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Penni, 45
United States, Georgia, Monticello

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About Me

I'm looking to loose the workaholic and spend more time on me(and/or some people important to me).I am very focused.I am sometimes Too selfcontained.Looking to expand my horizons I guess. This is uncomfortable for me because it is outside my"Box". I can come across as very reserved; I just need to relax and get to know the person. Anyone who knows me well knows I always mean the best and want only to do the right thing.I just got two pets after many years of not being able to have any because of work so I'm stoked about that. I'm a marshmallow inside with the crispy burned part outside. I'll change this as poop pops into my brain. ***update: I get the messages from people who want to meet me...days or weeks later...I am rarely in service...Let alone TOWN..PS STILL WORKAHOLIC!!!! Maybe I want determination...make the extra effort...I'm afraid of alone. But I want my life to coincide with someone elses. I Will not be someone else's convenience. I'm not interested in "booty calls" either. Really I'm not a difficult person!!! lol I think it's best to be up front with what I like and don't like. Finding someone to "share" things with would be great... a give and take situation. I like playing pool; I may even be in town a bit more this summer, so I can do that maybe! Holy Cow??!!I don't really know, except not "normal"?? Maybe a day fishing, 4x4ing, a few beer and talking to get to know this person.If it was dinner that'd be ok. But weird for me haven't "dated" in years.I'm less formal. Don't get me wrong I am fully able to Girlify and act like a lady. I'm just more (maybe Too?) relaxed; or trying to be!I'm just as happy with a grease gun or wrench in my hand as a rose. ***update: still not traditional!! I work with men... I am NOT Girly... sorry. favorite song RIGHT NOW: march 26 rhiana " shut up and drive" sshhh but LOUD.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Canadian Indian Turkish Adventure History Mystery Sci-Fi American Football Ice Hockey
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