enjoy sports, concerts, and am currently trying to get into better shape. I enjoy a variety of music mostly rock and love living in an area where there are frequently good shows to go see. I am not the kind of person who needs to have someone in her life but I would love to have someone to do things with and possibly turn into something more. I have a 13 year old son who is more independent everyday and I've started to realize I focused so much on him I didn't have much of a social life so I've been changing that.I want to meet new people but don't do the bar scene much and think its best not to get too friendly with co-workers so I'm trying this to make some new friends or more. I am not looking for a husband, don't need someone to take care of me, looking for a partner to have a good time and see where it goes. If you're interested send me a message and we can figure out if we have anything in common. I will actually read your profile not just make decisions based on pictures which tell us nothing about each other except maybe that I usually keep myself behind the camera shooting the action so I frequently look surprised when someone takes a picture of me. My taste in music runs the gamut but don't listen to much country or rap but tell me about music you love, I am always up for finding new music enjoy. I admit an affection for alternative 80's as that is the era I grew up in, also really like most rock and punk. I find it strange to put lots of specific requirements of what I'm looking for and will find it strange if you have them. In reference to the kids questions I have one and don't have an issue with dating someone with kids but am not planning on making anymore. You never know a person just by one thing so don't disqualify them or have them discount you based on superficial reasons. So if any of this appeals to you send me a message and we can take it from there. Something low pressure to meet and learn more about each other.

  • Arleen

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Can I pic two personality types? I love music! I listen to it ***. No r&b, no rap (except old school), no new country. I listen to progressive rock, classical, and meditation. How's that for a crazy mix? ;0)I love my two boys, I love Batman (obsessed lol), Mediterranean, Italian, Mexican food and sushi ( Happy Sumo yummy!!). I love mountain biking on paved trails ( I'm a girl, can't handle a lot of rough terrain) I love outdoor activities as long as its not too hot! I'm VERY fair skinned, and like to keep it that way Volleyball, walking trails, playin in the snow with my kids,i don't know how to ski, i've been once, going for walks in the park, fishing, yes I can bait a hook and knot a hook to a line , going to the gym with friends, playing pool, and just enjoying life and meeting interesting people. I love to read. I can read ***books at a time. I'm fun, adventurous, and always up for random acts of silliness!My friends would say I am loyal, honest, compassionate, great listener, and a fun loving person. I am currently achieving my Associates in Massage Therapy, and hope to own my own salon one day. I am not a religious person. I am very spiritual, and enjoy making and burning incense, candles, massage lotions and oils, salt and sugar scrubs, aromatherapy, and papyrus. I follow a Spiritual Path that I love, and will not "convert" to a religious lifestyle. I'm a freebird and won't have my wings clipped. :0)I'm a confident girl who has her head on straight and knows where she's going. I'm a romantic at heart. I love to cuddle and show PDA. I love nights in, talking, sharing, or just watching a movie. I like to go out and enjoy listening to bands, and concerts, an occasional dive bar with good vibes. I'm over the bar drunken women with attitudes that gravitate to those kinda of bars that because they frequent it often, it becomes "their" bar. UghI'm a tattoo enthusiast. I have 16 with more planned. I love QUALITY work!! I am looking for a tall man that appreciates a confident woman who walks beside him. Someone who is loyal, honest, trustworthy, romantic, silly, random, and be ready to make anything fun. Someone who is grounded and established. I am a very laid back jeans and T-shirt kinda girl, but can get dolled up as well. I would consider my style as my style. Lol I follow no genres if style anymore. Just keepin it real! Lived in the 80's still love the music, but the style....can stay there. Lol!Do I sound like someone you would like to get to know? If so, message me! Looking to meet anyone up to 46. If older, sorry!! **NO PIC, NO CONVERSATION. SORRY GUYS!** PLEASE MAKE PICS CURRENT, NO WOMAN WANTS TO LOOK AT PICS OF YOU 4+YEARS AGO :0)** A great first date would be getting to know each other enough that it's a comfortable environment. Maybe a coffee date and go from there!! I like to listen and share funny stories and get to know people!

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