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Jade, 42

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About Me

Hello there! I am new to online dating, and so feel very much like a fish out of water. I have a few friends who were successful using sites like this, so I thought I would give it a shot. So, here goes...I have two children, ***½ (the ½ is very important) and one 5. The three of us practice Taekwondo, and absolutely love it. I also train in Krav Maga (yes, I secretly pretend I am a ninja or a super spy). I am an outgoing, active, and competitive individual. I am pretty direct (not in a rude way) and transparent, though I have a sensitive side. You will never wonder what I am thinking or feeling. I am quick to smile and I love to laugh. So, a bit of bantering and witty comments goes a long way with me. I love to cook and eat just about any type of cuisine, and love to share it with others. I have been in sales for over 14 years, and it is absolutely my calling. I am focused on my career, however I realize it is just a job. I don’t play games, and I appreciate honesty, integrity, and transparency in others. I also very much appreciate chivalry (a little goes a long way) and people who are not afraid to openly show how they feel about someone (this goes for friends too). If you say you're going to do something I expect you will do it, and I hold myself to those same standards. I believe mutual respect, lots of communication, trust, and being faithful are key to a healthy and successful relationship. Also humor....laughter is really important, in fact I can't live without it. :-)My ex and I have an amicable relationship (no drama). The kids are number one priority for both of us, and so we focus on making sure they know that. My ideal man doesn't necessarily need to have children, but he must be good with kids. I am very involved in my kids' lives, so I would eventually want you to be involved in their lives too. Likewise, I would want to be involved in your children(s)' lives, and I would treat them with the same respect and kindness that I would expect mine to receive from you.I am looking for someone who will become my best friend, my lover, and everything in between. I truly believe you are out there somewhere, and I can't wait to meet you. :-) This is a tough one, because it really depends on who I am with. I'd say the best first date is one that was originally intended to be a quick cup of coffee or glass of wine, but turned into hours of talking and laughing.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Christen

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am looking for a genuine, sincere Christian man who I can share the rest of my life with love and respect. My parents have been married 48 years, and they are my role models. I am looking for someone who grew up with the same values and morals as I did. I am looking for someone who is close to their family as I am. I am a teacher in my professional life, and I am dedicated and hard working. My friends and many people think that I am smart, fun, and pretty and can't believe that I am not married. I just think my soul mate is not using good judgment or hasn't found me yet. I am hoping to find true love for the first time. I can't say that I have really been in what people would call true love. I like sports (playing and watching), concerts, plays, movies, casinos etc. I enjoy traveling and have traveled to many different countries around the world. I am an avid reader. I am adventurous if I have someone to hang out with. I love hiking, biking,boating, basketball, and taking walks. I might even try Bungee Jumping some day. I almost did in New Zealand but ran out of time. I love to bake, but don't do that unless I have a reason. I live for music! I love classic rock, some metal, and alternative. Heart and Tori Amos are my favorite bands. I have met the band members of Heart several times, but still would like to meet Tori. I want to learn how to play my keyboard and guitar. I played piano growing up. I still need to learn how to play Euchre. I am Catholic but don't judge me because of that. We all believe in the same God if you are Christian. I am not an extreme Catholic, but I would like to learn more about my own religion and get back on track. "I will love you unconditionallly. There is no fear now. Let's go on and just be free." A first date is just nice in a place where you can talk and hear one another's conversation well.

  • Aniya

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    -football---my family and house are there. :) While plans could change--I was originally planning to be here for two years and I am starting my fifth--it seems disingenuous to claim that I want to get married next week when my future residency is unsure. So...I would love to date. Even exclusively. But don't be angry if I won't agree to live here forever on our second evening out.I am currently teaching reading at the college level and loving it. I am also working on an Ed.D degree, so I work hard to enjoy my free time! I enjoy sharing new adventures with others--my last escapade was firewalking. I love snorkeling, roller coasters and art galleries, live theatre and local bands, cooking for friends and visiting with family, sharing a new book, debating new ideas and anything that challenges me to expand my horizons. I feel most relaxed near the water and can enjoy an evening of silliness and dancing as easily as a great movie or stimulating debate. I am hoping to find a responsible AND fun-loving individual. You don't need to buy me a gourmet dinner, but you should be able to foot your part of the bill. You should be able/willing to start the weekend without plans and enjoy whatever eventuates. I enjoy debate and discussion--I speak my mind and expect others to do the same. I would love to meet someone who has a CLUE about major authors, artists, and intellectual ideas. (That sure sounds harsh, but I hope you know what I mean!) I feel most at peace near the ocean and would love to find someone who shares my affinity for the beach.If I am busy, it is not personal. I teach and study and tutor and have friends. I have a couple evenings a week that I would love to spend with the right person, but I don't need to talk to you four times a day to make sure that we still like each other.If you are up for exploring--with a friend who could become more--I hope you will drop me a line. ummmmmmmm...how about we decide this one together. Start with a beverage and see where the evening goes.

  • Jon

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I would like to find someone that will start out as friends. I've been hurt in the past so trust is a big thing for me. You must be trustworthy and honest. Im shy to start with but will open up after I get to know someone a lil better. I'm a single parent of 3 girls. They are now 21, 16 & 12, I have raised them by myself and am proud of how they are growing up to be beautiful young women. Now I feel its time to find someone to be in my life for me. I like to do several things like cooking out, going to demo or dirt track races, tractor pulls, watch nascar, go to baseball games. I like lots of different music, watching movies, reading. I spend a lot of time going to watch my girls in their band concerts & competitions during the school year. They keep me busy. I do put my kids first in a lot of things but am finding I have a lot of weekends free when they are off doing their own social things with friends.As I stated above I am shy to start, once you get to know me I can be sarcastic, funny and love to laugh. I am big hearted and willing to help out someone if I can (or you could say pay it forward). I will speak my mind if I feel I have been wronged. I am independent, stubborn, impatient and sometimes insecure. I will admit an apologize if I am wrong. I'm NOT perfect but I AM perfect for someone out there.I think this quote fits me. I'm selfish, impatient and a lil insecure. I make mistakes. I am out of control and hard to handle at times. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best. ~ I do sin, but not the devil. I am just a small girl in a big world trying to find someone to love. ~ Thanks for checking out my profile and hope I hear from you. Just something simple. I like to go for a drink. I'm not a coffee drinker; but a glass of sweet tea, a soda, a glass of wine or c¤cktail (to settle the nerves) is always good.

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