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Erica, 44

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About Me

Right now I'm at a point in my life where I just want to laugh and just have some fun and experience what life has to offer.IF... I were to take a chance on someone, they'd have to be PRETTY DAMN AMAZING! I am a single mother. My kids are one of the most important, precious things in my life! They are the most awesome kids in the world! (My kids think I’m weird because I like to act wild and crazy like a kid sometimes....Their like "Mom your embarrassing"...Lol) I want to meet someone who is not selfish, arrogant, ***, or superficial. I wanna find someone who makes me laugh and with someone who I can easily talk to. I think that its important to start out as friends first... if it turns into something more than friends then that’s cool ...chemistry is a must!...If I don't feel a connection with someone in the beginning I don't think it will happen...I just want an honest, trust- worthy man who doesn’t think he's better than me and who is not unpredictable. I have absolutely no time for Bullsh*t and I don't like Players...Im not into mind games. I want to find a REAL MAN (Not a boy who hasn’t grown up yet!) He has to be caring, funny, strong, confident, down to earth, and passionate, financially independent, and knows how to make me smile :-) I want someone who isn’t afraid to share his feelings, who cares about my happiness and well-being. I want someone who wants to be near me and wants to spend time with me. trust is a very important thing to me (If I can't trust you I won't give you my heart). I don't want a man who is all talk... But shows me how much he cares through his actions. I need my man to be my truest friend who will love me unconditionally! I can’t not stand men who are selfish...who put their own needs before their woman’s...I am more attracted to taller men but as long as you are somewhat taller than me your good! Muscles are good (I can't get into very skinny men with no muscles)... You don't have to be a body builder (Too much muscle it not that appealing to me too ~ It scares me, but as long as you are not a toothpick then good) Tattoos are a plus... Don't know why but they turn me on...Lol I've never really been swept off of my feet. Ive always settled for less, and I am not used to being treated well. So If there is a man out there who will make my heart skip a beat... You will be a very lucky man because I treat my man like a King! And I would love to find someone who would treat me Like a Queen... I'll even settle for a Princess...I also would want to find someone who gets along with and really likes my kids. I am a Feisty Irish Redhead who is... smart, kind, compassionate, caring, understanding, unique, talented, family oriented, I have career goals, I'm easy to get along with, confident, passionate, strong willed, & I believe in myself. I'm spontaneous and I like trying new things and I like being around people who are postitive and make me smile... I will give you the same respect you give me. I am a very affectionate woman...I love holding hands, hugging & kissing and cuddling. I am not ashamed of my sensuality I am very playful and like being intimate... I need someone who is sensual, passionate and not boring. I AM WHO I AM and I do not to need to impress or prove myself to anyone, And PLEASE don't waste my time Life is too Damn Short! ... I'm funny, sarcastic, I usually dont get mad but if someone crosses the line ~ watch out my Irish temper will emerge....hehehe....Just don't piss me off and we will be fine...Lol, I can be corny and goofy at times, but when theres a need to be serious I will be... I am "Old School"... My mom taught me right from wrong and how we should respect our elders (kids now a day do not get this concept!..my soul runs very deep... I am grateful for what God has given me and I am thankful for what I have and try and not take anything for granted (things could always be worse ~ Like my mother says) Though I have been through many hard times I have learned valuable lessons from the past. Heartache and pain are only temporary and things will always get better...I always think to myself "This Too Shall Pass". I'm not perfect and make mistakes just like everyone else, but I do strive to be a good person everyday and do the right thing. I believe in Karma... "What comes around goes around!"I love my job as substitute teacher! (Kids are just awesome!) I love getting a chance to make a difference in a kids life! They say and do the funniest things. I fight for what I believe in! I won't tolerate bullying! And I will stick up for the little guy. I can't stand when someone makes fun of someone else! If I'm around when that happens watch out cause I wont be nice and I will tell you straight up that you suck! My goal is to get my teaching certificationI will do anything for you without expecting anything in return. I am a very honest upfront woman. I like things simple. I listen to my inner voice and try to follow my heart. I like to live in the moment... "Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away." Somewhere quiet so we can talk and get to know each other

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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