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Elfa, 45
United States, Georgia, Monticello

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I've been told "looking doesn't mean finding - So stop looking and send a message...Ya never know...don't forget your photo, please. After all, I've put my photo up for all to see, If I didn't then how would you know where to find me?It would be so much nicer if you send a personal, from the heart, message rather than a "meet me" message. That way, I will bite that hook and send you a message in return. anything is possible.Just a bit about me-*I put adventurer because I like adventures. I'm not out climbing mountains, or doing all kinds of adventurous activities all the time. I do enjoy being active though. And will consider doing all kinds of adventurous pursuits with my best friend / life mate.*I like the little things in life, a smile, thoughtfulness, consideration of others…*Not a materialist, I am happy with the essentials.*I am more or less down to earth, smell the flowers, taste the natural sweetness of home grown food, so I'm not uptight or unhappy - Appreciation is part of my life. *I question things and enjoy learning new things.*I value my family and their love, they are my friends.*Outdoor pursuits and being active is much more fun rather than TV, it is not my choice of entertainment, although I do watch a movie in the evenings - Not a couch potato sports fan, sorry. *Morning person.*I'm not much of a drinker either btw, real life is much better *Less meat, more seafood and veggies. Really love this, so I will share.Bob Marley > Quotes > Quotable QuoteBob Marley“Only once in your life, I truly believe, you find someone who can completely turn your world around. You tell them things that you’ve never shared with another soul and they absorb everything you say and actually want to hear more. You share hopes for the future, dreams that will never come true, goals that were never achieved and the many disappointments life has thrown at you. When something wonderful happens, you can’t wait to tell them about it, knowing they will share in your excitement. They are not embarrassed to cry with you when you are hurting or laugh with you when you make a fool of yourself. Never do they hurt your feelings or make you feel like you are not good enough, but rather they build you up and show you the things about yourself that make you special and even beautiful. There is never any pressure, jealousy or competition but only a quiet calmness when they are around. You can be yourself and not worry about what they will think of you because they love you for who you are. The things that seem insignificant to most people such as a note, song or walk become invaluable treasures kept safe in your heart to cherish forever. Memories of your childhood come back and are so clear and vivid it’s like being young again. Colours seem brighter and more brilliant. Laughter seems part of daily life where before it was infrequent or didn’t exist at all. A phone call or two during the day helps to get you through a long day’s work and always brings a smile to your face. In their presence, there’s no need for continuous conversation, but you find you’re quite content in just having them nearby. Things that never interested you before become fascinating because you know they are important to this person who is so special to you. You think of this person on every occasion and in everything you do. Simple things bring them to mind like a pale blue sky, gentle wind or even a storm cloud on the horizon. You open your heart knowing that there’s a chance it may be broken one day and in opening your heart, you experience a love and joy that you never dreamed possible. You find that being vulnerable is the only way to allow your heart to feel true pleasure that’s so real it scares you. You find strength in knowing you have a true friend and possibly a soul mate who will remain loyal to the end. Life seems completely different, exciting and worthwhile. Your only hope and security is in knowing that they are a part of your life.”No pressure- first meeting - walk, tea or coffee. Perhaps a day at wild play, short hike, ?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

German Italian Portuguese Vietnamese Adult Family & Kids Romance Archery Sailing Tennis
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    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

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