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About Me

Disclaimer: I have read what I wrote and it tends to sound rather formal. That really isn’t who I am. I am a down to earth person who will pretty much tell it like it is (or at least how I see it). Notice the line about making others laugh, this is something I love to do! Anyways, read on and you’ll see what I mean…I value people who exhibit life ambition. This doesn’t mean that you are constantly looking to climb the corporate ladder, but rather you are always looking for ways to better yourself and broaden your horizon. This could mean schooling, but mainly it is doing the things that make you happy with who you are as a person. It could be learning a new hobby, taking a class or face and overcome a fear. A personal example would be facing my fear of claustrophobia by crawling through an enclosed maze in the dark. My heart was beating out of my chest and I hated every second of it, but once I was through I was very proud of my accomplishment.Family and friends are a very important part of life. I was raised within a loving family and I am still close with all of them. Even though we are now scattered around the U.S., we stay in touch and visit when possible. If my family or a friend needed me, I take pride in being there to support them in whatever way I am able.I am an outgoing person. I love to make people laugh. I would say that my brand of humor is sarcastic, but not mean. I am honest, sometimes I think I might be too honest. If someone asks a question looking for the answer to be what he or she wants to hear, I may be the right person. However, if I sense that this is the case I will ask the person if they really want to hear my opinion. Just because I’m related to you or your friend doesn’t mean that I will lie to you and tell you what you want to hear. I am an independent person, but I would love to find someone to share my life with. I don’t need anyone, but I want a special someone in my life. I feel that if you need someone, a relationship won’t work. If I need someone to be happy then I am not happy with myself, and honestly, it’s too much pressure to put on someone else to make them responsible for my happiness. I think it is important for two people to have shared interests, but also to have different interest as well. Variety is the spice of life, or so I have heard. The perfect first date is something that allows plenty of time for conversation and getting to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Nanette

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I really am a "glass half-full" person. I love to run and love the outdoors. I am a very active person and exercise 6 days a week. I am very happy when I'm lifting in the gym with my trainer, riding my bike with a friend, boogie boarding with my kids, or running in the zone by myself. I have a lot of energy and take pride in taking good care of myself. My friends describe me as a warm, fun, and faithful friend. I am a giver and show how much I care for the people that I love every day. I go out of my way to help anyone.;Life is way too short to go through the motions." I completely embrace that sentiment and try live my life to the fullest. I am not interested in wasting time - mine or anyone else's. I have two amazing sons who play ice hockey (my favorite sport). I am kind of a tough mom - who tries to teach them how to fish - not do it for them - so that they become strong and self-sufficient. And, I make them work for a win in sports/board games/etc. when they play against me! It is paying off, as they have a lot of friends and are the kind of polite teenagers that parents want around their kids.I come from a big family -- and we are close. I love to cook. Cooking is cathartic and a fun social event for me. I have a great group of friends and enjoy exercising with them, dancing to a local band, or hanging out with a glass of wine when I don't have my boys. Hard rock, classic rock, blues, jazz, pop, dance, classical, reggae.... And I love to dance. I'm looking to meet someone who can keep up with me. Who knows himself and is happy with who he is. Who doesn't take himself too seriously. Someone who is around my age (under ***or younger (over 30). Who is fun, local, educated, warm, funny, intelligent, athletic, handsome, and self-sufficient. Someone who is planful. but also spontaneous. Who thrives on trying new and different experiences. A great listener with genuine empathy for others. A straight shooter. Someone who will bring out the best in me. I work hard at all relationships and know there is a give and take. I'm not looking for perfection (that would be silly), but online dating does give you the opportunity to express what is your ideal...IMPORTANT: If you do not exercise on a regular basis and have a healthy lifestyle, then I am most likely not the person for you, based on past experience. This is important to me - I am not a couch potato. I am also clear on my age range - if you fall outside of it, my apologies, but I will more than likely not reply to you. A cup of coffee or a drink to see if there is chemistry. And then see where it goes from there!

  • Richelle

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I am a thoughtful person who enjoys spending time with family and friends. My height is about 5 foot 3 inches and my weight is about ***pounds. I am extremely passionate about nutrition, physical fitness, and working out. I work out daily using many different types of equipment and DVD's. My next challenge is P90x. I have brown hair with subtle highlights and brown eyes. I come from an Italian family, so I enjoy cooking and eating out. I love most kinds of music and movies.I love to laugh, and I have an easygoing, fun personality, but I am assertive. Being a sentimental person, I love having deep conversations about fun memories, taking pictures, and reminiscing. Some of my values include being truthful and kind. I also am very grateful -- I don't take people for granted. Another important value to me is respect. Respect is, I believe, what every successful relationship is built on. I have a busy lifestyle because I am a teacher and have to do some work at home. I have an 9 year old son who is wonderful, funny, and a mathematical genius. I love him more than words can say and he means the world to me. He sees his father every other weekend and on two weekdays. My perfect match is a caring man who also values relationships with family and friends, is very active and physically fit, and has a good sense of humor. My perfect match will also enjoy being with a lovable, young boy and may or may not have children of his own

  • Sung

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Simple, professional woman looking to meet a nice man with similar interests for long term companionship. I love animals and have 2 dogs and 2 cats. Love the change in seasons as long as those seasons are spring - fall. I'm a country music fan, but listen to a variety of other music too. I work hard to travel the world and travel as often as I can. It's great to travel in our own country, it's a beautiful, wonderful place,and I've seen most of it. There is so much more out there. My match would be someone that travels and is just as curious about the world as I am. I want to meet someone serious about spending time with me. I'm an open book. Anything you'd like to know, just ask.

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