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Elfa, 45
United States, Georgia, Monticello

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I've been told "looking doesn't mean finding - So stop looking and send a message...Ya never know...don't forget your photo, please. After all, I've put my photo up for all to see, If I didn't then how would you know where to find me?It would be so much nicer if you send a personal, from the heart, message rather than a "meet me" message. That way, I will bite that hook and send you a message in return. anything is possible.Just a bit about me-*I put adventurer because I like adventures. I'm not out climbing mountains, or doing all kinds of adventurous activities all the time. I do enjoy being active though. And will consider doing all kinds of adventurous pursuits with my best friend / life mate.*I like the little things in life, a smile, thoughtfulness, consideration of others…*Not a materialist, I am happy with the essentials.*I am more or less down to earth, smell the flowers, taste the natural sweetness of home grown food, so I'm not uptight or unhappy - Appreciation is part of my life. *I question things and enjoy learning new things.*I value my family and their love, they are my friends.*Outdoor pursuits and being active is much more fun rather than TV, it is not my choice of entertainment, although I do watch a movie in the evenings - Not a couch potato sports fan, sorry. *Morning person.*I'm not much of a drinker either btw, real life is much better *Less meat, more seafood and veggies. Really love this, so I will share.Bob Marley > Quotes > Quotable QuoteBob Marley“Only once in your life, I truly believe, you find someone who can completely turn your world around. You tell them things that you’ve never shared with another soul and they absorb everything you say and actually want to hear more. You share hopes for the future, dreams that will never come true, goals that were never achieved and the many disappointments life has thrown at you. When something wonderful happens, you can’t wait to tell them about it, knowing they will share in your excitement. They are not embarrassed to cry with you when you are hurting or laugh with you when you make a fool of yourself. Never do they hurt your feelings or make you feel like you are not good enough, but rather they build you up and show you the things about yourself that make you special and even beautiful. There is never any pressure, jealousy or competition but only a quiet calmness when they are around. You can be yourself and not worry about what they will think of you because they love you for who you are. The things that seem insignificant to most people such as a note, song or walk become invaluable treasures kept safe in your heart to cherish forever. Memories of your childhood come back and are so clear and vivid it’s like being young again. Colours seem brighter and more brilliant. Laughter seems part of daily life where before it was infrequent or didn’t exist at all. A phone call or two during the day helps to get you through a long day’s work and always brings a smile to your face. In their presence, there’s no need for continuous conversation, but you find you’re quite content in just having them nearby. Things that never interested you before become fascinating because you know they are important to this person who is so special to you. You think of this person on every occasion and in everything you do. Simple things bring them to mind like a pale blue sky, gentle wind or even a storm cloud on the horizon. You open your heart knowing that there’s a chance it may be broken one day and in opening your heart, you experience a love and joy that you never dreamed possible. You find that being vulnerable is the only way to allow your heart to feel true pleasure that’s so real it scares you. You find strength in knowing you have a true friend and possibly a soul mate who will remain loyal to the end. Life seems completely different, exciting and worthwhile. Your only hope and security is in knowing that they are a part of your life.”No pressure- first meeting - walk, tea or coffee. Perhaps a day at wild play, short hike, ?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

German Italian Portuguese Vietnamese Adult Family & Kids Romance Archery Sailing Tennis
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  • Ka from Monticello | Woman | 44 years old | Taurus
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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Ok...do you want the truth or would you prefer the cotton dry...copy and paste version of what I'm looking for and who I am? Funny....every single one of us here sounds like the best thing since sliced bread. Then why are we here if we are so good at being a partner to another human being? I don't like bs and I won't serve it to you either. You must be a man between the age of 35 and 50...we will have something in common...like the 80's.I've been asked many many times what am I looking for and why am I here? I will NOT tell you. I will not put words in your mouth just so you can tell me what I want to hear. I'm 44 years old....and I know what I want from a man and from a relationship with a man. Now it's up to you to be yourself and show me who you are. Be original, figure out who I am and what I like...then we'll click.I'm not perfect...thank God for that...and I know you aren't either. You can't fool me on this no matter how hard you will try. We can play mind games...but wouldn't that be an exhausting waste of everybody's time? And let's be honest...we are not getting any younger.This is a wonderful website to find people of all ages...shapes and sizes...ethnicity...likes and dislikes. Read mine first before you contact me so there is no confusion on your part. I am not 20 years old, so don't expect me to act like one. Do I have a firm body??? Yes I do...underneath my feminine and soft curves. Do you want to know about my sexlife? I'm here for a reason, does that answer your question? Be yourself and be honest....leave the faking to the women. Please don't ask how I know about faking and pretending...long story. Nothing about me is fake. I'm as real as it gets. Real feelings...thoughts....emotions. ..wants....needs and boobs. I'm not here to see how many men I can have sex with...so if that's all you are interested in please move on. Age is just a number...but please don't ask me to act like a bimbo because I am not one. I am a grown woman and even if you are younger than me I do expect you to act like a man and not a boy who can only see as far as his penis. Still interested? Talk to you later....Cheers My first date will have to be somewhere "safe". A coffee shop, meet at a park and just walk around. If it's hot, go for ice cream, walk around and hold hands. If it's cold, a nice hot chocolate will hit the spot while sitting across from each other holding hands. Make me laugh and the chances are we will get along.

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  • Shayne from Monticello | Woman | 43 years old | Pisces
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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Here I am taking a risk once again to find someone to spend time together enjoying our surrounds, music, movies, sporting events and of course each other. I'm shy to begin with, and would much rather you take the first step and say "hi", but I'm getting a little braver in the cyber world. Life has thrown me a few curve balls but I have yet to let one knock me out of the game! All I'm looking for is someone to take a chance, gain another friend and who knows maybe a whole lot more! ??Who's that girl?She has eyes that see the positive in all things and people. Hands that love to hold, caress and comfort, a heart that beats for the ones she loves and often found on her sleeve for others to see. Teammate, play maker, trainer and official of summer and winter sports, competitive and recreational both. Hockey being the first and foremost passion and almost anything else that requires a leather ball, club, bat or racquet to play. She's given her heart to the One, and awaits her two that shares her relationship with Jesus Christ in word and action.Seeks like minded companion, teammate, confidant, friend, and life partner to share in new adventures, dreams and goals. He's charming, but only has eyes for one, compassionate, driven, sensitive but protective. He's handy, active, a leader, adventurous and wears his heart on his sleeve willing to give his shirt off of his back to help those in need. His faith is a priority by knowing it's the true relationship and foundation for how he lives his life. He'll be my loudest cheerleader and I his, I'll be his comfort in times of trial as he'd be my strength, my medic when I'm hurt playing sports and I his nurse when he's not feeling well. My comedic relief when I'm feeling blue and my entertainment in the "dull" moments of life. Together walking hand in hand together making memories, sharing life together. Passionate stolen kisses, simmering glances across the room meant only for each other, butterflies fluttering in the stomach and the memories of yet to be made....Okay.... now the next step is yours, be brave, send me a note and reel me in. Oh look.... shiny...... Something fun and casual.... dinner and a movie, I'm game for something simple. Surprise me with you wit and imagination!

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  • Petra from Monticello | Woman | 42 years old | Cancer
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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    all that I am after is ........a life full of laughteroh yeah and some other things as well:I would love to meet someone that wants to have some fun and enjoy the outside weather. I believe in doing everything with passion and laughter and hope to get to know that person to and make a relationship out of it, or at least become friends.So about me, I decided to change my city to Calgary but live in Canmore, but I am in and out of the city all the time, but I just love being in the mountains! I am fun, funny, passionate, smart, easygoing, independent, confident, honest, willing to try just about anything with the right person/encouragement(well maybe I wont jump out of a plane..but who knows). I have great friends and family and love to travel, see new things and meet new people.I have a job that has lots of travel, when I am not traveling for work or fun I am lucky enough that I can work from home in Canmore. I know this is not for everyone, but I would still like to meet someone and build up to a great relationship.so if you think that we could hit it off, send a message.Have a great day! I am easygoing and up for anything. Coffee a walk a plane ticket..whatever :)

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