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Kamala, 44

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About Me

I am a confident, independent, adventurous lady who works hard and plays harder; looking for a man that can appreciate that...and keep up! I have a great life to share with the right guy. I took a break from serious dating to focus on raising an incredible daughter. Now that she is in college and on her own, I have the time needed to put into a great relationship. During that time, I became a much stronger person and have figured out what qualities are important to me while creating balance in my life. I am looking for a man who shares similar values, is trustworthy and trusting, takes care of himself physically and well as emotionally, works hard, is truly over whomever may have wronged him (we all have a past...let it go!) and isn't smothering, yet is able to be affectionate. Chemistry is very important to me, but it's only part of what I look for. You never know who you may click with! Please don't shy away from the fact that I currently live "up north". Besides, sometimes it's nice to take a drive in the beautiful country, which just happens to be where I reside. I have alot of hobbies but also look forward to learning things that my partner is interested in. Travel is one of my passions! A partner that likes to take a vacation and an occasional day or weekend trip would be a plus. Must love dogs...or at least be willing to tolerate two smaller ones. My love of photography also makes the camera come out quite often so don't be afraid to smile:) I just started golfing and it isn't too pretty so if you can teach me to golf better, that would be great! I've noticed that about 95% of men on dating sites mention motorcycles and fishing as their favorite hobbies. What's up with that? LOL! Unfortunately, I'm not really into either thing. I've tried them both and although they are ok, I honestly don't care to do either more than once or twice a year. If that's your passion, sorry but keep going. Please don't respond if you smoke, are a heavy drinker, live more than a couple hours away, are separated or any version of "technically still married", are looking for a one-nighter, or are just want someone to raise your young children. I love kids and would enjoy dating someone with them but don't want to raise more little ones. No offense, but there is no sense in wasting my time or yours. There are so many great things to do on a first date. As long as there is some chemistry and spontaneity, it can go well. Generally, coffee, dinner or drinks is a low-key first date that gives two people time to talk but doing something adventurous or new together is always fun! Wine tasting anyone?! Relax, be creative and see what happens!Let's face it, if everyone was taking long walks or enjoying all the candlelit dinners that they talk about in their profiles, the beaches, parks and restaurants would be packed! Besides, a long walk with a stranger doesn't sound like the safest thing, and that expensive dinner could really be a waste of money if there's no chemistry:)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Willodean

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am an outgoing and an independent woman, but still have a soft side to me. I like taking walks at night and talking about our day and can’t wait to go to bed at night so I can curl up in your arms and dream. I enjoy life and would love to share that with someone. I love to travel and try to do as much of it as I can. I enjoy the simple things in life, anywhere from camping or to spending the day at the spa getting a great massage. I do enjoy good wine and great company! Every moment is important, because that's all you have. I believe in sincerity, honesty, and dedication. I like spontaneity. I have a huge heart and give a lot, sometimes too much and have been burned, but I still keep giving. I have a wonderful daughter who is grown and lives out of the state which makes it hard for me.I reached out to a couple of friends and asked what they would say about me if they were writing my profile, obviously some I couldn’t post? What my friends say about me: “ A cute, bubbly, smart, witty, and blonde.” “Runs a tight ship.” “Is quite successful, and is the perfect match for someone looking for a long term relationship.” “ Is sincere and honest, almost too honest.” “A good friend to all that know and love her.” “ Stays in great shape.” “Devoted to her friends and those she loves!”I am looking for a committed relationship, that perfectly natural normal thing. I want someone that will put me on a pedestal as I put him on a pedestal. I would like to meet someone that lives life to its fullest and not wanting me to live their life. I need someone that supports me and lifts me up when things are not going right, not bring me down. I'm looking for someone that knows what he wants in life and in a relationship and ready to commit to that relationship and jump in with both feet. It takes two to want and make it work and to make it not work. I'm ready if you are. I've been a widow for too long and ready to move on in my life and share it with that someone special. Having a glass of wine some place not too loud so we can get to know each other!

  • Eleni

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Who I’m hoping to find… someone that is at least most of the following;..likes festivals, concerts, music, beach, tiki bars, and sports...I'm really just looking for a normal, down to earth guy who shares some of the same interests as I do. What I don’t like is superficial….I’m not impressed by money or the car/truck you drive. A little about me…..it's really that easy. I work in a very stressful environment so during my time off I have to de-stress and don't need nor do I like the extra drama...I am a firm believer in chemistry, and if two people have it, it's very powerful. Love is a process that takes time to grow - but starts with an attraction to one another... With that said… just because I am attracted to someone does not mean I will jump into bed with them right away...please show some respect and not call me baby in our first conversation or 1st date...and for goodness sakes....no requests for me to send "spank me panty" photo's to you. Believe it or not, there really are girls that aren't that desperate for a guy to pay attention to them. I mean come on, at least wait until the second date LOL....a little taste of my sense of humor! I hope to hear from you soon, take care :-) The first "meet" should be a quick cup of coffee, short visit to the beach or a happy hour drink, some place casual where we could see if something is there.

  • Mariana

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I enjoy many different activities. I grew up in a large family and figured out quick how to speak up or get passed by. Two of my favorite hobbies would have to be golfing and down hill skiing. Unfortunately, I'm not great at either but alway have fun doing them. I prefer to ski out west. I blame my golfing skills on not enough time. If I could hit a ***balls a day like tiger, I probably would be pretty good! Nah, I wouldn't.... But I still would be having fun!Happy fishingBTW.... YOU must be divorced and at least 35yrs old. Preferably ***Seeing as i have pictures along with my profile, I think it's only fair you attach one to your *** as much as sex is a very important part of any healthy relationship.... It should not be a part of any ***! It depends on the comfort level. I guess meet for a drink or coffee and see what happens

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