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Arnita, 42

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About Me

ok, so, about me...I am a fairly sarcastic person & tend to appreciate that in others. I need to be able to have an intellectual conversation with someone but also be silly & stupid sometimes. I am compassionate & empathetic. You don't know what any other person is or has gone through, and I think it's important to remember that as you go through your own life.-love the snow & snowboarding but also love just sitting on the beach & reading a book. I couldn't live in a place where the seasons didn't change. I like to be outside on a deck drinking beers, having a nice dinner with some wine, laying in bed listening to the rain, walking outside while it's snowing, cuddling on the couch, going on a long walk, hike, or run and having that exhausted but great feeling of accomplishment at the end. I can't cook - at all - just being honest :-) I love my Doc Martens, and all of my tattoos &;..but the hat is a must! ha ha) I like sports - live or on TV, watching football in the fall with a bunch of friends or going to a baseball game in the summer! I like all kinds of music but NOT country (with the exception of Johnny Cash) and mostly alternative...Social Distortion, New Order, the Smiths, Metric, Offspring, Keane, Spinnerette... I have 2 children who are with me 50% of the time. They mean the world to me & we are absolutely a package deal. There is little that is more important to me than helping them become kind, genuine individuals. I am not looking for someone to be a father to my children. They have a father & he is a good dad. I am here looking for someone for me. Someone that I can connect with. Wow, there's so much more to me that can't be explained here. If you want to know anything, just ask... :-)Please don't contact me if you ***have taken a picture of yourself w/your cell phone in your bathroom mirror or ***I can see shotguns in the background of your picture. coffee or a drink, walk or hike.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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