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Benjamina, 45

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About Me

I could go on about loving long walks on beach holding hands or some get away place on a island, then.......theres the mtns. but I wont.I know with the right person anything we do could be an adventure.I do enjoy the outdoors . I love to do things around t house, I like to cook even though, I'm not that good at it. LOL, but no one has ever starved! I enjoy spending time with my children, we jump on the trampoline, or just lay there and make shapes in the clouds. I love to be outside doing just about anything, camping , hiking or just a simple walk around the block holding hands.I live to sit on my porch under a blanket, drink coffee and listen to the crickets. I have a deep faith in God, and put family first. I love to curl up with a good book,(in your tee shirt. of course) but real life is more fun. I like intellegent conversation, but dont want to have to work to make conversation. It should just come. No high maintance, just love the simple things in life. Life is hard so I try to keep it simple. No drama, no games.P.S. I have been on three dates with people that I have meet on here. The first one, had to blow in his car to keep it going, the second one was about ***lbs, more than his photo, and the third one has been to prison and smokes crack, so if you live at home with your momma, dont have a car or a job, and have been to prison PLEASE do not contact me. Also, just for a heads up, to all the guys :p TALKING ABOUT YOUR PRIVATE PARTS IS NOT A TURN ON!!! Oh and one more thing..............I am not here to have sex.........I am here to meet someone who is looking for something more than just a sexual relationship.........so if all you are looking for is a booty call................please dont respond to me. Simple. Coffee, walk, whatever.........

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Jakki

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Hey There!I was on meetville earlier in the year but got really frustrated at all the fake profiles and /or those contacting me making plans but then canceling them all the time. I deleted my profile completely and tried some other avenues. Just thought I would come back to the site once more to see if there are any new guys out there that maybe are SERIOUS about using the site for which it was intended--> actually meeting someone......First off about me:I am a divorced single mom of 2 children. One just finished her first year at college and my second is a rising 8th graders. I work entirely too much....some of it is out of need, but some of it is to fill my time since I don't have anything else to do to fill my time as my kids are at the age they just don't really need me around as much. I am a Registered NurseI am currently on hiatus from working on my RN -BSN online, but will start back in the FallI am a movie fanaticI love music, it is a big part of my life and sanity--> I only really like Hard Rock/Heavy Metal, a pop song only here and there, but NO COUNTRY OR RAP, NADA NONE AT ALL**** JUST BECAUSE I LOVE MY ROCK MUSIC DOES NOT MEAN I DON'T LIVE A GOD FEARING LIFE! JUST BECAUSE I LISTEN TO HARD MUSIC DOESN'T MEAN I LIVE THE LIFESTYLE!!! I DON'T DRINK, DO DRUGS, OR PARTY, I JUST LOVE THE DRUMS AND THE FAST BEATS OF THE HARDER MUSIC AND IT REALLY IS A STRESS RELIEF TO ME TO LISTEN TO IT. ALSO, THE LYRICS ARE LIKE POETRY SOMETIMES, AND THERE ARE SOME VERY TALENTED SONGWRITERS IN THE GENRE. SO BEFORE YOU PASS ME BY B/C I LOVE HEAVY MUSIC, JUST REMEMBER THAT IT DOESN'T INTERFERE W/ MY BELIEF IN GOD AND MY MORALS AND VALUES**********We go to concerts right often, wish it was more often than it is, but hey, we live in NC, and not all the good rock bands come throughI made my mistakes in my previous marriage. Yes it takes two and both of us made mistakes and I fully own my part in it. But, I have learned from my mistakes and during the past 4 years alone (by choice) I have also learned exactly what i am looking for and what I am willing to compromise on and not compromise on. I really am a traditionalist when it comes to relationships. I believe the man should be the one who is in control and the woman is to be by his side, supporting him. I just ask that my opinions be sought out, listened to, respected, and considered in the big scheme of things. I am educated and book smart, not so much street smart, lolWhat I am looking for:First off, don't tell me you that you are looking for a relationship as the "bait", and when we talk or actually meet, switch it up and all the sudden you are looking for a FWB situation, b/c that is not what i am looking for on this site.I seem to attract the young guys or the men who are my parent's age. Please do not contact me if you are more than ***years older than me (6 MAX), i am sorry, just have had bad luck w/ older guys, so it's just a preference, nothing personalA man w/ his priorities straightEducatedStrong (both emotionally and physically)Respects that I am smart and actually likes that quality Wants to spend time together, actually looks forward to it (not as a plan B)Preferably likes my kind of music (not a requirement, just a big plus) and would be willing to go to concerts w/ meSomeone who doesn't mind going to the movies, as well as pile up on the couch and snuggle while watching one(That's all that i can think of right now, but I am sure more will pop up and I will amend the list as I think of it) I would prefer the man choose, or ask me what I would like.......you really can't plan things like that until you have talked with someone for a while and get a feel for what they are like

  • Shiela

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I love the outdoors!!! I also like time with my friends. I'm also very into my son's football. He comes first in my life. I'm easy going and understanding. The way i look at things is that ur life is only what one make of it!!!! Dinner and a movie would be a great start. But would be up for what someone else would like to do also i'm very open minded .

  • Doriane

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Here are few random things about me.....I am sweet, but strong. I appreciate the simple things in life. Looking for someone who knows what he wants or maybe is just really clear on what he does not want. I dont really watch T.V. I make a effort to maintain a healthy lifestyle. We have something in common if you are emotionally and finacially stable. Its wonderful if you have kids, just be a great Dad!!! I am a fiercely loyal friend. Humor is the grease that keeps life frictions more bearable. Yes, I am a christian who loves Jesus.You can not look for love. You have to be it.You can not look for happiness. You just have to be it.The missing piece is inside you. A table close to the exit? A second date may involve a table a little closer in. :-)

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