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Mercy, 42

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About Me

I'm not sure its fair for me to ask what you want when I'm not even sure what I want. *** having some list of prefereces and expectations to bestowe upon some innocent soul, I think if/when I meet "the one" we will both know. I DO, HOWEVER... know what I DON'T want, which is to be a hit &..whatever the verbage currenty is. . . It's ***fellas, we can all get laid so if thats what floats your boat, please troll on to the next pond! With that being said, if you are still reading, lol, I think Im a pretty fun person to be around, I laugh at myself all the time, and I love to make others laugh as well. I am the proud mother of 2 sons who inspire me daily to be the best me I can be. Love all kinds of music, love to dance, hang out with my friends, go to work, pay my bills & handle my BIDNESS on my own. The last year of my life has been very trying with the passing of my Daddy & my fiance' within 4 weeks of each other, my faith & hope has been at an all time low. Time is slowly healing my heart &!!! I am going to live for today, and make the best out of life while I can enjoy it. Would be really nice to have a companion to join me in my journey. Its been a while since Ive felt the butterflies, or had someone to rush home to, or look forward to the next time I see or talk to that person, and I miss it. I WANT TO FEEL THE BUTTERFLIES AGAIN!!! If you can relate and havent written me off as another fruit loop chick, lets chat and see where it goes... Maybe find something neither of us knew we wanted ;) * & for all you guys that are leary of me because I didnt have "body shots" its hard to do a selfie of your whole body & Im super shy about posing for a pic when someone else is taking it. So dont judge....pinkie swear im not "Heavy Gauge" as my Daddy would say. I will send them once we chat & I am comfortable;) Hmmmm. First date could be anything. Obivously would have to talk, txt or *** bit first to make sure we mesh, (ie u laugh at my jokes) .... and if that goes well Im up for whatever you are, dinner, drinks, bowling, dancing, knitting (JK) whatever.... I just want to do what comes natural, no expectations, because when all the newness wears off and you and I are still hanging out, we should be able to enjoy doing normal, nothing special kinda things.... thats huge. Every girl wants the fairytale but I am realistic.!!! Lets just be ourselves and see what happens!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

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    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

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