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Aleah, 43

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Please READ my profile..If you can't handle a successful woman and all that comes with it....It won't work. * I'm not trying to be ugly, but it's my preference and a waste of time contacting me if otherwise.*I am diverse and well rounded. I embrace all life brings and stay busy. Between children and business I work very hard. Being the best person/parent I can be is very important to me. I enjoy my downtime. I love the ocean... I love to travel, I am... adventurous, smart, witty, loyal, outgoing, sweet, kind, confident, generous, loving, affectionate, love to laugh and not being treated like a lady is a deal breaker. I love intellectual conversation...I can go from a ball cap to a ball gown. I'm very down to earth and always try to see the positive side in any situation. God is at the center of my life.I am always open to learning and exploring new things and places. I am a self starter, philanthropist and entrepreneur. I have many different interests, far too many to list here.Please have a pic on your profile, after all initial chemistry is where it starts.I deplore liars. I will not date anyone under 5'10. My preference...Attracted to 5'***'6 tall (I'm 5'7 put on a pair of heels=tall) I am not interested in dating anyone younger than me. There is no wisdom greater than experience. I am attracted to self confident men, not arrogant, there is a big difference. Presence is a must. If you're insecure, I am not the one for you. My guy has to be loving and compassionate, but strong enough to handle me. Looking for quality individuals to spend time with and get to know starting as friends. Live by the Golden Rule...God is in charge of my life and has blessed me many times over. I am not perfect by any means, but strive to be my best. Actions speak louder than words. Control freaks.....Move on!As for you, your sense of humor will make me cry, your intelligence will keep me riveted, your smile will become an indelible image in my mind, and your eyes will reveal your love of humanity. You are never fake or pretentious - it's just not who you are. Your creativity in any way, music, writing, designing, technology, building, painting, hands that heal or words that move people, will capture my curiosity. You naturally have a way of bringing out the best in me and those around you. Being self driven and motivated, you have achieved and take pride in what you do and what you have accomplished. You also know the importance of balance of work and play and the impact of that within your life and that of others around you. Mostly, I would love to find someone that is my best friend, lover, confidante, as well as makes me laugh..loosen up, life doesn't have to be soooo serious all the time! Don't get me wrong, I have serious,deep side, but I love to enjoy life, family, friends and laughter is key. Men, if you are searching for the perfect body and size 2, I am not the women for you.If that's not ok, then pass me by...I'm not looking for the shallow Hal's of the world. ..I'm 43, beautiful, charming, funny, sexy, successful, smart, very smart, an incredible kisser and mother of three! I'm a real women and not trying to be a plastic barbie that's 25 yrs old... I was an All American athlete in 2 sports, basketball and track; a 2time gold medalist in the Jr. Olympics in the ***meters and long jump...a LONG TIME ago...Being at that level fuels me...who I am and responsible for much of my success, but I'm not in shape now. This is just where I am at this particular time in my life. I'd rather spend my extra time being a mother to my children! I believe in honesty...so there ya go! Yes, there must be attraction, but not perfection, nobody's perfect, including you. If you don't like me calling it like it is....good then, Quality Control ;) Honesty is the best policy :) My pics are CURRENT...are yours?Lastly, as direct as this profile comes across, I am quite soft, sweet and tender to those I let in my world and would do anything for those I love!A few fav quotes:How far you go in life depends on your being tender with the young, compassionate with the aged, sympathetic with the striving and tolerant of the weak and strong. Because someday in your life you will have been all of these.~; joy's soul lies in the doing.~William Shakespeare“Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts"~ ~ With the right person anything can be fun! Coffee, lunch or dinner. You typically know right away if there is chemistry or not. No pressure and laid back. Intimate setting so we can talk and get to know each other. Stroll on the beach, a sunset, a glass of wine, dinner in a small quaint cafe, coffee.....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Claris

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am an adventurous, fun-loving, independent woman looking for a man that truly wants a meaningful, long term, committed relationship.....so I guess I need a good tour guide to show me all the beautiful sights this province has to offer.My ideal match must be willing to have too much fun, laugh uncontrollably and get out there and live life to the fullest cause if you don't it's just going to pass you by. You need to have a sense of humour. Dance like no one is watching I say!A few random things about moi....I'm terrified of the dentist. I am an dog lover! Big time! I hate celeryI have a feet phobiaI think bacon makes anything taste better :)I love shoes and I think it's a shame I can only wear one pair at a timeI sometimes swear too muchI hate wearing lipstickI have visible tattoos (apparently that's an issue for some men, although I can't understand why...kinda narrow-minded but hey to each their own I suppose :))....I love my ink and damn proud to show it off.)Contrary to popular BC belief, pot is, in fact, a drug and I am NOT ***friendly. Drugs of any kind have absolutely no place in my life and I expect the same of a potential partner. I take good care of myself physically. I took up running and found it does wonders for the body and mind, as cheesy as that may sound.!!I recently bought a road bike so I'm looking forward to getting more involved with cycling. :)I have a rather sarcastic sense of humour and I like to laugh...alot!! I am looking for someone who is active but who also likes to relax on the sofa and watch a movie sometimes. I want someone who takes pride in their appearance but is not narcissistic. I want someone who respects me and allows me to be the goofball that I am without judgement! Being a romantic wouldn't be such a bad thing either! I would love to meet someone who is spontaneous. I can be a bit of a planner so it would be nice to be with someone who brings out that different side of me!I love mafia movies.....Godfathers....all of them....even #3....Goodfellas or anything like that are my favorites but don't get me wrong, I like a good chick flick too!I love, love, love to cook! I enjoy testing out new ingredients without a cookbook and just see where it goes! If it doesn't work, I can always order pizza! LOLI love to travel. My dream trip would probably be Spain or Tahiti!! Hopefully someday I will get to both places!!If any of this is interesting to you, send me a message! I would love to hear from you. I'm up for anything except a movie or anywhere you can't talk to the person you're with. How can you possibly get to know more about someone on the first date sitting in silence????A fun first date for me would be a tour of a winery, some wine tasting then dinner. The winery tour helps break the ice so by the time we get to dinner we are comfortable with each other!!

  • Talitha

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Trying this again..Hello Im Mary, Thanks for taking time to read my profile, It is long...... I am a hard working single mom of a 8 year old boy. My motto has always been "Work Hard to Play Hard"... it has paid off for me so far and it allows me to do the xtra fun things in life. My son is the biggest part of my life right now. NO DRAMA from his father at all. I have him ***..other than work and some me fun time(great babysitters).. I am looking for someone that can work their time in with me and my busy schedule with your time..to see where things can go! I am not looking for someone to be a father to my son, but a POSITIVE male role model..... If your are not where you want to be in life, or aleast have a goal...I don't want to hear I wish I did this or that..I don't have time for that in my life..Just get to where you want to be...If you live in your mothers basement, you are most likely not the one for me... If you dont eat meat, most likley you are not for me.. I can eat beef every day !! A big fat med FILET from any steak house.... If you dont like sports, most likley you are not for me. If you have a criminal record, most likley not for me, if you are in a custidy battle with your ex for your children/ child, you are not for me. If you are on anti depression meds you are most likely not for me. If you are a swinger or belong in to a swingers club, you are not for me, if you are still sleeping with your ex wife, you are not for me. YOU MUST LOVE LIFE AND what it has to offer.. Its a great thing!! IF YOUR PROFILE STATES "wants to date but nothing serious" THEN YOU ARE NOT FOR ME. I listen to 95.1 Shine Fm radio station, its a christian station.. to and from work..Its up lifitng and it gets me thru the rush hour traffic. I do still enjoy other music as well, and going to concerts...I scalp a ticket when I am not working on Sundays!!, other things that i enjoy are Orioles games, skiing, water and snow, swimming, the beach, fine dinning AND not so fine dinning, trying to find that great burger..ect..anything outside. I enjoy any sporting event, baseball, basketball, football, and I can even enjoy watching a Pro Boxing match.. Enjoy going to some of the little dive bars in my area to grab a drink.. sone of my best times. There are times when I just need to chill and get a movie and have my quiet times too. I love to travel and hope to find someone that enjoys it as well. Having a passport is a must or willing to get one..I have enjoyed life..Harley's and boats are fun too!! lol The good and the Bad,.It has made me the person I am today!! and yes the bad too!! Sometimes the little simple things in life bring me happiness. It's not where I am is about who I am with. A relationship filled with lots of fun, laughter AND Love!! Becoming one together.. One team!I have been running/walking 5ks this year too! So if your into that.. That would be fun too!!!ALL THIS MAY SOUND LIKE I AM ASKING A LOT... BUT I AM WORTH A LOT!! And I Love a Jack and Coke!! drink of choice To be honest..Any Steak House is my favorite...I am not a shell fish eater, but I can crack the crabs for you...But Honest and whats praticle..I am very laid back..I can have fun doing almost anything with the right person...or I can get dressed up for a nice dinner(what woman dosent want to put on a cute little black dress)..Maybe not on the first date though :-)..I don't drink coffee..but that seems to be the line of the century.."Meet for a cup of coffee" maybe ill have to start drinking it..If you ask me to meet for coffee..then it obvious you havent read the last line..and you will never know why I didnt answer you ***'t have to drink alcohol but I dont drink coffee so I'm not meeting in a coffee shop. Not even Starbucks!! Thanks for taking time to read my profile!A movie is not good for the first few dates, how am I suspose to get to know you? A few drinks, maybe an appetizer, something short and simple!I'm not looking for a pen pal or another ***, I do understand the meaning.. Getting to know each other first thru a few *** tex .. But there comes a time when a face to face needs to happen!And please.. Take off your shades, and put on a shirt, if that's all you have to offer is a 6 pack abs..you are most likely not for me!And I don't want to date your Truck, your sports car, your motorcycle, your boat, your painting collection, ect... Having all of these are great!! And can be a great joy. But putting them in place of your pics. They don't sell! Put pics of YOURSELF, smiling and having a great time with all your toys :-) that's what we women want to see! And if you have nothing.. That's ok too! Just have a job, and be a kind loving man!This all may sound harsh to some, but if you really want to get to know me, then you won't find what I will accept and YES there is always exceptions!!! And please stop asking to meet for coffee! It doesn't have to be alcohol.. But I don't drink coffee or any coffee type drinks.. I'm still looking for.. waiting for "The time of my life"I want the last dance.Someone to make my good life...GREAT

  • Liv

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    i dont know many people here but would like to meet some people make friends date hang out have fun. i enjoy golfing curling up and watching movies i like the lake i like to camp i enjoy rock climbing romantic dinners at home and occassionally going to clubs i love concerts ..music is my passion i have 2 cats that i love dearly. i like getting together with friends bbqing hanging out or just having a couple beers i m looking for someone who is outgoing full of energy fun to be around ...i m not judgemental and i dont want someone who is judgemental. i dont want any controllers but someone who is supportive in the decisions i make. i ve never been married just never found the right man .. my ideal first date is nothing spectacular ...maybe take a drive to the lake and just talk get to know one another

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