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About Me

I'm a pretty laid back woman. I take life as it comes. I live in the here and now. I praise God for all my blessings thus far, and continue to praise him daily. I love to read a good book, that piques my interest. I appreciate fine art, and when I have time, I love to draw and paint. I don't have time for any drama, and I keep it real every moment. I sometimes say things before I think, as that comes as a huge surprise what will come out, even to me, lol. I love deeply ( a huge detriment of mine ) , and I appreciate every person in my life, whether as a friend, or lover. I am looking for A REAL MAN to enjoy the places I am going in my life, to be by my side, to experience life with me. The following is what I am looking for in a man. If you do not posses any of these qualities, please keep it moving. Have a blessed day!This is my definition of a REAL MAN....1.) A REAL MAN, raises his kids, not JUST out of pocket either. 2.) A REAL MAN, supports his woman to develop herself so she can achieve greatness. 3.) A REAL MAN, doesn't worry about what others depicts as a real man, walk in his shoes first and then tell him what makes him A REAL MAN. 4.) A REAL MAN doesn't kiss & tell. 5.) A REAL MAN notices your hair & nails. 6.) A REAL MAN calls you beautiful.. not hot, sexy, or fine. 7.) A REAL MAN CALLS YOU on a daily basis NO MATTER HOW BUSY OR TIRED HE IS. 8.) A REAL MAN looks past what he's heard about you or what his friends think of you. 9.) A REAL MAN wants to spend as much time as he can with you, and won't get sick of you. 10.) A REAL MAN doesn't care if you gave it up on the first, second, or third night. 11.) A REAL MAN comes over, just to watch a movie . 12.) A REAL MAN kisses you on the forehead just because. 13.) A REAL MAN doesn't tell you what he thinks you want to hear, he tells you what's real. 14.) A REAL MAN doesn't bring drama to his relationship. ***A REAL MAN brings to the table what he can, and doesn't depend on his woman to survive financially. When you love someone, it's something. When someone loves you, it's another thing. When you love the person that loves you, it's everything...Life isn't about the amount of breaths you take it's about the moments that take your breath away.....KISS SLOWLY, LAUGH INSANELY, LOVE TRULY, AND FORGIVE QUICKLY....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Kristan

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    One of the most important things I have learned is about Humility and what it means to me:"I don't know it all and I remain teachable."Like all the beautiful trees in a forest we are all perfectly imperfect ... How do you deal w/ adversity? So if you can relate please keep reading ... and if you are truly interested please message me ... don't just say you are interested and leave it to me to contact you first ... I like a man who is willing to risk and make himself vulnerable as you will learn I will do the same w/ you ... it is important to make things work and truly be intimate.I feel true happiness is found on the "inside" so if you are willing to grow and do some soul searching for yourself and those around you then you would probably be a good fit for me! A man who knows how to be transparent, hiding nothing, is a must. Actions will speak louder than words, and trust me, I am watching.It is extremely important to me that my partner and I share the same belief when it comes to Spiritual Growth. I would love nothing more than a man who shares my faith, courage, confidence, honesty and good heart. I love warm weather, crave travel and adventure and would even be willing to relocate ... have a family or embrace an existing one. =)Since I am self employed, I stay pretty busy! I value having a set plan for my date(s) but also love to be surprised with random spontaneity from time to time. I am not a slave to my work life though; relationships take time and I am willing to invest when the right person comes along! And speaking of the right person; I hope your funny because I love to laugh! Laughter is great therapy ... especially when you can laugh at yourself and not take things too seriously.I will love you with reckless abandon – be accountable for my behavior (the good, the bad, the ugly) – balance your Yin with my Yang - let YOU be YOU and pray we continue to GROW together. We should bring out the best in each other. Giving each other a soft place to fall is a must. I do not hold grudges, work diligently to let go of any and all resentments, and am quick to forgive. I consider myself young at heart but emotionally mature. I am optimistic and passionate about life. Gratitude is a powerful emotion that heals ... so I try to stay as grateful as I can everyday. I am sensitive; yet strong and determined by nature. I am faithful, caring and affectionate, I communicate well, am a good listener and friend. My family and friends are very important to me. It's important to me that I continue to nurture these relationships.I am a fun and loving person who wants to be adored, respected and cherished just as I would you!!. I am not comfortable nor will I respond back if there is not a picture of you on your profile. Drinking does not agree nor interest me at all. I prefer a highly motivated driven man... ...so if sitting on the couch, watching sports all day is your 'ideal day' well, your not the guy for me. Last but not least, I value good health & exercise...... it's important to me that you do too. I stay active, eat healthy and take good care of myself and hope you will too!!! Thank you for taking the time to read my novel, er, I mean, profile.P.S. I've been told I am rare ... never been married and no kids ... just saying ;-)P.P.S. New interests: Quantum Physics and Nueroscience [used to make my eyes roll ... but now I find it fascinating ... yea, I am a geek >>>LOL] It doesn't really matter what we do as long as we are in good company... we'll figure it out together.

  • Delphina

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    ***Taking a break for a while. My perspective has started to shift and I sure don't want to get cynical about all of this .Some days I just want to hang up my fishing pole, but deep down I believe that you're out there...and maybe, just maybe...you'll read this. I've been here before, and I still think it's marginally better than a bar ;) In a nutshell I am looking for something real and true...not as easy as it once was.It's sad that I even have to say this but I am a quality woman...if you are looking for someone to share lewd pictures with outside of a relationship, I'm not your girl!!! WHAT I BRING: Sweet and sassy, sexy, classy and a little smartassy. I consider myself a pretty average girl next door type, I don't need extravagance in my life, just balance and authenticity. Openness and Honesty, A Huge and Open Heart, Passion and Compassion (both doled out when appropriate), Laughter and LOTS of it, Intelligence, Versatility, Great Conversation, Loyalty, Attentiveness, A Sense of Adventure, there's so much more. WHAT I DESIRE IN A MAN: Similar character traits to my own I guess. It's really pretty simple...Say what you mean and do what you say. Brains and strength with humor and insight mixed in are really sexy traits to me. Tall is good, because I am and I love to wear heels! I won't create a narrow little cutout outlined by must haves and can't stands when it comes to my match, I don't know exactly who he is yet! When we discover each other, I'm sure we will fit together perfectly. The ability to share affection and true intimacy is important to me.I love live music, especially in an outdoor arena...modern rock, blues,anything with a heavy drum beat, and stuff I can sing to are my favorites. Motorcycles are fun, Put-In-..), wineries, the list goes on and on.- if I break something, I will need you to help me make up a really cool story about how it happened! Would love to travel more...feel like there's SO MUCH to see.I am a highly creative romantic soul and I still believe that to love well and be loved well is the greatest achievement we can attain Whatever we decide will be fun and comfy for both of us...

  • Tennie

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I am a fun loving girl looking to meet someone who enjoys the outdoors, some travel and appreciates a good meal. I love to laugh out loud and enjoy friends and family. I work in the wireless industry and travel often for my job. I have two children who live with me and they are the light of my world. We all three love music and our music varies over different generes...including country, pop and some R&B with a little rap here and there. I work hard and play hard. I am a successful professional and I don't like drama or games. Meeting for a good meal, having a beer or sharing a bottle of wine. Having a great conversation and getting to know each other mixed with some laughter. I also like unconventional dates like hiking or sporting events/music festivals. I enjoy the sports bar as much as I enjoy a nice dinner.

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