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Erica, 44

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About Me

Right now I'm at a point in my life where I just want to laugh and just have some fun and experience what life has to offer.IF... I were to take a chance on someone, they'd have to be PRETTY DAMN AMAZING! I am a single mother. My kids are one of the most important, precious things in my life! They are the most awesome kids in the world! (My kids think I’m weird because I like to act wild and crazy like a kid sometimes....Their like "Mom your embarrassing"...Lol) I want to meet someone who is not selfish, arrogant, ***, or superficial. I wanna find someone who makes me laugh and with someone who I can easily talk to. I think that its important to start out as friends first... if it turns into something more than friends then that’s cool ...chemistry is a must!...If I don't feel a connection with someone in the beginning I don't think it will happen...I just want an honest, trust- worthy man who doesn’t think he's better than me and who is not unpredictable. I have absolutely no time for Bullsh*t and I don't like Players...Im not into mind games. I want to find a REAL MAN (Not a boy who hasn’t grown up yet!) He has to be caring, funny, strong, confident, down to earth, and passionate, financially independent, and knows how to make me smile :-) I want someone who isn’t afraid to share his feelings, who cares about my happiness and well-being. I want someone who wants to be near me and wants to spend time with me. trust is a very important thing to me (If I can't trust you I won't give you my heart). I don't want a man who is all talk... But shows me how much he cares through his actions. I need my man to be my truest friend who will love me unconditionally! I can’t not stand men who are selfish...who put their own needs before their woman’s...I am more attracted to taller men but as long as you are somewhat taller than me your good! Muscles are good (I can't get into very skinny men with no muscles)... You don't have to be a body builder (Too much muscle it not that appealing to me too ~ It scares me, but as long as you are not a toothpick then good) Tattoos are a plus... Don't know why but they turn me on...Lol I've never really been swept off of my feet. Ive always settled for less, and I am not used to being treated well. So If there is a man out there who will make my heart skip a beat... You will be a very lucky man because I treat my man like a King! And I would love to find someone who would treat me Like a Queen... I'll even settle for a Princess...I also would want to find someone who gets along with and really likes my kids. I am a Feisty Irish Redhead who is... smart, kind, compassionate, caring, understanding, unique, talented, family oriented, I have career goals, I'm easy to get along with, confident, passionate, strong willed, & I believe in myself. I'm spontaneous and I like trying new things and I like being around people who are postitive and make me smile... I will give you the same respect you give me. I am a very affectionate woman...I love holding hands, hugging & kissing and cuddling. I am not ashamed of my sensuality I am very playful and like being intimate... I need someone who is sensual, passionate and not boring. I AM WHO I AM and I do not to need to impress or prove myself to anyone, And PLEASE don't waste my time Life is too Damn Short! ... I'm funny, sarcastic, I usually dont get mad but if someone crosses the line ~ watch out my Irish temper will emerge....hehehe....Just don't piss me off and we will be fine...Lol, I can be corny and goofy at times, but when theres a need to be serious I will be... I am "Old School"... My mom taught me right from wrong and how we should respect our elders (kids now a day do not get this concept!..my soul runs very deep... I am grateful for what God has given me and I am thankful for what I have and try and not take anything for granted (things could always be worse ~ Like my mother says) Though I have been through many hard times I have learned valuable lessons from the past. Heartache and pain are only temporary and things will always get better...I always think to myself "This Too Shall Pass". I'm not perfect and make mistakes just like everyone else, but I do strive to be a good person everyday and do the right thing. I believe in Karma... "What comes around goes around!"I love my job as substitute teacher! (Kids are just awesome!) I love getting a chance to make a difference in a kids life! They say and do the funniest things. I fight for what I believe in! I won't tolerate bullying! And I will stick up for the little guy. I can't stand when someone makes fun of someone else! If I'm around when that happens watch out cause I wont be nice and I will tell you straight up that you suck! My goal is to get my teaching certificationI will do anything for you without expecting anything in return. I am a very honest upfront woman. I like things simple. I listen to my inner voice and try to follow my heart. I like to live in the moment... "Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away." Somewhere quiet so we can talk and get to know each other

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lucrecia

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    in my life I seem to encounter waves of change… what I mean is, as I grow and my life's circumstances change around me, I seem to be constantly trying to redefine who I am. Switching careers, going through the phases of entering and then ending a marriage, moving, becoming a mom… all these events present challenges to maintaining a sense of individuality. I keep trying new things, new ways to keep it real and remind myself of the enjoyments of life.I love to write, but when I can't get to the computer or focus enough to put pen to paper I enjoy daydreaming. I smile a lot… because I'm usually thinking about things that make me laugh. I'm a little bit shy and try to cover it up by being silly.I play the flute, sometimes to get my daughters to eat their dinner but sometimes I just play it because I love playing. I belong to a flute choir, and we perform about once a month. I've played since I was really young, maybe third grade, and I still enjoy it every time I pick it up. It makes me especially happy to be able to share this with others through performance. Who I'm looking for: PLEASE NOTE: If you are an overw***something-yr-old, please DO NOT CONTACT ME. If you have nothing to say, DO NOT CONTACT ME. If you have no picture and no information in your profile, DO NOT CONTACT ME. If you don't speak or write fluently in English, or have limited education, please DO NOT CONTACT ME. Just because I'm no longer in my 20s doesn't mean I'm interested in settling. No plumber-butts need apply.I'm adventurous… I like skydiving, playing pool, target shooting, roller blading, sailing & wind surfing (although I haven't been in years!) riding on the back of other people's motorcycles, going swimming at night…I love wine and good conversation! Pour me a glass and get me talking; as long as you're conversational we'll have a good time.If worse comes to worst I'll get a little giggly and start telling you stupid stuff like how my youngest daughter likes to compose songs which she yells at the top of her lungs while playing the piano (which she is doing as I write this...) My one stipulation is that you be reasonably open-minded. I sometimes get tired of political discussions, because it seems that most people who want to discuss politics seem to be far more opinionated than open-minded — but I'll give it a shot.I'm interested in someone highly intelligent, successful, with a strong personality - confident, but not arrogant; active, athletic, adventurous, kind, sincere, with a sense of humor...Someone who has something to say to me

  • Margret

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Born in TX, raised in OH, I grew up surrounded by many uncles and male cousins, which explains why I am such a sports enthusiast. I also love to follow college and professional football (Buckeyes and NY Football Giants). This is the best time of the year ... Football AND basebalI season in full swing. I would like to find someone who appreciates this side of me, but doesn't forget that I am a woman who likes to be treated like a lady.Although I put that I am looking for a relationship, I am open to a long term relationship if it should lead to that. That wasn't really an option on the list ... lol. I would like to find someone who likes to travel ... whether it be here in the greatest Country (and City) in the World or abroad or whether it be a day trip or longer. Any suggestions where to go this summer? A good a sense of humor is a huge plus; I love to laugh ... it can help you get through the hard times. I like a man who is strong, confident, comfortable with himself, and not afraid to show his romantic side as well as his passion for life. I am pretty flexible ... I enjoy a nice evening out on the town (casual or formal) as well as a nice, relaxing evening at home ... with the right guy, of course. It's really about being with the right person rather than the location.I am extremely passionate about the things I care abut, loyal, and funny.Finally, with all due respect, if you are married or have a girlfriend, I am not interested. I am also not interested in having a pen pal. If you have no intention whatsoever to meet, please do not contact me. Thank you and best of luck in your search. :-) Meeting for a coffee tends to take away some of that "first meet" pressure ... maybe a drink if it is not too loud of a place. Then we go from there ...

  • Lawanda

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    ******NOT INTERESTED IN A TEXTING RELATIONSHIP****** Text is fine in the beginning, but if your not ready to talk, or meet..Please move on. Life is to short!!!I have read through so many profiles and I am just wondering why this is so hard. If we are all looking for some one then why are there so many people single and fed up? I am a easy going, fun person. I enjoy life, but would love to find some one to enjoy it with me. A true parnter in crime, best friend. I have never been a barbie girl, and never will. I have curves and proud of them! I do believe there has to be a physical atrraction, but it's not everything, eventually looks fail and hopefully you will be left with an ugly best friend who can make fun of you and you them! I can write about my likes and dislikes, but really at this stage of the meeting game, do you care? I would rather know what you want out of life and what your looking for *** knowing that you like movies and rock music! So does EVERYONE!!!Write to me, write something to me that's real, about yourself or your life! I will respond with the same. I am not here looking for a FWB relationship or chat friend, so if you are ready for adventure...I'd love to hear from you!Just because my ad is up here and it clearly states what I am looking for, does NOT and I do mean NOT give you license to speak to me in vulgar terms. I am not a prude in any way. However, I am looking for someone with some compassion and a sense of who a woman is and how she needs and wants to be treated. If you just want to talk about your manhood and how big it is, then move on.... We will work it out, it doesn't really matter where you are it's the company your with!

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