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Aniya, 42

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About Me

-football---my family and house are there. :) While plans could change--I was originally planning to be here for two years and I am starting my fifth--it seems disingenuous to claim that I want to get married next week when my future residency is unsure. So...I would love to date. Even exclusively. But don't be angry if I won't agree to live here forever on our second evening out.I am currently teaching reading at the college level and loving it. I am also working on an Ed.D degree, so I work hard to enjoy my free time! I enjoy sharing new adventures with others--my last escapade was firewalking. I love snorkeling, roller coasters and art galleries, live theatre and local bands, cooking for friends and visiting with family, sharing a new book, debating new ideas and anything that challenges me to expand my horizons. I feel most relaxed near the water and can enjoy an evening of silliness and dancing as easily as a great movie or stimulating debate. I am hoping to find a responsible AND fun-loving individual. You don't need to buy me a gourmet dinner, but you should be able to foot your part of the bill. You should be able/willing to start the weekend without plans and enjoy whatever eventuates. I enjoy debate and discussion--I speak my mind and expect others to do the same. I would love to meet someone who has a CLUE about major authors, artists, and intellectual ideas. (That sure sounds harsh, but I hope you know what I mean!) I feel most at peace near the ocean and would love to find someone who shares my affinity for the beach.If I am busy, it is not personal. I teach and study and tutor and have friends. I have a couple evenings a week that I would love to spend with the right person, but I don't need to talk to you four times a day to make sure that we still like each other.If you are up for exploring--with a friend who could become more--I hope you will drop me a line. ummmmmmmm...how about we decide this one together. Start with a beverage and see where the evening goes.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am a busy working Mom who enjoys cooking, reading, and playing words with friends, yes, I know crazy but I like it. I love to go to movies, plays, concerts, and any place that I have not been before. I love watching college football on Saturdays curled up on the couch with a blanket when it is cold. I enjoy the outdoors as long as I do not have to sleep there. My current goal is to continue my education and complete a PhD. program in Education and eventually teach at the college level. I am a middle school teacher with a background in Special Education. I am loyal, honest and generous to those in need. I am a sucker for the underdog and have been known to cry at sappy movies. On the other hand, chick flicks are not at the top of my list. I love a scary movie or an action film for sure. I am very logical and rational and need to make sense of things which means I ask a lot of questions. I have a great sense of humor and I am very creative. As for my taste in music, it is like my taste in everything else..... I like classical, southern rock, some country, some pop, some rap, as long as it sounds good, I like it.A few dislikes.....1) Men who are not emotionally ready for a relationship but say they are. Everyone is entitled to a past but deal with yours before professing your desire for a relationship.2) racism- I read this from another profile and decided to use it. We have a black president... Get over it! He's not an idiot... That would make him the opposite if an idiot. 3) Homophobes- They are not evil and have every right to be here, marry etc. 4) closed minded men- your opinion is not the only one. It's your opinion. I may have a different one. That doesn't mean I can't like you and it doesn't mean I will try to change your mind so don't try to change mine.5) too serious- I like men who can laugh at themselves and me when I say something stupid.I'm looking for a serious relationship, if you're not then don't waste my time. On a first, I would like a gentleman to pick me up and take me to dinner at a nice place. It does not have to be overly fancy or pretentious, although I am comfortable with fine dining. I enjoy good conversation. After dinner, I would like to visit an exhibit or museum. Some place that allows for more conversation. Then to top off the night, coffee or a night cap. Again more conversation.

  • Elizbeth

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Me: Ladylike but can keep up with the boys, friendly yet opinionated, honest yet not rude, outdoorsy (prefers nature over malls), artistic, nurturing, hard-working yet fun-loving, realistic, spiritual, down-to-earth, affectionate. I can spell without using spell-check. I'm as comfortable in my jeans and boots as I am in a little black dress and heels. Love animals. Love music. Love my family. You: Say what you mean and mean what you say, dependable, honest, athletic, mature yet playful, masculine yet has a soft side, strong yet sensitive, witty, good-humored, well-versed, educated, romantic. You love children, respect elderly, and are a gentleman. You love God and are a leader. You have good manners, hold open doors, and bring flowers. You are also comfortable in jeans and boots but can clean up good! You might even be a good dancer, singer, musician?On another note...not to be superficial but I feel there must be some mutual attraction involved. Please post some pictures...some honest pictures from within the past few months. Also, I have school age children and they are my priority. If that isn't your cup of tea OR your children are grown and young ones don't appeal to you right now, I get that. I really, truly do! I never thought I'd be in the online dating world at this point in my life. I'm not into serial dating. In fact, I'm finding out I'm a lil guarded and ultra picky...as we all should be, I suppose. I don't want to waste anyone's time and I don't want you to waste my time. Life is too short and I'm not interested in dating someone that we both know would be no future with. Let's all just be honest about who we are, what we're looking for, etc. Deal? Deal. :)P.S. I'm not *** Sorry if I don't respond but, chances are, I'm not truly sitting in front of my computer. I have a tendency to turn on my laptop and forget about it or get busy with other things. Sorry! WAIT...one more thing! Why do people select others as "favorites" or someone they want to meet but not initiate a coversation or send a message? I don't get that. *I couldn't update this without selecting "my personality in one word"....really?? AND, as if "animal lover" is considered one word!OH, one more thing...I prefer a man to be taller and stronger than me. :) And, well, I'm a little tall and a little strong. Just sayin.WAIT...one more thing!! Ok, just kidding. A first date key ingredient is conversation so anywhere that could be included...meet and greet over coffee? Take it from there.

  • Twanna

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Okay, I could write a book about myself but I am not going to. I am a unique individual and have piercing eyes.I DO NOT HAVE TIME FOR GAMES OR PLAYERS. I am a sincere,caring down to earth woman. When I find the right person I will give him my all and stand by his side. I am open to all cultures.Right now I am looking for a nice sincere man to spend time with... movies, coffee, dinner and see where it goes from there.I am looking for a man with a great sense of humor and who intrigues my mind, I find that extremely sexy in a man.I feel as though you have to develop a friendship before beginning a relationship.Communication is very important to me whether you are in a friendship or a relationship( a quick text, a quick call).I really enjoy heading off to the sunny beach, I find it is a very peaceful atmosphere and very cleansing to the soul.I am a spontaneous person and like to go with the flow. I am a very open minded person and love experiencing new things, so lets give it a whirl! My first date would be a casual meeting for drinks so that we could get to know each other and discuss our common interests, then take it from there.

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