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About Me

If I had to peg myself, well...I was that smart girl who was awkward & shy as a kid (I used to wear a patch over one eye, had glasses & braces!) and as the years went by, well...I blossomed.So, what is YOUR story? Here's mine. I moved back to PA five years ago & now work remotely for a non-profit. I'm mainstream and conventional in a lot of ways and in other ways, not at all. I am a down-to-How else would I describe myself? I'm real, down-to-earth, middle of the road extro/introvert, passionate, no-nonsense/straight-forward/bottomline, practical, low-maintenance, educated, confident, intelligent, funny, independent, silly, cosmopolitan yet local at the same time, open-minded, hard--judgmental (except about lazy & unethical people), generous, kind, honest...a lot of people tell me that I'm the same person now as I was years ago - I take pride in that.I'm the type of girl who gets pedicures, but not manicures because I'd mess 'em up too quickly - I actually think that says a lot about me - hahaha.I see myself with a man who is attractive, educated and a professional, but has a creative spirit. If you are a run-of-the-mill conservative suit, I don't think we'll click. He is stable and successful career wise, and happy with his life personally and professionally (like I am). I like a man who has something to say - chatty even - is salt-of-the-earth/no pretenses. Hopefully you can be light-hearted, fun and we can make each other legitimately laugh! Not a deal breaker, but I also tend to like a man who has some grit and is handy - not that you have to be MacGyver but you can try. Also, my expectation is that you have an active life, interests, and the like. For more about me, check out my profile on OKC at http://www.another dating site.com/profile/kartemis.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Jadwiga

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    It's very hard to capture in two dimensions all that we are in three and make concrete the intangibility of human chemistry, but here goes:I am a very modern, independent woman with very old -school core values. Trust, integrity and kindness are attributes I strive to maintain and want in my partner as well. I'm very grounded and responsible, but also have a great sense of humor (l love comedy shows and can be witty but also literally laugh out loud at Family Guy) and def. don't take myself too seriously. I'm a great listener and enjoy a good conversation. Physical attraction is IMPORTANT. I pride myself on staying in shape and being stylish so I want a man who does the same (leave the feathered hair, tube sox, high-wasted "dad" jeans, and leather bomber jackets at home,please). Im looking for a well-; someone who is a self- Someone who enjoys the beach and outdoor activities (hiking, walking, biking), country music (but hating it isn't an automatic rule out lol), concerts, movies, NYC and traveling. want someone who will join me in exploring more foreign lands and cultures.If any of this is of interest to you, *** we'll see where things go. Good luck in your search! A short pre-date over coffee or drinks is best to see if the attraction and chemistry is there in person.

  • Cuc

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I'm Lookin for a GREAT GUY!!! ARE YOU THE ONE???? I am a mother of 2 gorgeous teenagers, girl and a boy. I love spending time with my family, that is VERY important to me. Please have a "good" relationship with your family, I think that reflects a lot about a person. I love kids, if you have kids I think thats great, no problem here. I never did drugs. I have no desire to either. And I hate smoking...Yuck!!!I love going to basketball and baseball games. Mets not Yankees. Let's go on a rollercoaster together!! Golf is boring. Why do you wear sunglasses and a hat in ur profile pics. Do you ONLY have pictures of yourself with your shirt off. White not Red. Need help finding a good Red! Love to dance. It would be nice to actually SEE your face in the picture you have posted....lol "LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP" means LONG TERM! Just because we have been e-mailing , texting or calling for a day doesn't count as "LONG TERM" and that you are now allowed to send me a picture of you in your underwear!!! I like to have fun but maybe we could meet or even TALK first before you start SEX TEXTING me!!!! LOLI am an outgoing person with great friends. I love to laugh and can be silly when the time is right. Love going out for a night on the town as much as I love staying home curled up & snuggling in bed watching something on TV! I'm the girl you wanna introduce to MAMA!!I would like someone who is sharp and GETS it the first time around. I need someone to challenge me. I like a funny guy. I could tend to come off as sarcastic, so if you can't take it TOO BAD!!! LOLI appreciate when people are good to me. I am trustworthy, honest and a friend to the end. It would just be nice to share things WITH someone. I want to be wanted again...Sounds corny...Tough on the outside---mushy on the inside....I'm a very strong and independent person when I have to be, However, I want to be able to go to that special someone and just have him hold me & tell me everything is going to be okay***i don't NEED someone ...I WANT someone to share my life with..... First I would really just like to meet and chat, just see if we can connect. then take it easy and see what happens.

  • Melodi

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Once I heard love described as friendship on fire...I guess it stuck. I am looking for that special person who can accept me for me, who makes me laugh 'til I can't breathe and isn't afraid to tell me the truth, regardless of what it is... for that person who is challenging, fun and able to have a disagreement, and then get over it...someone I can't wait to call whether I have had a stressful day or a great one because I want to tell him all about it...and someone who gets that I am still a work in progress, always looking to make my life better, not perfect in any way, except maybe a perfect partner for someone out there. Please Love Dogs...and cats ...I have both and always will (shelter adoptions with a lifetime home).I am looking for an actual relationship, where we start off just dating and if we hit it off then we choose to be exclusive. I am not looking for penpals, games, one night stands or "just casual". I have known lots of couples who are opposites and I tend to be attracted to opposites as well, but that generally doesn't last. Some differences keep things from being boring or make things work more smoothly. But generally we should be more alike in our core values than not.Looking forward to meeting you =) For a first date I like to focus more on just relaxing and having fun than planning a date so either drinks or dessert at a cafe or bar...or in the nicer weather a round of mini golf or a walk thru a park. Casual lunch might work too.

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