Total users: 60,606,332 Online users: 218,345
Mellissa, 45
United States, Georgia, Richmond Hill

Online

About Me

I'm always surprised at how many people think it's ok to post pics that are old or don't depict you accurately. Mine do so, I figured I would clarify that upfront. :)I've heard a lot of great things about this site so here I am... I relocated to NJ from NY about 3 years ago. It's beautiful here! I'm a great Mom and provider. I enjoy time with my son, family and close friends. I appreciate good things (like fresh herbs in my salad or HDTV) but I'm not 'materialistic' and don't shop just for the sake of shopping. I live a healthy, active life. I play softball as much as I can. I golf (really for work and not often -so,I must admit, scrambles are my preference! I can drive the ball a mile but my pitching and putting lack the right 'touch'.)I am a joyful, confident person who appreciates the little things. I like to spend time on my home - whether it's decorating, fixing something or planning the next project. I have a great job and work with wonderful people. Like any career, it can be demanding at times but on the other hand, I have more balance in my life than I have had in the past; which allows me to spend quality time with my son (and significant other).I come from a traditional Italian family. I may be an independent and self-sufficient woman but I'm also old fashioned. I appreciate chivalry and a strong man.When I first meet someone new, I like to get to know the person. Dating is important to really get to know each other. A great kiss is a good way to end a night if it feels right. Once I'm in a relationship, I'm extremely affectionate, caring and attentive but I am admittedly conservative with my time and feelings until I know you and where it's going... There are so many different ways to have an amazing first date. I'm fine with meeting for a cup or coffee or a drink at first. This gives us both a chance to figure out if what we read and saw on this site is what we expected in person. (FYI - Honesty is important to me. If you say you are 6' tall and high on life, that shouldn't include standing on a step stool complaining about work or taking pain RX.) Ever notice that when there is chemistry, it doesn't matter what you are doing? The conversation flows... there's a lot of smiling and sharing... and neither one can wait for that first kiss! Sometimes, chemistry happens but not right away. That's great too. A fun first date, getting to know each other and then suddenly you can't wait for the 3rd or 4th date....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Bluegrass Canadian Turkish
Wink Icon color PERSONAL INFORMATION Fave
Chat

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Michele from Richmond Hill | Woman | 44 years old | Pisces
    Michele

    Online

    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am a sweet, fun-loving girl with a great sense of humor. I believe that life is about the little things, that life should be lived to the fullest and that every day should include laughter.I am looking for someone who is kind, loyal, family-oriented, educated, who likes to have fun and laugh. A good sense of humor and a passion for life are a must. Most of all, I'm looking for that great intangible ... chemistry. There's nothing like being in a room full of people but feeling like no one else is there other than the person you are with. A great first date would involve lots of laughter, witty conversation and flirting. If there is a spark and a connection, it doesn't matter where we go.

    Chat
  • Louetta from Richmond Hill | Woman | 43 years old | Sagittarius
    Louetta

    Online

    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am a very independent woman financially. I have 4 kids. 3 live with me and 1 lives on their own. I have 2 jobs and go to online college. I am very busy but will make time for the right person. I love to travel and shop. Love the outdoors. I try to get to the gym a few times a week. Can I cook? I do okay lol. I am very talented - I see thru bullsh*t! Drinks or dinner is fine :)

    Chat
  • Phyllis from Richmond Hill | Woman | 41 years old | Libra
    Phyllis

    Online

    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am a fun, outgoing girl who is looking to spend time with someone who shares the same interests as me. I enjoy all types of movies, but my favorite movies are thrillers and suspenseful movies. I don't limit myself to any one type of music. If I like the lyrics, then I like the song and the artist. I enjoy reading mainly mystery books. When the weather is nice, I go to dog parks with my black lab and walking with friends. I do have a creative side, and I make quilts and embroidered items. I have a great sense of humor, and I love to laugh and have fun. I can be sarcastic, and I don't take myself or life too seriously. I am a great conversationalist, and I can talk to anyone about anything. I like to really get to know people and understand who they are and what makes them tick. I live a drama free life, and I want to hang out with someone where it may turn into something more. I work for a company that makes life saving *** love my job, and that what I do may save a life. I have had the opportunity to travel out of the country and to meet and interact with interesting people. I am a hard working, driven person who is always looking to improve myself both professionally and personally. I am pretty adventurous and open to new things. It would be good to do something where we could talk, so we could get to know each other.

    Chat
See more
Follow Us: