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Trudi, 41

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About Me

First off let's get this out of the way cause I'm tired of getting my hopes up falsely...~If you are married or can't figure out how to get out of your current miserable relationship...keep moving and don't say you're single and waste my time.Now that that's out of the way..LOL~~~I have a busy schedule and not a lot of free time so thought I would try this to see what's out there...meet some new people see where things go from there.I'm told I'm high energy...always on the go. I'm confident and independant and want the same in a partner. I'm outgoing and love to learn about and meet people which is partly why I love my job. I love to be with you, but I think it's healthy for each person to have their own time with friends as well. Jealous or possessive people don't set well with me. I like a man that is assertive yet respectful of women.I love positive people. I try to surround myself with people who bring something to the table and challenge me and encourage me to be the best I can be and I try to do the same for them.I love to laugh and make others laugh. I tend to be sarcastic, but in a humorous way not mean. Life is too short to be so serious all the time. I tend to be a flirt and tease with whomever I'm with. It spices things up. I'm an affectionate person.I tend to stay active hiking and running races so I would like to find someone who is active as well. Get off the couch there's a whole world out there to explore.I'm not superficial or high maintenance. I know I'm not ugly, but I don't think I'm all that either. I'm good with dressing up for a night on the town or wearing a tshirt and jeans watching football and eating wings at home. I also come with a cute set of nerd glasses if you prefer! =)I'm not wanting to get married tomorrow, but if we click I have no problem being monogamous. I like to get to know one person at a time...if it's not working I won't play games I'll tell you it's not working. At the least you may have just made a new friend.A few things to know~~If you live a good distance away or an hour or so away I probably won't respond as i know with my limited free time and kids etc. It makes it difficult to spend quality time together and with even a bigger picture my job doesn't afford well for me to relocate down the road so I tend to stick closer to my area in my choices of dating. ~I do go to bars for music shows, however, if your favorite hang out is the bar you are not the one for me.~I'm not a religious fanatic, but I do attend church and I would like someone that has that same respect and reverence of God and doesn't mind going with me. You won't catch on fire I promise.Anything else just ask....Thanks for stopping by!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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