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Maya, 42

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About Me

I am a single mom with three kids. I have been divorced for almost nine years and single most of those. I am finally at the point that I have the time and energy to put into a worthwhile relationship. I am looking for someone to be my partner in life. I know how to communicate and am not afraid of my feelings. I am a tell it like it is kind of a woman.That being said, Gentlemen - judge though you may, if you see yourself in any of the items listed below please move on. If you think about it logically, I am sure all of you have a similar list. These are my preferencesopinions, whatever you would like to call them. I don't think I'm better than any one of you, I'm simply trying to avoid wasting anyone's time - yours and mine. 1. You smoke 2. You are more than a social drinker 3. You have or plan to have a motorcycle 4. You are very conservative or very republican 5. You enjoy watching anything or anyone beat the s**t out of each other for sport (MMA, UFC, etc.) 6. You enjoy hunting and-or consider hunting putting food out and laying in wait (I do like to fish) 7. You love country music, two stepping, etc. 8. You are very religious (regardless of your religion) 9. You own several firearms and-or carry one when you are out and about10. You are intimidated-threatened by a woman who has opinions and knows what she wants ** (not that I think I'm always right - I love a good discussion-debate)11. You think-believe that all men are superior to, smarter than, etc. women OR that a woman is supposed to complete you**ATTENTION MEN OFFENDED BY THE LIST ABOVE** Not being stuck up, snobby, picky, ****y, or any of the other VERY nice words I have been described as in your countless *** waste both of our time. Thank you for those (sarcasm font). I'm looking for a partner, someone to share my life with, not someone who does his own thing while I do mine. Just a little food for thought so your brain doesn't immediately kick into retaliation mode for something you read that you didn't like. :)More about me:I am educated and intelligent (no, they aren't the same thing - if you think they are .....).I am quick witted and have a great sense of humor that tends to be on the naughty side.I am practical, logical, and frugal.I am honest and will tell you things even if you don't want to hear them. I despise, detest, and refuse to have anything to do with liars and game players.I can't stand stupidity, and there is entirely too much of that in the world today!I am responsible, respectful, and considerate of all others, at times to a fault.I am passionate and know there has to be chemistry in addition to a good foundation.I have a strong work ethic and have worked hard to get where I have in life.I appreciate the little things.I am happy with my life and what the future holds, I do however severely miss intelligent adult conversation. I am not looking for someone to support me or my kids. I take care of us just fine. "Am I really asking for too much?": This refers to what I really want and hope to find here: A man that is my best friend and biggest advocate. A man that is witty and can keep up with my back and forth but knows it is all in good fun - he can dish it out as well as he can take it. And while I am sure this will bring me a variety of unwanted ***, I want a man that I have amazing chemistry with. A man that will want me just as much and as often as I want him. I want a man that I get excited about seeing even when we are old and gray because I still want him just as much.So, am I really asking for too much? First meetings are different than first dates. Definitely depends on the person. We can talk about it. ;-)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Me: Ladylike but can keep up with the boys, friendly yet opinionated, honest yet not rude, outdoorsy (prefers nature over malls), artistic, nurturing, hard-working yet fun-loving, realistic, spiritual, down-to-earth, affectionate. I can spell without using spell-check. I'm as comfortable in my jeans and boots as I am in a little black dress and heels. Love animals. Love music. Love my family. You: Say what you mean and mean what you say, dependable, honest, athletic, mature yet playful, masculine yet has a soft side, strong yet sensitive, witty, good-humored, well-versed, educated, romantic. You love children, respect elderly, and are a gentleman. You love God and are a leader. You have good manners, hold open doors, and bring flowers. You are also comfortable in jeans and boots but can clean up good! You might even be a good dancer, singer, musician?On another note...not to be superficial but I feel there must be some mutual attraction involved. Please post some pictures...some honest pictures from within the past few months. Also, I have school age children and they are my priority. If that isn't your cup of tea OR your children are grown and young ones don't appeal to you right now, I get that. I really, truly do! I never thought I'd be in the online dating world at this point in my life. I'm not into serial dating. In fact, I'm finding out I'm a lil guarded and ultra picky...as we all should be, I suppose. I don't want to waste anyone's time and I don't want you to waste my time. Life is too short and I'm not interested in dating someone that we both know would be no future with. Let's all just be honest about who we are, what we're looking for, etc. Deal? Deal. :)P.S. I'm not *** Sorry if I don't respond but, chances are, I'm not truly sitting in front of my computer. I have a tendency to turn on my laptop and forget about it or get busy with other things. Sorry! WAIT...one more thing! Why do people select others as "favorites" or someone they want to meet but not initiate a coversation or send a message? I don't get that. *I couldn't update this without selecting "my personality in one word"....really?? AND, as if "animal lover" is considered one word!OH, one more thing...I prefer a man to be taller and stronger than me. :) And, well, I'm a little tall and a little strong. Just sayin.WAIT...one more thing!! Ok, just kidding. A first date key ingredient is conversation so anywhere that could be included...meet and greet over coffee? Take it from there.

  • Rachal

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    About me...Let's see...I am definitely an extrovert and prefer to spend my spare time out in my community, entertaining in my home or enjoying some entertainment at a friends. I like the occasional day laying around my house, but I definetly prefer to be out in the community. I LOVE hiking in the mountains with my dog or going for a run with them and others. We usually hit a vineyard after our mountain hikes and bring along a picnic lunch ; I am curious by nature and will talk with you about any subject, even those I know little about so that I may learn. I do however avoid politics and religion like the plague because people seem to become particularly passionate about these subjects which seems to mean they believe everyone should be...as long as you see it their way!! LOL!! I just like calm in my life is all so feel free to give me your views just don't expect me to share mine :) I love to laugh so I also love to make others laugh...unfortunately this includes a bit of witty sarcasm ;) Hope this gives you a little bit of an idea who I am :)Who I'm looking for...easy enough, someone who's NOT A COUCH POTATO, isn't an addict or alcoholic, has a high degree of intelligence and a fantastic sense of humor and liking dogs is a plus! I love a good war of wits in the humor department as well, so someone who likes to tease is very attractive to me. As a matter of fact I would say the only men I have ever felt an emotional attachment to were especially gifted in the verbally teasing department! He needs to like to socialize and get out into nature for a hike or run. I would really love to meet someone who will go for walks and hikes with me especially! Disclaimer :PLEASE...only single individuals...I will not date men who are merely separated. The best first meets are usually those where we can talk...so coffee or a drink would be my preference.

  • Almeta

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    There are so many things about me. I am a single mom. I have 2 boys. They live with me a week and with their dad a week. I am my own person. I dress the way I want too. I am friends with whomever I want to be friends with. I love to sing. I like to go dancing and to the movies and dinner. Any thing else you will have to ask me.What is your favorite thing do on a date?Do you like children?Do you like dogs?What do you look for in a woman?What is your favorite scent a woman can wear?How high on your list of must be's are looks? And if you can why can you? That we can discuss.

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