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Bette, 43

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About Me

I am fun, adventurous and love a great conversation. I am very goal oriented and enjoy a career as a writer/business owner. I love kids (have three, 5, 15, ***and am very family oriented. I am pretty much up for anything new and love new experiences. A perfect night at home for me is some jazz, a glass of wine, candles and cooking with my friends. I love hanging out with my kids, even though one is in college. I am ***not 43 like my profile says) but most people think I look much younger and am even mistaken for my oldest daughter's sister often. I like to dine out sometimes but also like relaxing time at home as I have a demanding career. I have traveled some and would like to travel more. I am not a really big outdoors person but have owned boats and tried hang gliding, zipping and snorkeling and am pretty open minded. I am fairly tall at 5'7" with long blonde hair and brown eyes. That's a little about me. I think its funny when guys post pics of themselves with fish. Dogs, cats, babies...girls think they're cute! fish? not so much. Good pics also help (preferably not with an x cut out of them) haha. Tell me a little about yourself... My perfect first date would be with someone that I can engage in a conversation with on the same level over a glass of wine and a sunset...just getting to know each other. I like someone who is business minded, would like to travel a little and is a strong family man.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Merle

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I'm not looking for any sex!!!!! Now that I've lost 99% of men on here.....I am a sweet natured, good hearted person looking for the same qualities. No time for games, freaks, druggies, or drunks! If you found me then you are in luck. I'm fun, not jealous or controlling. I love sports, travel, out doors, flying, cruising the ocean to beautiful countries and collecting trinkets from all over. I collect swarovski crystal and coins. I love live sporting events, races, horses, mountains, and nature. No baggage, no drama, only honesty and compassion for all beings. I hope one day to meet my soulmate and do these things together. Meanwhile I'm not looking for anything serious to start, and definately not marriage. I've been married and it can be good, but unless your married to your best friend it's hopeless. I'm ready to begin my new journey in life now that I'm single after 20 years. I'm free and ready to spread my wings and fly! Want to be the wind beneath my wings? Are you adventurous? Do you like to have fun? Do you want to be a friend and see where it goes? Please write me if that's the case. Surprise me! I like being surprised , and I like flowers......hint hint.FCC

  • Marissa

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Im a hard working person who is a mother first, but am willing to dedicate time in having fun with that special person. Seeking for a gentleman that is honest and not into games. Although I am not interested in an immediate relationship, but am open if it happens. I believe friends first, then wherever chemistry takes us. **Serious inquiries only and I am not here for intimate encounters** For a first date, it would be nice to go to a quiet place like a cafe or restaraunt in order to talk and get to know each other.

  • Dorene

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    A little insight to what life is like with me..... of course it's always more interesting with someone who shares what you enjoY! So, here it is.First of all, chemistry results you may read for self control and openness are very off. I have no idea how the wonderful meetville algorithm came up with the assessments. The others are pretty close, however.Cooking, wine tasting (Im a total snob, actually!), reading, cycling the Trace, candlelight all over the house, working out in my gym, hottubbing it in the snow, art shows on Thursday nights, quiet nights at home, snuggling by the fire in the winter, loving on my sweet dogs, decking it with friends on the weekends, travel travel travel!, music is always gently playing on the Bose...generally some sort of jazz/blues or maybe a Sinatra sound. Great reads. Long bubble baths that make the house smell all 'girly,' Throw in a little sophistication and lots of giggles & great conversation, and Im a happy lady! Much happier with my happy man, however!I love animals and do some rescue work. I'd like someone who is supportive of my efforts with the animals, even if you don't make it a priority in your life. If you have a photo of yourself posted holding up an animal you killed, keep on movin. You just undid everything I spend every spare minute killing myself doing. I have no respect. If we were cavepeople, and you needed to hunt for us to live, it would be a different story. I can take or leave a piece of chicken or beef that was raised to feed me. Veggies, however, are God's gift to us to live! No need to take a life. You wanna hunt? Use a camera!Im a movie buff, and enjoy painting /creating art on a commissioned basis. Life is too short for bad accessories and bad wine. So I make sure I have plenty of the good stuff, and enjoy it all! (okay, so Im a LITTLE of a diva!)If you want a girl who is quiet and doesn't know what she wants...one that you can mold into who you think she should be, one you can hush..Im not the lady for you. I am who I am at 45 and I like myself and where I am in life. I am proud of my accomplishments and the long and short term goals in life I continue to set..and meet! I love a challenge, but I don't want a man who is a challenge.I'm a lover, not a fighter. I have no children and don't plan on starting a family (or raising yours) at this stage in my life. I am intelligent, attractive, and greatly enjoy participating in deep,meaningful conversation. Im delightuflly opinionated, yet respectful of others'.I'm easy to live with, get along with, passionate, live a drama free life, and plan on keeping it that way. If your ex-wife, who is the mother to your kids, still has control of your life, or if you recently had a bad breakup, and your ex-girlfriend/wife is stalking you with a sharp object or a government issue type weapon, please leave me out of all that! You need to work thru that before dragging someone else into a mess! --kinda falls into that NO DRAMA category!I'm fiscally conservative, however lean a little more towards center when it comes to social issues. I am a Christian and strive to live my life with those values as my guide. I intend on finding a man of strong character and who shares many of the same values I feel are an important part of what makes us strong as individuals, and as partners.I have worked hard for many years. Now, am able to reap the rewards and would like someone with flexibiity to do some traveling or just hanging out whenever we want, I do still work. Just not nearly as hard or as much.If meeting someone like me to see if you'd like to make something special out of it sounds good, I'd love to hear from you.However, the quickest way to get your *** to send a good ol "hey how's it goin?" one-liner, or have a pre-written *** This is the Beginning!... It would help if it seems there is some sincere personal interest, you know-- more than the copy & paste style communication! (speaking of communication, if your relationships are centered around your smart phone, or you tend to try to create meaning with text messaging, It's going to be a very short, very one sided relationship. I dont text anything that needs to be discussed or said in person). Second biggest turn off.... If the first line of your profile starts with your measurements (you dont need to know my chest size yet, and I dont need to know yours!), or how many days a week you work out, or how in shape you are, or all your pictures are of you with your shirt off showing off your guns. Ill learn that eventually. If those things are what define you, then they will be the things you look for in someone else that defines them. And that isnt me.. anymore. We're both about ten years too late for that!Thanks for reading this far. Hopefully you're a little intrigued -or at the very least, a little delighted to read a real and honest profile.........YOU ARE BRAVE!ps.. If I get an *** saying you want to meet me, I won't ***'ll have to make good on that yourself! A great first date would be something or somewhere, inside or out, with great atmosphere, to give us a chance to talk and get to know each other..something we would plan together, and something that would hopefully lead to a second date! Or better yet, one that never ends!

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