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Tashina, 42

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About Me

Hi. Thanks for taking a minute to read this. I am here looking for just one good, decent, fun, smart guy. I know, that's not a lot to ask for...right?I've been on this website for a bit and I've met some fascinating guys...and I'm using both the good and bad connotations of that word. I've definitely learned what does and what does not work for me. It all comes down to this...I want a guy to enjoy my life with. I need someone who can be my partner, who likes to laugh, who knows how to let go and relax, who will make me feel special, who will excite me, who enjoys trying new things...I am tired of the men who are looking for a plaything or side piece. Please don't contact me if you're only looking for sex. I want-and deserve- more. Also, since I'm being honest, I'm attracted to younger men (***Edit-I'm only referring to men in their mid-late 30s. I'm shocked by the reaction that this one section has gotten!) and men of my same race. I hope that doesn't sound rude...but I don't want to waste your time. I'm open to suggestions!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Karissa

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Okay, I'll just ramble a bit. Writing this stuff is always strange. I love to travel, but haven't done too much of it recently. I enjoy trying anything new, going places, meeting new friends, being outside, going to the beach, shooting pool, watching football (big Ravens fan!), running, having beer and crabs or hot wings on a dock somewhere, etc. I'm currently training for my first 5K in December. I have two teenage boys who are awesome and keep me busy, as I have them much of the time. I'm really easy to be around, love to laugh, and have a good sense of humor. I enjoy everything from going out to a club to dance or hear a band to watching a movie (action films are my favorite - no chick flicks), to taking a long walk outside. I'm not into politics at all...so don't bother talking about that. (My ex was a right-wing nut, and I overdosed on the stuff. A man that is confident and makes decisions is attractive. I don't need a guy to take care of me, I've got my stuff together and I'm a bit independent. But, I do like spending time with someone who is fun, interesting, and makes me laugh. My favorite musicians are Matchbox 20, P!nk, and Nickelback, but I'll listen to most anything...other than Jazz.

  • Arnita

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    ok, so, about me...I am a fairly sarcastic person & tend to appreciate that in others. I need to be able to have an intellectual conversation with someone but also be silly & stupid sometimes. I am compassionate & empathetic. You don't know what any other person is or has gone through, and I think it's important to remember that as you go through your own life.-love the snow & snowboarding but also love just sitting on the beach & reading a book. I couldn't live in a place where the seasons didn't change. I like to be outside on a deck drinking beers, having a nice dinner with some wine, laying in bed listening to the rain, walking outside while it's snowing, cuddling on the couch, going on a long walk, hike, or run and having that exhausted but great feeling of accomplishment at the end. I can't cook - at all - just being honest :-) I love my Doc Martens, and all of my tattoos &;..but the hat is a must! ha ha) I like sports - live or on TV, watching football in the fall with a bunch of friends or going to a baseball game in the summer! I like all kinds of music but NOT country (with the exception of Johnny Cash) and mostly alternative...Social Distortion, New Order, the Smiths, Metric, Offspring, Keane, Spinnerette... I have 2 children who are with me 50% of the time. They mean the world to me & we are absolutely a package deal. There is little that is more important to me than helping them become kind, genuine individuals. I am not looking for someone to be a father to my children. They have a father & he is a good dad. I am here looking for someone for me. Someone that I can connect with. Wow, there's so much more to me that can't be explained here. If you want to know anything, just ask... :-)Please don't contact me if you ***have taken a picture of yourself w/your cell phone in your bathroom mirror or ***I can see shotguns in the background of your picture. coffee or a drink, walk or hike.

  • Yaritza

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Please read or at least take time to skim my essay. This is ME! Don't message me "Hey, what are you looking for"? This is what I want, this is what I don't want, don't waste my time or get my hopes up, read on..........Tired of the games. Looking for a relationship, no special friends BS or F buddy BS. Tired of guys who say they are looking for someone "real" but then aren't interested in getting to know her. If you are going to make me "fall", then you better have intentions of catching me.....the man who will want to actually stick around and help me write the final chapter in my fairy tale.......The ONE that makes me understand that not all guys are the same and the ONE that makes me realize why it took so dam long to find him, but why that wait was worth it.If I can brag a little here, I think that I am awesome and amazing....that once in a lifetime kind of girl. I am searching for that 1 awesome and amazing guy. I am not here for hook ups, one night stands, Eff buddy BS stuff. I am hoping to find an honest, trustworthy guy for a real, true from the heart and soul relationship. I want all that good stuff.....attention, affection, romance, love, good times and conversations, etc etc.I don't want to be the last person on your list that you call at 10 pm on a Friday night because everybody else said "No". Or the girl you come looking for when you are home bored with nothing else to do. I want to be your One and Only....the one that you are proud to call your Baby and show off to the world.I am funny and witty, love to laugh and make people laugh. I have a sarcastic, goofy side..... I also like to draw, paint, read, and watch sports.....football, baseball and hockey. I prefer flats to heels, but I can dress up and look FINE when the time is right. I like butterflies, flowers, sunsets, and would love to travel and drive cross country and go on an exotic cruise one day. Not into bars or clubs. Not into fancy things and don't need to be impressed by how much $ someone makes or what kind of fancy car you drive. Its all about being with someone and enjoying their company. I am intelligent, sweet, honest, shy at times, loyal, hardworking, and just looking for that spark and connection with that one guy who will sweep me off my feet..........One thing that I have learned from all this on-line dating stuff, is that people usually only tell you what YOU WANT to hear.....and its not the same thing as what YOUR SHOULD REALLY HEAR. I have learned to become very blunt and straight forward. I see it as I say it, and a lot of people don't like that. Well, that is who I am and if you are too sensitive to hear the truth then you don't want to be my friend. So read my whole profile, don't message me and ask me "hey baby, what are you looking for?"I know there is a "Law of Attraction" and people have "types" that they are naturally drawn to. Guys on here always want the young, brainless hotties with the perfect perky plastic tits, no cellulite, no gray hair, and no kiddie baggage. REAL WOMEN like me are OK to bang a couple times, but not good enough to stick around for. So far, mostly I have encountered guys who want to "hook up", or want to "sext", talk dirty, and beg you for naughty photo's. Be honest and tell me what you are looking for and what you expect. Don't BS me that you are looking for the same things in order to just get into my pants. Guys on the internet like to whisper sweet things into your ears, and are only interested in getting what they want from you and then moving on to the next********* AND I HAVE KIDS, as do a lot of 'REAL' people........don't want a DADDY......I am fine by myself. If a woman having kids is not your style, then don't waste my time***********. THANKS!!!!! And why does this site " match"??

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