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Lillie, 44
United States, Georgia, Monticello

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About Me

Most of my friends are suggesting that I give this online dating stuff a try so here goes... I am a strong willed,independent,caring,compassionate women. Humor is the spice of life, I find many things funny and am quick with my tongue. I can play the quiet and shy roll all though do not maintain it for very long. I am not looking for someone to tame me but someone I can be friends with and if it grows into something more then great. I don't want someone that I need to walk behind or in front of, I want to be side by side. I am not looking for someone that requires ***attention. I have a busy schedule, yes could possibly slow down some, maybe I will meet someone who makes me want to, however I enjoy what I do for work. For the right person I may be able to take a little more time off to be with them but I will continue to work hard at what I do. You need to be strong enough to tell me NO at times, but smart enough to know when to just say yes. I will admit that yes I do have a temper and it shows at times, but doesn't everyone.... ok so maybe not those that are still in denial. I am not the type of girl that needs to be wined and dined all the time, I am capable of feeding myself and have on occasion been known to whine haha. All that said I am not the type for casual hook ups or booty calls. Please don't waste your valuable time if that is what you are about. I am hoping to meet new friends, really if you don't like someone enough to be able to spend quality time with them then the whole thought of intimate contact seems moot... doesn't it?? That's where the morning after regrets, trying to chew off you arm while trying not to wake your sleeping partner comes from.Not looking for anyone with a drug habit or problems with alcohol, yes this also includes those that think they don't have a problem... as in they get drunk fall down ( no problem ), or "I only do drugs on days off!!"Sorry not interested. Not against social drinking. I am a single mom of three wonderful children that are all almost grown, only two left at home and only that is part time. I love family time, however with teenage kids that usually consists of them dropping their laundry on the floor and then wondering where it went once its clean. What's for dinner, and never being able to find the house phone. Thank god for personal cell phones and having two bathrooms!!I am who I am and don't have the ability or wish to pretend to be someone I am not.I most definitely do not have the body shape of BARBIE!! I have more curves then would like, yes trying to change that part, not doing very well but still trying. I am comfortable with our without makeup, with hair in a ponytail or done up, can dress up or just jeans and a tee shirt. Don't like head games from either side, yes sorry to be the bearer of bad news but men actually play them too :) If this has in any way tweaked your interest send me a message, you never know where things go. Coffee and a chat would be great. See if there is something worth a second cup or just going our own ways with no regrets.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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