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Kristan, 44

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About Me

One of the most important things I have learned is about Humility and what it means to me:"I don't know it all and I remain teachable."Like all the beautiful trees in a forest we are all perfectly imperfect ... How do you deal w/ adversity? So if you can relate please keep reading ... and if you are truly interested please message me ... don't just say you are interested and leave it to me to contact you first ... I like a man who is willing to risk and make himself vulnerable as you will learn I will do the same w/ you ... it is important to make things work and truly be intimate.I feel true happiness is found on the "inside" so if you are willing to grow and do some soul searching for yourself and those around you then you would probably be a good fit for me! A man who knows how to be transparent, hiding nothing, is a must. Actions will speak louder than words, and trust me, I am watching.It is extremely important to me that my partner and I share the same belief when it comes to Spiritual Growth. I would love nothing more than a man who shares my faith, courage, confidence, honesty and good heart. I love warm weather, crave travel and adventure and would even be willing to relocate ... have a family or embrace an existing one. =)Since I am self employed, I stay pretty busy! I value having a set plan for my date(s) but also love to be surprised with random spontaneity from time to time. I am not a slave to my work life though; relationships take time and I am willing to invest when the right person comes along! And speaking of the right person; I hope your funny because I love to laugh! Laughter is great therapy ... especially when you can laugh at yourself and not take things too seriously.I will love you with reckless abandon – be accountable for my behavior (the good, the bad, the ugly) – balance your Yin with my Yang - let YOU be YOU and pray we continue to GROW together. We should bring out the best in each other. Giving each other a soft place to fall is a must. I do not hold grudges, work diligently to let go of any and all resentments, and am quick to forgive. I consider myself young at heart but emotionally mature. I am optimistic and passionate about life. Gratitude is a powerful emotion that heals ... so I try to stay as grateful as I can everyday. I am sensitive; yet strong and determined by nature. I am faithful, caring and affectionate, I communicate well, am a good listener and friend. My family and friends are very important to me. It's important to me that I continue to nurture these relationships.I am a fun and loving person who wants to be adored, respected and cherished just as I would you!!. I am not comfortable nor will I respond back if there is not a picture of you on your profile. Drinking does not agree nor interest me at all. I prefer a highly motivated driven man... ...so if sitting on the couch, watching sports all day is your 'ideal day' well, your not the guy for me. Last but not least, I value good health & exercise...... it's important to me that you do too. I stay active, eat healthy and take good care of myself and hope you will too!!! Thank you for taking the time to read my novel, er, I mean, profile.P.S. I've been told I am rare ... never been married and no kids ... just saying ;-)P.P.S. New interests: Quantum Physics and Nueroscience [used to make my eyes roll ... but now I find it fascinating ... yea, I am a geek >>>LOL] It doesn't really matter what we do as long as we are in good company... we'll figure it out together.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I work for an international technology-based non-profit company and it's very rewarding! I travel a lot for work, both within the US and internationally. I'd love to meet someone who might be up for meeting me at the tail end of international meetings for a little exploring! I also like thrift stores, flea markets and garage sales, hanging out watching movies, and cooking exotic meals. I like people who are smart, funny, goal-oriented, artistic, and compassionate.-conformists. People involved in any form of subculture or counterculture are the people I relate to best. I admire people who are always looking for ways to broaden their minds and are open to new ideas and are interested in learning new things. I would like to meet someone who has a goal that they are working toward and who has a plan for where they're going.I'm very lucky to have more than a few very close friends and a great family, and I love spending time with them. I always try to make time to learn new things and expand my mind. Experiencing new and interesting things is very important to me. I feel that I don't have much in common with people who are static in life and who don't see the opportunities and growth that come with change. I don't like people who are bigoted or mean spirited. Drama and jealousy are major turn-offs. I guess the first date could be drinks (I don't drink coffee...). Second date? Anything out of the norm!

  • Tilly

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I'm a pretty laid back woman. I take life as it comes. I live in the here and now. I praise God for all my blessings thus far, and continue to praise him daily. I love to read a good book, that piques my interest. I appreciate fine art, and when I have time, I love to draw and paint. I don't have time for any drama, and I keep it real every moment. I sometimes say things before I think, as that comes as a huge surprise what will come out, even to me, lol. I love deeply ( a huge detriment of mine ) , and I appreciate every person in my life, whether as a friend, or lover. I am looking for A REAL MAN to enjoy the places I am going in my life, to be by my side, to experience life with me. The following is what I am looking for in a man. If you do not posses any of these qualities, please keep it moving. Have a blessed day!This is my definition of a REAL MAN....1.) A REAL MAN, raises his kids, not JUST out of pocket either. 2.) A REAL MAN, supports his woman to develop herself so she can achieve greatness. 3.) A REAL MAN, doesn't worry about what others depicts as a real man, walk in his shoes first and then tell him what makes him A REAL MAN. 4.) A REAL MAN doesn't kiss & tell. 5.) A REAL MAN notices your hair & nails. 6.) A REAL MAN calls you beautiful.. not hot, sexy, or fine. 7.) A REAL MAN CALLS YOU on a daily basis NO MATTER HOW BUSY OR TIRED HE IS. 8.) A REAL MAN looks past what he's heard about you or what his friends think of you. 9.) A REAL MAN wants to spend as much time as he can with you, and won't get sick of you. 10.) A REAL MAN doesn't care if you gave it up on the first, second, or third night. 11.) A REAL MAN comes over, just to watch a movie . 12.) A REAL MAN kisses you on the forehead just because. 13.) A REAL MAN doesn't tell you what he thinks you want to hear, he tells you what's real. 14.) A REAL MAN doesn't bring drama to his relationship. ***A REAL MAN brings to the table what he can, and doesn't depend on his woman to survive financially. When you love someone, it's something. When someone loves you, it's another thing. When you love the person that loves you, it's everything...Life isn't about the amount of breaths you take it's about the moments that take your breath away.....KISS SLOWLY, LAUGH INSANELY, LOVE TRULY, AND FORGIVE QUICKLY....

  • Luciana

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I'm a bit of a free spirit and pretty open minded. I usually have a smile on my face and I do my best to always have a positive attitude. Definitely a "glass half full" personality. I believe that all people are created equal and deserve to be treated with respect regardless of gender, race, religion or orientation. I'm mostly down to earth but I do have a wild streak that surfaces every once in a while. I've been sky diving, can drive a manual transmission, camped in the rainforest and worked several seasons at a renaissance festival. I love the beach, long walks, bike rides and books.To fit into my life, you must have humor, like kids, have read a book or two and think I am awesome. Not much to ask, right?I also have 3 amazing kids. When I meet the right person, I'll be happy to introduce them but until then, they aren't involved in my dating life. So go ahead and send me a message. Unless, of course, you have topless pics. I prefer a little mystery :) I really like to have lunch, dinner or coffee on the first date but I'm open to other options as well. As much as I love the movies, it really isn't a great first date because you don't get much talk time. Bars are too loud to hear and can be distracting. Maybe a bike ride or a walk in the park? Roller skating?

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