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Ferne, 41

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About Me

As I get older, I am becoming better aquainted with myself. However, I still have a lot to learn. I am an independent woman. This doesn't mean I don't like to be pampered once in awhile. I like to be stay active and would love to find someone who would join me. I enjoy walking, biking, and roller blading. I'm currently doing a fitness bootcamp and love it as much as I hate it. I find it relaxing to crank some music and paint into the wee hours of the morning.I don't wear make-up and jewelry. I'm extremely low-maintenance although this doesn't mean I don't take pride in my appearance.I love to read, listen to music. I like most types of music. I nearly always have music playing wherever I go.I like to find solutions to problems. I like to think I'm a creative problem solver.If I get the chance, I would like to go back to school to become a midwife.I love to learn. Learning takes place everywhere.I do not like to vacuum, nor mow the lawn. I'm thinking about paving my yard. Please try to talk me out of it :)I think this might be the year to try out a zipline. Care to join me?What am I looking for? A nice guy, who will treat me well, make me laugh and respect me. And tall, dark and handsome. Is that too much to ask for? I am looking for someone who thinks about me when I'm not around, who will openly show affection and be a little romantic once in a while. Swearing and smoking are turn-offs. Excessive drinking is too. We're not in high school anymore. There has to be some mutual attraction of course, but if you can't carry on a conversation, I don't care what you look like. Well, maybe just a little :) I'm looking for someone who has an idea what's going on in the world, is spontaneous and fun, but also loves to spend an evening at home. I'm looking for that person who you never run out of things to talk about with.If you like my profile, send me a message. In getting to know someone, I enjoy first *** if we click, we can meet for coffee and take it from there. Also, I usually use the mobile site, so I won't likely reply to any chat requests.Good luck fishing!**IMPORTANT BULLETIN: UNCOOL TO POST PICTURES WITH YOUR KIDS ON THIS SITE WHERE POTENTIAL PREDATORS LURK. DO NOT USE YOUR KIDS AS SALES TOOLS TO MARKET YOURSELF. PLEASE PETITION meetville TO CHANGE THEIR POLICY ON POSTINGS WITH CHILDREN TO AT LEAST MASK OUT THEIR FACES IF POSTED. FOR WIDER COVERAGE OF THIS MESSAGE, PLEASE COPY & PASTE INTO YOUR OWN PROFILE...THANKS..** Let's keep our children safe.***\\***Plz***\\\***Put This***On Your***Profile if***You Know***\\\***Someone***\\***Who Died***\***Of***\\\***Cancer***\\\---Or who is A SURVIVOR!!! Coffee/tea/hot chocolate/whatever in a public place will do.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Louise

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    First I need to voice my biggest pet peeve: If we *** messaging here or texting on the phone.... please don't sign off on me without telling me your going and saying goodbye. I hate waiting for someone to answer when they aren't there anymore.I love to go to the mountains, relax by the lake and treating myself to whats good in life. I don't mean the good things money can buy. I mean the good things life has to offer. A quite moment to take a breath, good times with family and friends and spending time with someone enjoying their company. I need to find a man that can help me regain my faith in men. I have trust issues and kind of a 6th sense when it comes to lies and when something a man is saying or doing just isn't right. If I am lied to or a man tries to scam in any way I don't stick around to talk about it. I don't want to hear about the whys or how comes of lies or scams. I also don't accept apologizes for these actions. Words are only words...actions speak louder. The proof is in the pudding sort of speak. I don't say I love you until I actually do and I don't want to hear you love me on our second date. if you find me staring at you like i'm studying you while your speaking...I am. it is only fair to bring out that if I seem to be doing this I am looking for the lie. The truth is more simple and the truth doesn't have tells. You know I trust you when I'm listening to your words without studying you face. I don't catch all the lies right away, but I feel safe in knowing that lies can't be backed up and sooner or later the truth will come out. With that said, I am looking for someone with nothing to hide. I don't expect you to tell me your life story. Of course you have things about yourself that can only be learned with time and trust and the same goes for me. I will always be truthful about how I feel. I don't Think there will an *** on the first date and if you give up because the first date doesn't produce fire works don't bother with the first date it's a waste of time. You can't feel something for someone you don't know. I will never lie to you to get what I want and you can always be sure that you will know whats on my mind. I want life to be happy and simple...I am not looking for drama. Things don't have to be harder then they need to be. I am not clingy so If I seem distant it's not because I don't like your company...it's because I need alone time. I do like dating and having people around me but I also like being alone. I am not looking for someone who is going to keep tabs on me. I like moving around freely. I am not a jealous person. I feel if there is something I need to be Jealous about the relationship isn't working out. I like the truth I will always let you know whats going on. I won't lie and tell you I can't see you because I have plans when what i'm really thinking is I need some time alone. I won't say I need some time alone if I am spending time with friends. I need someone who doesn't have to be thinking about what i'm doing and wondering who i'm with whenever i'm not with him. Chances are I will tell you all about it when I see you or talk to you. I am looking for someone whose feelings aren't easily hurt because I don't spend every waking moment thinking about him and what he is doing when he isn't with me. I hope you will tell me all about it when you see me or talk to me. This doesn't mean I will never let a special man know hes special I am just not an overbearing person. I also like being treated like i'm special with a romantic gesture once in a while but my perfect man doesn't have to spend 24 hours a day trying to make me feel special. A romantic gesture out of the blue when it's not expected is so much better then expected romance. If there is something wrong and you need someone by your side that is when I will make sure I give you the special attention needed....I like a man who will know when I need some extra special attention because there is something wrong. We all have those times when life is just beating us down and that is the time when I promise I will be there. All of you young men are so good looking that it makes me wish I were 20 years younger, but I'm not. I am sorry if I don't respond to you I am looking for someone my own age. But without a doubt If I were 20 years younger I would have respond unless you message me asking "How you doin"? LOL...it's how are you doing? lol...sorry thats just something that reminds me of a one night stand pick up line. Something that is fun and would allow us to actively interact with each other and get to know each other..Amusement Park, A fair or anything interactive...even an arcade or a game of wii will do if games are what you like. Lets just do something fun and active *** just sitting around talking about ourselves.

  • Kody

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Please don't waste my time. I am eventually looking for long term. I would enjoy meeting that special somebody to enjoy the future with. I enjoy reading true crime and autobiographies in my spare time. I was raised on a farm and enjoy the outdoors, camping, swimming, hiking, and riding horses. I listen mostly to country music and rock depending on my mood; no rap. I enjoy the beach and definitely the mountains; spend most of the summer at a pool somewhere.Please be real if you contact me and ready to atleast start thinking about a relationship. I am too old for games. If we meet or chat and you then decide you aren't interested then be man enough to say so not just basically fall off the face of the earth; we are in our 40's not 15. Definitely like to do something not so typical, make it fun and out of the ordinary

  • Alaine

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I have a very sarcastic, funny, easy outgoing and too caring personality, at least that what my friends tell me. I prefer jeans and a t-shirt over a dress, but know how to dress up if needed;). I know most of you guys think..run she plays hockey,but that's like me saying all guys are jerks. I am a girl, can act like a princes and hang out with the boys. I know how to cook a wicked meal, know how to drive in the snow and know how to skate and play hockey ;). I am not looking for sexual encounters only, cause believe me...it is not easy to beat bob (battery operated boyfriend and the energizer bunnies ;)... however that does not mean I want to jump into anything fast either. How about one step at a time and see where we end?I love and miss my dad like crazy, he raised a girl who does not take bs and chase only after her dreams and a puck .I love the outdoors, traveling, hiking with my dog, reading a good book, watch a movie, horseback riding, canoeing and hockey " Let's go Canes, Adler Mannheim and Habs!".I have to say I get pretty much along with everybody,really hate drama and like to stay as far away from it as I can.I like to laugh a lot, including about myself........ hey that's the best part, come on people, life is to short to be so serious..the things EMS teached me...."it can end in a heart beat". Right now I am working on getting back into civil engineering drafting...and hope I am doing the right step.If I looked at your profile, obvious something caught my interest, so you can sent me a message if you are interested. I am not rude and will respond when I get a chance and yes I am a little on the shy side at first, but that will change. We can talk about this and see what WE can come up with. I do NOT consider a movie or a club a good place for a first date.

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