SIMILAR PEOPLE
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Allycia
Online
Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: man. In age: 39-49
I am a busy person who does not have a lot of time to date, hence me being on this site. I have done online dating before and there are some pitfalls to it: 1. It's hard to judge someone just based on a photo 2. A lot of guys will paste the same *** over 3. Lots of people seemed interested in texting/endless *** then you meet and within 5 minutes you know that you don't want to see them again, so it ends up being a waste of time. And finally, the shirtless bathroom photos just are not appealing to me, and there are lots of them!Things I like: Music (monumentally important) SOA, Daily Show, Sushi, Beer, people watching, animals, weekend getaways. Drink and meet and go from there.
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Rheanna
Online
Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 41-51
I think a couple can be total opposites and not have hardly anything in common, one can be a health junkie while the other a junk food junkie. One can be a professional, the other unemployed or a waitress in a small family owned diner. Both may have different beliefs, different likes and dislikes, and difference in opinions but still be the best of friends, the best lovers, and even soul mates. So when someone says "we have/don't have a lot in common" I take that with a grain of salt. Because I believe it's not only about what you have in common but it's about the differences you're willing to accept and deal with. It's the differences that makes a person unique and who they are. For me, if I'm physically attracted I look at how we connect on an emotional level, how someone makes me feel, the things they say and do, as well as the things they don't. It's not about how much someone is like myself, it's about how different they are from anyone else. It's the little things that a person brings to my spirit that mean the most. I go on a date to see if we connect or if there's energy vibes there and I simply ask questions because I'm interested in you and who you are and for conversation. Having things in common is only a bonus but some of the best relationships are those that you would think would never work because the couple are so different. Opposites do attract and that's a fact. Real love comes without reason. It's a feeling that someone possesses upon you. It just is.... If you have a reason for loving someone, you don't really love them, you like them. If you have reasons for loving someone, then you are using your mind, but if you love someone for no reason, then you are using your heart... Maybe some people don't find they're perfect match because they don't give the not so perfect a chance. Maybe they're looking for all the wrong reasons. Just my own little drawn out opinion for those that are seeking commonalities. My hobbies are playing with my little girl, spending time in the kitchen, and of course shopping. I like fishing, watching football and nascar, taking walks, going for rides to no where, and snuggling on the sofa to watch a movie. I'ld like to find a job that I actually enjoy. My favorite food is spaghetti. I like all music but I'm a country girl so I listen to more country. I do have a southern drawl in my accent. I love to take photos of things. I'm down to earth, out going, good hearted and love to joke and play. I'm also sentimental and cry during a touching or sad movie. I tend to think of others first. I love animals and children. I've wasted all of my love life on dishonest cheaters with no clue what relationship means, who think the word love means a hill of beans, and don't know what they've got till it's gone. I'm a real woman and I want a real man. Well fellas that's me in a nut shell. ;-) First date. We don't have to do anything special. Just sit and talk and focus on getting to know one another.
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Jacalyn
Online
Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
I couldn't come up with a headline for a dating website... This is one I've seen and I use it for me. I'm not an adrenaline junkie, but I try to keep pushing myself forward. Please be down to earth. Please be able to laugh, even at yourself. I'm a bit self-deprecating so... Some of the best jokes are at the expense of me or one of my friends. I can not live without music or books. I have loads of CDs and the vinyl I managed to salvage from my mother's house... The bag I carry with me tends to weigh a ton because of the books I always have tucked away in it... I don't know the first thing about a nook, etc.. I need to be able to turn the pages as I read...I like going out to eat or a concert or whatever, but I really, really like being able to be comfortable with someone hanging at home too. A night of a movie on the couch is great. Naps are good too. Silence that is comfortable... That can be a big thing.I get focused on things and want to learn about them (muscle cars), but I guess most people are like that? I'm dying of jealousy because one of my closest friends is about to buy a ***Studebaker Hawk... I love the color red (obviously), I'm kind of particular about my coffee, I have a notebook that I write down quotes I come across and love, I ran around like a maniac tomboy as a kid and have fallen out of more trees than I can count, I tend to stick pens in my hair and then wander around the rest of the day wondering what I've done with them all, I never get tired of the sound of the ocean, I like learning to do things for myself (apartment stuff, car stuff, etc.), it makes me feel constructive to be covered in mud, etc. after a day of physical labor....I completed a Bachelor's in Philosophy before going back to school for sciences and Veterinary Medicine (completed in Europe). Also took literature courses when I could fit them in. I'm born and bred in NYC. But now I'm definitely rambling... Drinking something? Coffee? Going somewhere that I can actually hear you speak?