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Saige, 42

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About Me

basically i'm a 41 yr old mom with a 4 yr old daughter who is my world. i'm not looking for a dad for her, she has one. i'm looking for someone for me. remember the days when you were in your 20s and you just stated dating someone without knowing where it was going? if it lead somewhere awesome, and if it didn't, who cared, you had a life lesson. that's basically what i am doing here. would i like to meet my soul mate, of course. but do i think i'm going to meet him tomorrow...no. i'm realistic, very easy going, and laid back. i love to laugh and have a good time. even though i am 41 i neither look nor act like it, but i do know how to be serious when i need to be. i'm looking for a honest, easy going, positive (do not like negativity), caring, open, good at communication, attractive, basically an all around good guy. i know i am what is considered a bbw, and i am not that way because of not taking care of myself. i actually got cancer in my thyroid several years ago and had to have it removed, when that happened i ballooned up. it really sucked, but i don't care. i still look at myself as a sexy, beautiful, caring, having lots to give a man. i am an awesome girlfriend, i do lots of little things for the one i'm with just to let them know i care. actions speak louder than words i always say. A first date could be anything from dinner/drinks to movies to shooting pool and beer. I can have fun doing anything as long as the person I am with is fun. Please do remember I have a child and can not just set up a date last minute unless you want me to bring her along...lol. I have to get a sitter like a normal person and can not just whip someone up with my magic wand. ***\\***Please Place***\\\***This Ribbon On***Your Page If***Someone You***Know Is Fighting---\\\***Cancer Or You've***\\***Lost Someone To***\***Cancer.***\\\***Cures Start***\\\---With Us..

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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