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Mellissa, 45

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About Me

I'm always surprised at how many people think it's ok to post pics that are old or don't depict you accurately. Mine do so, I figured I would clarify that upfront. :)I've heard a lot of great things about this site so here I am... I relocated to NJ from NY about 3 years ago. It's beautiful here! I'm a great Mom and provider. I enjoy time with my son, family and close friends. I appreciate good things (like fresh herbs in my salad or HDTV) but I'm not 'materialistic' and don't shop just for the sake of shopping. I live a healthy, active life. I play softball as much as I can. I golf (really for work and not often -so,I must admit, scrambles are my preference! I can drive the ball a mile but my pitching and putting lack the right 'touch'.)I am a joyful, confident person who appreciates the little things. I like to spend time on my home - whether it's decorating, fixing something or planning the next project. I have a great job and work with wonderful people. Like any career, it can be demanding at times but on the other hand, I have more balance in my life than I have had in the past; which allows me to spend quality time with my son (and significant other).I come from a traditional Italian family. I may be an independent and self-sufficient woman but I'm also old fashioned. I appreciate chivalry and a strong man.When I first meet someone new, I like to get to know the person. Dating is important to really get to know each other. A great kiss is a good way to end a night if it feels right. Once I'm in a relationship, I'm extremely affectionate, caring and attentive but I am admittedly conservative with my time and feelings until I know you and where it's going... There are so many different ways to have an amazing first date. I'm fine with meeting for a cup or coffee or a drink at first. This gives us both a chance to figure out if what we read and saw on this site is what we expected in person. (FYI - Honesty is important to me. If you say you are 6' tall and high on life, that shouldn't include standing on a step stool complaining about work or taking pain RX.) Ever notice that when there is chemistry, it doesn't matter what you are doing? The conversation flows... there's a lot of smiling and sharing... and neither one can wait for that first kiss! Sometimes, chemistry happens but not right away. That's great too. A fun first date, getting to know each other and then suddenly you can't wait for the 3rd or 4th date....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    I'm warm, affectionate, well adjusted and love life. I own and operate an online children's clothing business for the past 10 years and absolutely love it! I have two beautiful children who teach me patience and to appreciate the simple things in life. I am looking for a secure, mature, affectionate and communicative man who isn't afraid to show his soft side to a woman. I'm a very respectful, giving and loving and look for the same in my guy ;) Walk in the park or by the water, Book Store, Ice Cream, Dog Park, Hike, Kayaking, Motorcycle Ride ;)

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I usually like meeting people in person, but I've become less interested in night clubs and the bar scene. I pretty much never was into the drinking night life-lol. I'm more of a get-up-early-and-go-for-a-trail-run type of woman. I love, love, love the outdoors in almost every way possible. My idea of a great time is loading up the truck with bike, sneakers, wet suit and sun dress and driving out east early to run, bike, swim and then shower on the beach or somewhere, then go to dinner by the water. I can actually sit still though, really well too! I have four sons and they are the best thing I ever did in my life or could have achieved. I raised them and they are all my favorite people. My young men are always in my daily life, but they bounce back and forth to their Dad's and my home. I have one son who lives with me but all my boyz are all self-drivin. I am very proud of them. I love all music. One of my son's is a performer so I actually have to go to night clubs to watch him but that is really fun. Its the same with football- when my boyz are playing football, I love to watch, but I never really got into following a team on TV much, but that looks like fun too, I enjoy it when my sons are all screaming and yelling at the TV when an important game is on. I dont think that my perfect match has to do all the same things I do, but we would just have to complement one another and have respect and appreciation for each other.

  • Louanne

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Looking to meet an old fashion type of man Kisses on forehead, respectful and normal. Take things slow and see what happens. Will add more when I think about it.1. Not looking for a particular "type" I'm looking for someone who gives me "that feeling"2. Treat people the way you want to be treated...... Simple enough one would think but no one practices that simple rule3. Manners ........please thank you and thanks for the interest but I'm not interested simple don't ya think4. My arm hurts from all the throw backs just one keeper that's all I want crossing fingers5. I guess it really doesn't matter what you put or don't put in ur profile. No one reads it and if they do it still comes down to what you look like when you meet in person 6. People talk to you for a few days then poof they are gone no explanation always lookin for something better if you think about it there's always something better and there is something out there better then you as well.7. So if you read this far message me I'm a good one :)8 please like country music I want someone to go to concerts with me don't have to love it tolerate it First meeting ........ Quick and painless.......Date should be planned by you :)

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