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Marlen, 42

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About Me

If I had to peg myself, well...I was that smart girl who was awkward & shy as a kid (I used to wear a patch over one eye, had glasses & braces!) and as the years went by, well...I blossomed.So, what is YOUR story? Here's mine. I moved back to PA five years ago & now work remotely for a non-profit. I'm mainstream and conventional in a lot of ways and in other ways, not at all. I am a down-to-How else would I describe myself? I'm real, down-to-earth, middle of the road extro/introvert, passionate, no-nonsense/straight-forward/bottomline, practical, low-maintenance, educated, confident, intelligent, funny, independent, silly, cosmopolitan yet local at the same time, open-minded, hard--judgmental (except about lazy & unethical people), generous, kind, honest...a lot of people tell me that I'm the same person now as I was years ago - I take pride in that.I'm the type of girl who gets pedicures, but not manicures because I'd mess 'em up too quickly - I actually think that says a lot about me - hahaha.I see myself with a man who is attractive, educated and a professional, but has a creative spirit. If you are a run-of-the-mill conservative suit, I don't think we'll click. He is stable and successful career wise, and happy with his life personally and professionally (like I am). I like a man who has something to say - chatty even - is salt-of-the-earth/no pretenses. Hopefully you can be light-hearted, fun and we can make each other legitimately laugh! Not a deal breaker, but I also tend to like a man who has some grit and is handy - not that you have to be MacGyver but you can try. Also, my expectation is that you have an active life, interests, and the like. For more about me, check out my profile on OKC at http://www.another dating site.com/profile/kartemis.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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