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Arnita, 42

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About Me

ok, so, about me...I am a fairly sarcastic person & tend to appreciate that in others. I need to be able to have an intellectual conversation with someone but also be silly & stupid sometimes. I am compassionate & empathetic. You don't know what any other person is or has gone through, and I think it's important to remember that as you go through your own life.-love the snow & snowboarding but also love just sitting on the beach & reading a book. I couldn't live in a place where the seasons didn't change. I like to be outside on a deck drinking beers, having a nice dinner with some wine, laying in bed listening to the rain, walking outside while it's snowing, cuddling on the couch, going on a long walk, hike, or run and having that exhausted but great feeling of accomplishment at the end. I can't cook - at all - just being honest :-) I love my Doc Martens, and all of my tattoos &;..but the hat is a must! ha ha) I like sports - live or on TV, watching football in the fall with a bunch of friends or going to a baseball game in the summer! I like all kinds of music but NOT country (with the exception of Johnny Cash) and mostly alternative...Social Distortion, New Order, the Smiths, Metric, Offspring, Keane, Spinnerette... I have 2 children who are with me 50% of the time. They mean the world to me & we are absolutely a package deal. There is little that is more important to me than helping them become kind, genuine individuals. I am not looking for someone to be a father to my children. They have a father & he is a good dad. I am here looking for someone for me. Someone that I can connect with. Wow, there's so much more to me that can't be explained here. If you want to know anything, just ask... :-)Please don't contact me if you ***have taken a picture of yourself w/your cell phone in your bathroom mirror or ***I can see shotguns in the background of your picture. coffee or a drink, walk or hike.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Chrysanta

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    "When you fish for love, bait with your heart,not your brain";home". Raised with an adventurous and passionate spirit; I am always up for anything,enjoy meeting new people and am not afraid to try out new ideas. In addition, although I am playfully sassy and have an edge, underneath is a heart of gold that is very considerate, honest and loyal to those that deserve it. I enjoy keeping in shape, dancing, sports, seeing movies and theatre, traveling, going to the beach,camping,horseback riding dining out,comedy clubs, downhill skiing and playing tennis (when I can). I also love staying in, watching a good movie, bottle of wine, hanging out... I continue to strive to live my life to the fullest, take risks, be a true friend to others, and be positive, happy and content. What am I looking for? A great guy who's confident and fun, fun, fun! I'm looking for a sexy, charming, classy, athletic, educated man who can go head to head with me with his wit. I tend to get bored easily and need someone who will keep me on my toes. Height should not be a factor except that I'm 5'9"and even taller in heels, so guys, you make the call. Physical attraction is important as well. I grew up in an athletic family, so I'm attracted to active men. Someone with a strong personality but still knows when to be gentle, caring and sweet. I prefer someone who's lived and is living life, who's ambitious and has goals. Not looking to rush anything, so let's start out as friends and see where it goes… (And for those of you that are curious, yes all my pics are recent) Let's start with a few *** if it gets to that point, probably getting coffee or a drink would be a good idea...just somewhere where we could talk and see if there is any chemistry without a lot of pressure.

  • Adella

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Alright I’ll just admit it, yes on OCCASION I have been known to have my blonde moments. However, I like to view that as me just being a trustworthy kind of person. A very strong value, and one that I hope I display to my daughter, is to treat people the way you want to be treated. As I'm sure everyone does, I love to laugh and hope that the person I meet has a sense of humor. I love doing things outdoors. I’ve been riding my bike to work for the last 12 yrs and will pick that over metro any day! I work out most days in our gym at work. Absolutely love to stay active but also love a cozy night at home in the pj’s watching a movie, reading a good book or snuggling with someone special. I'm a morning person. I’ve inherited the family gene of competitiveness. If I think I have a chance to beat you in something watch out………..it’s ON! Don’t worry I’ll tell you you did a great job in losing to me!;-) I love going on hikes with the dog and exploring. My biggest downfall…sweets! When I first meet people I am quiet and kind of on the shy side but I open up more as I get to know you. Once I do feel comfortable around you I tend to have a sarcastic sense of humor. I'm originally from NJ which mean I'm a Giants fan!! FYI - if you're a Cowboys fan hopefully you have a ton of great qualities that will make up for that mistake in your life...lol. I do prefer a guy to be at least 5'10.My family is my biggest blessing. I only wish they lived closer! But one piece is missing and that’s someone to grow old with and enjoy the second half of my life with. I would prefer to meet someone that lives close by to me. I am a single mom and if my daughter suddenly gets a play date it would be nice if you lived close by so we could get together. My faith is also important to me so if you are not a religious person, I'm probably not the girl for you. Thanks for taking the time to read this! Have a wonderful day!

  • Melodi

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Once I heard love described as friendship on fire...I guess it stuck. I am looking for that special person who can accept me for me, who makes me laugh 'til I can't breathe and isn't afraid to tell me the truth, regardless of what it is... for that person who is challenging, fun and able to have a disagreement, and then get over it...someone I can't wait to call whether I have had a stressful day or a great one because I want to tell him all about it...and someone who gets that I am still a work in progress, always looking to make my life better, not perfect in any way, except maybe a perfect partner for someone out there. Please Love Dogs...and cats ...I have both and always will (shelter adoptions with a lifetime home).I am looking for an actual relationship, where we start off just dating and if we hit it off then we choose to be exclusive. I am not looking for penpals, games, one night stands or "just casual". I have known lots of couples who are opposites and I tend to be attracted to opposites as well, but that generally doesn't last. Some differences keep things from being boring or make things work more smoothly. But generally we should be more alike in our core values than not.Looking forward to meeting you =) For a first date I like to focus more on just relaxing and having fun than planning a date so either drinks or dessert at a cafe or bar...or in the nicer weather a round of mini golf or a walk thru a park. Casual lunch might work too.

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