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Kamala, 44

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About Me

I am a confident, independent, adventurous lady who works hard and plays harder; looking for a man that can appreciate that...and keep up! I have a great life to share with the right guy. I took a break from serious dating to focus on raising an incredible daughter. Now that she is in college and on her own, I have the time needed to put into a great relationship. During that time, I became a much stronger person and have figured out what qualities are important to me while creating balance in my life. I am looking for a man who shares similar values, is trustworthy and trusting, takes care of himself physically and well as emotionally, works hard, is truly over whomever may have wronged him (we all have a past...let it go!) and isn't smothering, yet is able to be affectionate. Chemistry is very important to me, but it's only part of what I look for. You never know who you may click with! Please don't shy away from the fact that I currently live "up north". Besides, sometimes it's nice to take a drive in the beautiful country, which just happens to be where I reside. I have alot of hobbies but also look forward to learning things that my partner is interested in. Travel is one of my passions! A partner that likes to take a vacation and an occasional day or weekend trip would be a plus. Must love dogs...or at least be willing to tolerate two smaller ones. My love of photography also makes the camera come out quite often so don't be afraid to smile:) I just started golfing and it isn't too pretty so if you can teach me to golf better, that would be great! I've noticed that about 95% of men on dating sites mention motorcycles and fishing as their favorite hobbies. What's up with that? LOL! Unfortunately, I'm not really into either thing. I've tried them both and although they are ok, I honestly don't care to do either more than once or twice a year. If that's your passion, sorry but keep going. Please don't respond if you smoke, are a heavy drinker, live more than a couple hours away, are separated or any version of "technically still married", are looking for a one-nighter, or are just want someone to raise your young children. I love kids and would enjoy dating someone with them but don't want to raise more little ones. No offense, but there is no sense in wasting my time or yours. There are so many great things to do on a first date. As long as there is some chemistry and spontaneity, it can go well. Generally, coffee, dinner or drinks is a low-key first date that gives two people time to talk but doing something adventurous or new together is always fun! Wine tasting anyone?! Relax, be creative and see what happens!Let's face it, if everyone was taking long walks or enjoying all the candlelit dinners that they talk about in their profiles, the beaches, parks and restaurants would be packed! Besides, a long walk with a stranger doesn't sound like the safest thing, and that expensive dinner could really be a waste of money if there's no chemistry:)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I'm a friendly, happy person who enjoys going out for dinner, brew pubs, long hikes, laying on a blanket looking at the stars, dancing, loading up the car and just driving to somewhere new, live music, relaxing while watching TV and having a glass of wine by the fire or out on the deck. I'm pretty laid back. I believe it is important to laugh each day and try not to get caught up in the small things. You will see my smile far more often than my frown! I am the person who enjoys seeing and hearing someone laugh out loud, nothing will warm your soul more than someone who is truly enjoying the moment, its about special moments that are shared and treasured. I am a woman that appreciates doors being opened and thoughtful kind gestures and words. I am very welcoming and loyal as well as a little sassy and playful. I work hard and enjoy the satisfaction that my job brings to me. I surround myself with good friends and value those friendships. I love to travel and drive and explore this beautiful place I am blessed to call home. I’m at ease going to a formal event all dressed up, or going to a game in a sweatshirt and ball cap. I don't like to take myself too seriously, I can be a little goofy, because life is too short. I cherish moments and not material things. I am looking for someone not afraid to be a little goofy and random, someone that enjoys the life they have. I'm looking for someone to share those good and bad times with and explore this crazy life together! A man who can make me laugh, has a great smile, is a good communicator, that is adaptable, adventurous yet dependable, loving, kind and is honest are important qualities to me. I think it's okay if we don't have all the same interests as I just see it as an opportunity to possibly experience something new. This journey was meant for two... let's take a moment and see what happens!

  • Alethea

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am 42 years old and have two boys who are the center of my world. I have been teaching science for 23 years and truly love my job. Along with teaching, I enjoy coaching soccer, basketball, and track. My job allows me time to travel during the summer and see new places and try new things. I am adventurous and enjoy anywhere warm, especially near the water. I have swam with dolphins, zip-lined through the jungles, and para-sailed. I love all types of music, including country, soft and hard rock, and yes even the radio station 93.3, hip hop. I enjoy spending time with family and friends doing just about anything. I can be a bit sarcastic in a fun way and believe that laughter is the best medicine out there. My goals and aspirations are many but mainly they revolve around my kids. I am an honest, loyal, and passionate person and expect nothing less from my partner.I want to get to know someone whom I can talk with about anything and everything. When I am lucky enough to meet that special someone and we decide to make a committment to each other, then there will be no other and I will freely give you my heart. I am not here to change you and do not expect you to try and change me. Rather let's see if we can bring ourselves together and compliment and respect each other. I am very happy with my life and love who I am and what I do. I have accomplished much and continue to move forward and accoplish more each day. Hoever, I do wish to have that special someone in my life. Someone to talk with, cuddle with, and have fun with. So let's see where this leads....... maybe somewhere, maybe nowhere, maybe everywhere. And if nothing else, we have the journey....and, well it could be fun!Good luck to all in finding what you are looking for and do not settle for anything less than what you truly want and deserve, I won't. A cup of coffee or a drink to see if we enjoy each others company to determine if a second date is appropriate.

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I love to have fun, laugh, and enjoy life, would like to find someone that feels the same. I'll keep this short and sweet, but will tell more to anyone interested to find out. I'm just tired of the lies and bullsh#t , and would like to find someone that is true and honest.

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