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Kamala, 44

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About Me

I am a confident, independent, adventurous lady who works hard and plays harder; looking for a man that can appreciate that...and keep up! I have a great life to share with the right guy. I took a break from serious dating to focus on raising an incredible daughter. Now that she is in college and on her own, I have the time needed to put into a great relationship. During that time, I became a much stronger person and have figured out what qualities are important to me while creating balance in my life. I am looking for a man who shares similar values, is trustworthy and trusting, takes care of himself physically and well as emotionally, works hard, is truly over whomever may have wronged him (we all have a past...let it go!) and isn't smothering, yet is able to be affectionate. Chemistry is very important to me, but it's only part of what I look for. You never know who you may click with! Please don't shy away from the fact that I currently live "up north". Besides, sometimes it's nice to take a drive in the beautiful country, which just happens to be where I reside. I have alot of hobbies but also look forward to learning things that my partner is interested in. Travel is one of my passions! A partner that likes to take a vacation and an occasional day or weekend trip would be a plus. Must love dogs...or at least be willing to tolerate two smaller ones. My love of photography also makes the camera come out quite often so don't be afraid to smile:) I just started golfing and it isn't too pretty so if you can teach me to golf better, that would be great! I've noticed that about 95% of men on dating sites mention motorcycles and fishing as their favorite hobbies. What's up with that? LOL! Unfortunately, I'm not really into either thing. I've tried them both and although they are ok, I honestly don't care to do either more than once or twice a year. If that's your passion, sorry but keep going. Please don't respond if you smoke, are a heavy drinker, live more than a couple hours away, are separated or any version of "technically still married", are looking for a one-nighter, or are just want someone to raise your young children. I love kids and would enjoy dating someone with them but don't want to raise more little ones. No offense, but there is no sense in wasting my time or yours. There are so many great things to do on a first date. As long as there is some chemistry and spontaneity, it can go well. Generally, coffee, dinner or drinks is a low-key first date that gives two people time to talk but doing something adventurous or new together is always fun! Wine tasting anyone?! Relax, be creative and see what happens!Let's face it, if everyone was taking long walks or enjoying all the candlelit dinners that they talk about in their profiles, the beaches, parks and restaurants would be packed! Besides, a long walk with a stranger doesn't sound like the safest thing, and that expensive dinner could really be a waste of money if there's no chemistry:)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 18-32

    Hi! My name is Abby. I am never married other mixed woman without kids from Rossville, Georgia, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

  • Kandis

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    ABOUT ME: I am easy going, joyful, helpful, creative, hardworking, motivated, love to laugh and make others laugh, not high maintenance (but I do like to look my best). I enjoying trying and learning new things. I have been known to take off and see what the outdoors has to offer...love the water!! I enjoy a day trip up to the lake just to get my fix! Content with a good movie and relaxing on the couch, but don't want to spend my life there. Getting to know new people and trying new things sounds much better! I enjoy the arts, zoo, the park,beach, lakes or ..pretty much anything I can learn from and find new enjoyment with (disclaimer..as long as I can't get injured from it :) )I am just a good ole country girl who loves the simple things in life.......sitting out by a bonfire, going for walks in new places outdoors, and chilling out on the back porch with friends and family for a little party, and yes fishing off a boat or dock is one of my favs! oh and I'm not a hick...but..spitting watermellon seeds to see who has the best distance...come on you know it's fun!I I am a person who has a strong faith and believe in treating others as I want to be treated.I haven't traveled a lot, but really want to get out there and see more of what this world looks like :)Most of my friends and family tell me I am a lot of fun to be around and very insightful about people. Easy to get to know me, I am not one to keep things inside, I will tell you how I feel in a respectful way, but you will know where we stand. I'm not into playing mind games! I'd much rather just be playful!! I can be very goofy and enjoy not taking life to seriously!WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR :I am interested in getting to know someone (at a slow pace) who is willing to completely be themselves. At this stage in life I want it all on the table so we know if we are compatible. I am looking for a best friend, someone who I can share myself with and they are willing to do the same. I am interested in a man who is secure in who he is and is confident, not full of himself, but sure of himself :) I am looking for a man who knows how to treat a lady like she is special to him and wants her to know it. A man who can work hard but be able to come home and share his day and then enjoy each others company :) I want a man to captivate me to the point I smile when we're apart, just because I have thought about how amazing he is!WORK: I am a hairstylist and have a small salon I operate full time and as a marketing tool for new clients I have a part time job at Kohls (it's a great way to meet new people and I often get asked who does my hair...so this has been a win win..I enjoy the work and it's helped my salon business grow) I do work a lot, but I am in control of my schedule, so if I want to take time off I can make time.FAMILY: I have 1 son who's 21 and in college. He's a great man and has a great future ahead of him :)ok, so if your still with me and I haven't lost your interest and sounds like we would have some common things to start a conversation, message me :) I think the first date should allow for conversation, so as long as we can talk and get to know one another it really doesn't matter so much what we do! I think weather permitting meeting at a park or going to the zoo can be enjoyable. Of course a nice meal is always great. I good concert or local band is fun! The possibilities are really endless, it's mostly what allows for us to get to know each other :)

  • Sessy

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Ok, trying this again... Im just looking for a clean cut guy who enjoys the simple things in life. Not into games,don't have time for them. Not into Drugs, or married guys, so if you are on of them DON'T bother. If you are truly on here to find a real relationship and want to chat , then do so. anything else , ya just gotta ask ! sorry, but if you live to far away, no need to message me, like to spare of the moment things , and if you are to far way this would be a problem.... sorry just being real... Meet up, say hi, and see where it goes from there :)

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