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UPDATED ***The white mountains are calling...hiking partner wanted... the foliage is awaiting! ;)By chance do you speak Spanish??...I could really use a handsome tutor to help me through this class!!! ;) lol~ ~ ~ HEY GUYS... I don't need just any man... I would like to find "the one"...so please... * it takes MORE than a" hi," OR a " how are you?" ***; to elicit a reply! ** If your profile states "currently separated" or "wants to date but nothing serious" PLEASE MOVE ON ***. please do not take this the wrong way, but my preference is CAUCASIAN :) ****and NO, I DO NOT want a "casual" encounter!!! (Tired of all ridiculous *** get so please do not waste my time with any of the above....promise you...your *** deleted!!)LET'S START AS FRIENDS WITH GOOD INTENTIONS...EVERY SOLID RELATIONSHIP NEEDS A STRONG FRIENDSHIP BASE...RESPECT AND TRUST MUST BE EARNED...AND ALL RELATIONSHIPS TAKE TIME, BUT CHEMISTRY IS A MUST!! :)I WILL NOT SETTLE...I AM LOOKING FOR THAT TRUE CONNECTION HEART AND SOUL! I WOULD RATHER STAY SINGLE THAN BE WITH THE WRONG PERSON. MY STYLE: I have been described as a chameleon of sorts...meaning I can fit into any surrounding... SO I hope you can hang in jeans(as most of you do so well, lol) or step it up a notch comfortably. SOCIAL/ACTIVITIES:I love camping, hiking, kayaking, cycling, the beach just as much as being in a dress/ heels having a dinner and attending a show at PPAC after. You get the point! I would love a guy with this versatility. I would also love to try some new adventures like SNOWSHOEING this winter too. Are you up for some dancing or live music? WARNING: I do love to dance!! How about social gatherings with friends/family? Quiet time together is a must too! Can you handle take out, a movie, and cuddling up in our comfy sweats on a rainy cold night? WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR:CHARACTERISTICS: Like myself, I hope that you are respectful, romantic, honest, strong, passionate, inspiring and will challenge me to be a better person with you than I was alone. Hopefully, you are not afraid of a little PDA(public displays of affection) and/or to tell/show how you feel. Communication is so key!! A sense of humor is a definite plus too!! I can dish it and take it!! lolYes believe it or not, women really do want a nice guy! Are you the type of guy my mom would love and my father would respect? Do guys even care about those things any more? ****Remember the true character of a man is how he acts when he IS with you and how he acts when he is NOT with you!!**** A great love has that "chemistry" that even strangers can pick up on......the kind of love that make others envious. That's what I ultimately want... that one guy that just leaves me breathless, gives me butterflies, that special someone I could never imagine my life without. To me, a good relationship is equal parts love and lust ~ physically and mentally ~ Friends and lovers! Seriously, what a gift to find friendship and romance in the same persons smile!! :) SASSY, QUICK-WITTED FUN-LOVING AND SWEET I'M THE INCREDIBLE GIRL NEXT DOOR YOU JUST HAVE TO MEET A WELL KEPT SECRET AS MY MALE FRIENDS WOULD SAY I GUESS YOU'LL NEVER KNOW UNTIL YOU SEND AN *** I'M PASSIONATE IN ALL I DO AND EVERYTHING COMES FROM THE HEART ULTIMATELY, LOOKING FOR A LIFELONG RELATIONSHIP BUT GETTING TO KNOW ME IS A PERFECT WAY TO START!!! ********************************************************************** We are all here hopefully for the same reason ~I hope you find the one that completes you!! :) SO I WONDER: Will it be your eyes I get lost in from across our table for two? Will my hand fit in yours perfectly as we walk side by side? Will I feel safe and protected in your embrace? Will you be my last first kiss? Will you be the reason for the unexplained smile on my face? Will you be "not so perfect" but perfect for me? Hmm.. I guess we'll see!! ;) Remember...SMILE, its the second best thing to do with your lips!! ;) FYI: I DO NOT REPLY TO THE FOLLOWING: *mystery senders without a picture... *emails with text message short hand.. *inappropriate *** age or content.. PS if I have added you to my favorites its because you caught my eye and its my way of "bookmarking "your profile! ;) A first meeting and a first date of course are two different things. A FIRST MEETING: something with no pressure, no expectations...why not enjoy an ice cream and a nice walk or a coffee/tea at a quant coffee house~lets see if we connect and have dating chemistry...if not, no harm , no foul..maybe you make a friend right?!If the chemistry is there ...A FIRST DATE: . that is strickly custom fit. It will depend on the person, personality and our mood.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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