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Denny, 42

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About Me

I wish someone else could write this part for me because how on earth do you explain who you are in a paragraph? The basics... I have 2 grown children who live on their own. I have a really big, loveable dog and a ridiculous parrot. I have been single going on about 10 months now, after a long term relationship of almost 20 years. I consider myself to be an honest, open-minded and caring person...also pretty sarcastic :) Am very much a realist and tell it like it is (blunt, yet tactful). I love my friends and family and am fiercely loyal to them. Some things I love...thunderstorms, the smell of fresh cut grass, sleeping in on a Sunday morning and freshly fallen snow. I love to spend time with friends, sitting in the sun at a local winery, swimming, boating, rafting (anything really related to water), curling up on the couch and watching a good movie. I strongly dislike pretentious, judgmental people.I have no idea exactly "who" or "what" I'm looking for out there...I'll know it when I see it I guess. I'm not looking to just jump right into a serious relationship...the good ones take time to develop. I definitely want someone who is honest and doesn't play games (dishonesty is a trait I absolutely abhor!). Personality is key. I want someone who I can be myself with (let's face it...I'm 42 years old and nobody is going to be able to "change me" at this point...NOR am I looking to "change" somebody else.). Somebody who is easy to talk to...someone I just "click with" (you know...where you can talk for hours and it feels like only moments have passed you by). Someone who is interested in a strong friendship and if something more than a friendship were to develop then so be it :) If that person might be you, or if there is something I'm leaving out or something you are curious about, just message me. I swear...I don't bite :)I do try to be polite and answer all messages. Sometimes it's hard though because I don't get on here too often so please don't take offense if I don't get back to you right away. As far as dating goes...I guess there is always an awkward period in the beginning, but if you go in looking for a friendship, there isn't that pressure built up around meeting someone new. I believe you'll feel that connection fairly early as to whether or not that individual is someone you are interested in as more than a friend. And we go from there! At worst...maybe you make a new friend! :) I guess I would have to say meeting for a drink or perhaps lunch or dinner would be a good start. Even playing putt putt or shooting pool (some kind of activity is always fun!). I'm not into the club or bar "scene". Been there...done that...way back in my 20s...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Ophelia

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Yodel yodel yodel lay…. the cynic of online sites like this one was convinced by pals this morning at the gym to say ‘what heck!!', and be open to actually giving it a try. So here goes my lame effort! :)I am a busy and very independent gal with a committed focus on my son, and my work (and sports!). I am easy going, laughter/good wit is part of my every day (yup-A guy that gets my attention is smart, clever wit, goal orientated, active/fit, loves sports, very grounded, communicative, and shares similar values…). Guys that typically do not get my attention (but you bet, they catch my eye most times) are the spin doctors, drama kings, and players. As much as you are some of the hottest, out going and fun guys— not into a rotation plan and it is just not the flavor of the day pick for me (no harm, no foul! :) ).So, if you think we have something in common and are open to learning to know someone and see where it goes.... click whatever buttons on this site you need to and drop me a hello.

  • Milan

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I have been warned, I need to simplify my profile a bit, LOL! TMI... So, here it goes.... I have figured out your secret... Oh, you boys!!! The way to a mans heart;), and it is not food nor sex! You are not hard to understand at all...! I get it! Now if you can show me that you have figured out a woman, and get her secret, then I have a little surprise waiting for you;)!! LOL. I really have to laugh at this whole dating process... Good thing I have a sense of humor... If you would like to know more about me, please feel free to read on...I am looking for someone who is confident. I am looking for fun, excitement, passion, appreciation, trust, HONESTY, AND RESPECT (if I could BOLD this I would); amongst many other attributes... Also would like it if you were taller than me. Nowing what you want and being totally honest about it is always a plus...! My life is pretty wonderful! I am very blessed! I recognize it everyday and give thanks everyday. Hoping to find someone who feels the same about their life. There is such thing as friendship, and if that is all we are destined to be, then I am OK with that. You can not get through life without good friends, Right? I do not need someone in my life, but want someone I can enjoy the pleasures in life with! I would like to spend some time getting to know someone. With that said...I am simple, down to earth, fun loving and enjoy life to it's fullest. I am back in the dating scene after a long reprieve and am realizing how hard it is to get to know someone these days. I am finding many with lots of stress and feelings of suffocation, too busy to stop and smell the roses, appreciate and just simply be thankful, or way too caught up in the past. Life is too short to sweat the small stuff!!! I am very comfortable in my own skin and very aware of who I am and what I want! If you are looking for just a one night stand, I am probably not the girl for you. Although, I am very physical, sexual, passionate, and open once I get to know the right person. I need a man who knows how to treat a woman and appreciate her. If you can look at me from across a crowded room and give me a look like I am the only girl in the room and you want to ravish me right there without one word being said, then you and I will get along great! I promise you will feel like the only man in the room;) What we put out, we shall get back in return, RIGHT!!! I am told, my soul is deep and my heart is big.I enjoy all kinds of music, and love to dance. You will find me singing in private, but have been told, by my son, not to sing in public. I am almost always smiling! I love to laugh! Get me to laugh on the first meet, and we will get along fine!! I try to be on the funny side when I get nervous. My way of dealing. I like trying new things, new adventures, and I am not adverse to change. Change is where strength comes from. I hope to never live with regret, and be open enough to experience life for all the beauty it has to offer. I keep myself balanced emotionally, physically and spiritually, and expect the same from my partner. I exercise regularly and eat well, although I am not on the crazy side about it all. I love staying healthy, because it makes me feel good, and my ideal partner would feel the same. I say partner, because I would like to find my equal. I hate drama!, and will not have it in my life in any way! I have learned balance in my life, and want nothing more than to keep it that way! I work hard, and try to play even harder, and for me it makes life just about perfect. I take little trips quite often. Sometimes just weekend excursions around AZ, and sometimes a few days elsewhere. I am trying to share some of the world with my son before he is too old to want to go vacationing with his mother:( I find the positive in everything! It drives people crazy sometimes, because our natural human response is to wallow in our crap, but there really is always a silver lining and a reason for everything. I am not a conformist in any sense of the word. I enjoy playing out of the box;)! Contact me and we can talk more. Good luck in your search..Also, If I do not respond to you, please do not be a hater! I am just very aware of what I want and need, and am willing to wait for the right man! I enjoy talking a litte back and forth before meeting, so important questions can be addressed before giving out phone numbers and such. In my short experience, contrary to what some think, you have to have your red flags prepared when dealing with these dating sites. Something simple to see if we click. A walk in the park. An ice cream, short lunch... All I ask is that we go somewhere quiet so we can actually talk.

  • Aundria

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I don't like talking about myself but here we go...I am 44 years old and single for the first time in 20 years.I have a very close family that means the world to me and I enjoy my time with them we have lots of fun together.I enjoy all kinds of music and I love to dance.I am a country girl at heart and I enjoy spending time outside in the sun with my kids and my dogs. I like time spent with my friends outside on the deck in the summer enjoying laughter and a nice bottle of wine. I am a CNA so I like taking care of others but would love to be taken care of sometimes myself.I am a true romantic at heart and I love spending that quiet time with someone special being romanced.I am not about money or material things but I do feel like at this point in life we should all have our life together somewhat and be able to support ourselves and have our own home. Honesty is a must I am not up for any games in my life.UPDATE............I CAN'T BELIEVE SOMEONE WOULD BE IN THE MIDDLE OF A LONG CONVERSATION WITH YOU AND OUT OF NOWHERE THEY BLOCK YOU....HOW RUDE IS THAT???? Meeting for a long walk in a park to get to know each other and if we hit it off be prepared with a nice quiet place for dinner and drinks. After dinner maybe a movie or a spontaneous ride to end up walking hand and hand on the beach talking and getting to know each other further. Ending the night with a warm hug or a long soft kiss.

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