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About Me

Updated my intent to "looking for a relationship" last night. It's really hard to put your true intentions on here for fear of coming across as either overly slutty and desperate or needy and clingy, lol. I am none of those things, just a normal girl next door type who is honest to a fault, sincere, sweet, funny, outgoing, witty, sarcastic and love to laugh even when it may not be appropriate... Anything can be fun if you're with the right person. I am a fairly calm person, but also a passionate one when it comes to my friends, family and my career. I do know how to let my hair down and unwind too...have to chill out every now and then.Looking for a fun, outgoing, affectionate, caring, honest, single man who does not carry excess baggage from previous relationships. I am happily divorced and have wiped my slate clean. If you are mean, sad, bitter or just a miserable person to be around please don't contact me. Also, if you are a raging alcoholic, smoker or drug user please move on. Good luck on your search, I'm not what you're looking for.My child always comes first, so if you cannot respect that, I can't respect you either. I love kids so if you have some, that's great but I do not want to have any more, too old for that! Anything anywhere as long as it's comfortable for the two of us.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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