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Penni, 45

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About Me

I'm looking to loose the workaholic and spend more time on me(and/or some people important to me).I am very focused.I am sometimes Too selfcontained.Looking to expand my horizons I guess. This is uncomfortable for me because it is outside my"Box". I can come across as very reserved; I just need to relax and get to know the person. Anyone who knows me well knows I always mean the best and want only to do the right thing.I just got two pets after many years of not being able to have any because of work so I'm stoked about that. I'm a marshmallow inside with the crispy burned part outside. I'll change this as poop pops into my brain. ***update: I get the messages from people who want to meet me...days or weeks later...I am rarely in service...Let alone TOWN..PS STILL WORKAHOLIC!!!! Maybe I want determination...make the extra effort...I'm afraid of alone. But I want my life to coincide with someone elses. I Will not be someone else's convenience. I'm not interested in "booty calls" either. Really I'm not a difficult person!!! lol I think it's best to be up front with what I like and don't like. Finding someone to "share" things with would be great... a give and take situation. I like playing pool; I may even be in town a bit more this summer, so I can do that maybe! Holy Cow??!!I don't really know, except not "normal"?? Maybe a day fishing, 4x4ing, a few beer and talking to get to know this person.If it was dinner that'd be ok. But weird for me haven't "dated" in years.I'm less formal. Don't get me wrong I am fully able to Girlify and act like a lady. I'm just more (maybe Too?) relaxed; or trying to be!I'm just as happy with a grease gun or wrench in my hand as a rose. ***update: still not traditional!! I work with men... I am NOT Girly... sorry. favorite song RIGHT NOW: march 26 rhiana " shut up and drive" sshhh but LOUD.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lorean

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I'm a single mom. I have two great kids and a grandbaby on the way. I work a full time job and a part time job, that takes up ALOT of my time. I'm not interested in "taking care" of someone else. I already have children lol I love to be outside,Playing ball, Camping, fishing, just laying out on a beach somewhere, floating down the river, or going on a nice long trail ride. The first thing that pops in to mind when I want to relax is climbing on the back of my horse. I like to go out dancing just as much as I like curling up on the couch and watching a movie. I'm a cuddler, I like to show my affection for someone I care about . I am not looking for anything too serious right now, although I'm not against it happening. I just want to start with friends and take things as they come. Don't be afraid to message me, I`m pretty easy going. Whats the worst that can happen? Your in the same boat your in now, or you might end up with a great new friend? Maybe even someone special! Happy Fishing!Oh, and I dont mind meeting someone who is dating people to find that right person, but dont pretend your looking for something your not. It just really puts you in a bad light. ;o)*Sorry, cant use that chat thing on this computer*What happened to the gentlemen? The ones who ask a girl out on a date, not to get laid, but to actually get to know them? ***\\\***Put This***On Your***account If***You Know***\\\***Someone***\\***Who Died***\***Of Cancer***\\\***Or who is suffering from it***\\\---Or you know someone who has Survived it***\\\***A first date, well that would depend entirely on who I was with.A nice quiet lunch or dinner is always great, at a place where you can talk easily and get to know each other. A walk afterwards. I'm a bit new to the whole dating scene so taking everything as it comes is how it goes for me.

  • Lally

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am resourceful and enjoy finding a way to accomplish a challenge.I enjoy grocery shopping reality tv and a good cup of coffee.I like listening to talk radio ( Coast to Coast AM) I am reflective and love improv humour.I am forgiving by nature and able to see more than one side of a situation.I enjoy history and haunted property sites. talk on the phone and go for a coffee.Thrift shopping. Go Grocery shopping together.

  • Ayanna

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    FREE TO A GOOD HOME: Adorable middle aged woman, is spayed, has had all her shots,is toilet trained and has papers (mostly bills)...FYI....Did I mention adorable? LOLDid I catch your attention? LOL I am a fun lovin girl with a great sense of humor. I like meeting new people, walks on the beach, campfires, and a good movie every now and then...and of course CUDDLES :)Very strong independant woman who also loves road trips....;)Have a FUNTASTIC day guys......

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