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So National Geographic says that the mid west is one of the worst places to live if you are single and trying to find your significant other. I'm totally starting to believe it! (Now let's see how many won't read the profile and ask me "what does nat geo say". yes I hear that question a lot. LOL I've been able to spend a lot of time being single and figuring out who I am and what I want and I'm very thankful for that. I'm not willing to settle, I just want the guy who fits nicely in my life and me in his! I'd like to say I'm thoughtful, romantic, independent, loyal and usually full of energy. I like to do soooo many things. I love music, dancing and movies. I've been known to dance for hours. I'm very close to my family and believe that is very important. I also have an awesome group of friends that I spend a lot of time with. So here are some things I'm looking for in a guy: Honesty, loyalty, romantic, independent, strong, thoughtful and passionate. It is important that he is a social creature because a lot of time is spent with family and friends doing different things. Of course the attraction has to be there. It's all about the chemistry together. I'm sorry but you MUST have a picture or I'm not going to meet you. Communication is KEY, no beating around the bush and telling me all the things you think I want to hear just say it like it is and take your chances of it not working out. If it's meant to be, it will be. Please just be yourself. I also need someone who is secure and happy with himself and where he is in his life because only then will he be ready for a relationship.There seem to be many on here that aren't taking this real seriously. I'm not interested in a texting or *** If you are the type to text your first line of communication then you aren't the one for me....I'd much rather talk to you in person then an impersonal text message. :) I think the first date can vary and it's going to depend upon how we've hit it off on the phones calls. More than likely a first date would be for a drink after work or maybe going for a really great cup of cofee at a local coffee house.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Thomasina

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am a woman who enjoys life and all it has to offer. I love my kids and dog to the moon. I work hard and play hard. I'm a golf nut all summer and a curling nerd in the winter. I am creative. Enjoy cooking. I can be silly, funny and sweet. One of the most caring people you will meet and faithful to the end. I have a very good sense of humor, but can't remember a punch line to save my life! Will try almost anything once...I am Romantic. Energetic. Spontaneous. I sing...in my car and the shower. I'm a jeans and t-shirt kinda girl, but have a closet filled with heels and dresses. I am of liberal mind and spiritual heart. I'm ready to start dating... It's been way too long!A favorite monologue by Andy Rooney:As I grow in age, I value women who are over forty most of all. Here are just a few reasons why: A woman over forty will never wake you in the middle of the night to ask, “What are you thinking?” She doesn’t care what you think.If a woman over forty doesn’t want to watch the game, she doesn’t sit around whining about it. She does something she wants to do. And, it’s usually something more interesting.A woman over forty knows herself well enough to be assured in who she is, what she is, what she wants and from whom. Few women past the age of forty give a hoot what you might think about her or what she’s doing.Women over forty are dignified. They seldom have a screaming match with you at the opera or in the middle of an expensive restaurant. Of course, if you deserve it, they won’t hesitate to shoot you, if they think they can get away with it.Older women are generous with praise, often undeserved. They know what it’s like to be unappreciated.A woman over forty has the self-assurance to introduce you to her women friends. A younger woman with a man will often *** her best friend because she doesn’t trust the guy with other women. Women over forty couldn’t care less if you’re attracted to her friends because she knows her friends won’t betray her.Women get psychic as they age. You never have to confess your sins to a woman over forty. They always know.A woman over forty looks good wearing bright red lipstick. This is not true of younger women. Once you get past a wrinkle or two, a woman over forty is far sexier than her younger counterpart.Older women are forthright and honest. They’ll tell you right off if you are a jerk, if you are acting like one! You don’t ever have to wonder where you stand with her.Yes, we praise women over forty for a multitude of reasons. Unfortunately, it’s not reciprocal. For every stunning, smart, well-coiffed hot woman of forty-plus, there is a bald, paunchy relic in yellow pants making a fool of himself with some twenty-two-year-old waitress.Ladies, I apologize. Please show me chivalry and romance are not dead :)Surprise me!

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I'm back in GR after living in VA for almost 5 years what have I missed?! lol. I am a very down to earth,out going,and easy to get along with kinda person,i love to laugh and be silly and see the lighter side of things,my family is very important to me as well.I am looking for someone who is down to earth,likes to laugh,and is not into games,life is too short for all that.Honesty is important and communication ,must have those for a healthy relationship in my eyes. Depends........

  • Madoline

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I'm looking for a good man. That's probably what most women say but I really mean it. Physical attraction is obviously important but character is what really makes the man. Who you are when nobody is watching. :)About me: Optimistic, perceptive, positive, outgoing, happy, goal oriented. I really think dating should be about having a lot of fun while getting to know one another. Let's go shoot some pool while watching a Canucks game and see if that Tortellini guy can bring home the Cup. Bonus points if they let you through the border ;-) I have a Nexus card and yes, it was worth every penny.Relationships are important to me. In fact, they are what is most important in life. Family, friends, colleagues and ultimately the guy I choose to spend the rest of my life with.Would be great if you have goals, if you have spent some time working on you (reflection is good for the soul) and if you choose to live life with hope and optimism, regardless of past experiences.Whatever else you'd be interested in knowing, message me. Don't take too long before asking to meet though. I'm not really into endless *** let's actually live life! The best first date is the one that never ends. You know what I mean, you meet up for coffee at 11am and by 3am you still really don't want to say good-bye.

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