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Alvena, 42

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About Me

Disclaimer: I have read what I wrote and it tends to sound rather formal. That really isn’t who I am. I am a down to earth person who will pretty much tell it like it is (or at least how I see it). Notice the line about making others laugh, this is something I love to do! Anyways, read on and you’ll see what I mean…I value people who exhibit life ambition. This doesn’t mean that you are constantly looking to climb the corporate ladder, but rather you are always looking for ways to better yourself and broaden your horizon. This could mean schooling, but mainly it is doing the things that make you happy with who you are as a person. It could be learning a new hobby, taking a class or face and overcome a fear. A personal example would be facing my fear of claustrophobia by crawling through an enclosed maze in the dark. My heart was beating out of my chest and I hated every second of it, but once I was through I was very proud of my accomplishment.Family and friends are a very important part of life. I was raised within a loving family and I am still close with all of them. Even though we are now scattered around the U.S., we stay in touch and visit when possible. If my family or a friend needed me, I take pride in being there to support them in whatever way I am able.I am an outgoing person. I love to make people laugh. I would say that my brand of humor is sarcastic, but not mean. I am honest, sometimes I think I might be too honest. If someone asks a question looking for the answer to be what he or she wants to hear, I may be the right person. However, if I sense that this is the case I will ask the person if they really want to hear my opinion. Just because I’m related to you or your friend doesn’t mean that I will lie to you and tell you what you want to hear. I am an independent person, but I would love to find someone to share my life with. I don’t need anyone, but I want a special someone in my life. I feel that if you need someone, a relationship won’t work. If I need someone to be happy then I am not happy with myself, and honestly, it’s too much pressure to put on someone else to make them responsible for my happiness. I think it is important for two people to have shared interests, but also to have different interest as well. Variety is the spice of life, or so I have heard. The perfect first date is something that allows plenty of time for conversation and getting to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Hi! I am a professional writer, ***with an athletic build - I've played sports my whole life. So...loving sports is a must for me. :) I adore animals (also a must) and foster rescue dogs. I have my own house and a solid career. Though I've had several longterm relationships, none have ended in marriage, usually because of distance ***moves for a job, etc. I don't think I was ready then, but I am now. Regarding kids, my profile says "undecided" but that's not true - I would love kids, definitely to adopt. But if you have kids and do not want more that's OK too. At age 40 I understand I am probably not going to have kids via the traditional route if at all - I believe a relationship with your partner must absolutely come first before children should even be considered.My career goal is to continue writing and be self-supportive; I'm very good with money and financing. This helps as I like to travel (who doesn't?) and scuba dive.I think what makes me unique is I am extremely passionate and have been told I have a "childlike" response to life. I like that. It's important to have enthusiasm for life. I am easily entertained and can find fun in mundane activities. People tell me I am funny. As for flaws, I am definitely not a patient person (traffic, etc.), and I tend to overload myself until I get stressed out. That's when someone cool comes in to tell me it's going to be OK. :) Finally, it says to mention music ***Coffee/quick drinks are good for a first meeting (please call, texting is too disconnected). Would love to have a nice dinner outside somewhere, followed by some live music. Would also be fun to meet with our dogs in a park somewhere and have a picnic. This would also make my dog very happy. :)

  • Quinn

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I try my best to be good at a variety of different things rather than exerting all of my energy towards one aspect of my life. Search for energetic person, who hasn’t yet got tired of fun.

  • Carina

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    NOTE: SORRY GUYS BUT I DON'T DATE OUTSIDE MY RACE GOOD LUCK AN HAPPY FISHING!!!!!I am a 42 year old women that loves to go to karaoke on Thursday nights with her friends. I am very outgoing, honest, and good hearted. I enjoy going to see my friends band Due Process play every time they are playing near by. I love singing and dancing and just hanging out with my friends and having a lot of fun. The music I like is all 80s and classic rock old country. I have even lost weight because, of all the dancing don't plan on stopping! Also I am a big animal and nature lover! I am looking for single white men that are hard working, honest, outgoing , good hearted and who cares about there health and staying in good shape. Must like dogs for I have a small dog! I am looking for men that don't smoke or do drugs and is a lite drinker. I have a 13 year old son so you must like kids! I have been separated for a little over a year and looking to get back out into the dating seen. Most of all I don't play games what you see is well what you get. I speak my mind and sometimes it gets me into a little bit of trouble with my girlfriends, who can't believe I have the guts to say what I did lol !! If you're looking for a women with a son who is short with some weight that I am working on to lose, with a big heart then I just may be the one for you.By the way my schooling did not stop at HS I did go Tesst Collage back in ***and took a OCS computer training. Like every one I do have my dream as this year I know I can make them come true! I know how to start my book I always wanted to write only now with dragons help I am hoping in 2 years form now I will have two books out and be working on a 3rd. I like going out to nice dinner and maybe going to a club or bar for a few drinks and dancing. Going to my karaoke bar for singing and dancing. I also like going to a movie and dinner. I would enjoy going to DC and hanging out down by the mall maybe see some of the sites. I am open to new things to do on a first date.

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