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Bertie, 41
United States, Georgia, Monticello

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About Me

...until I boot myself from this place! =PThis isn't my first time here - people seem to come and go... and then come back for more ;)I picked "hang out", but it could be friends or dating, whatever... I am single so whatever happens, happens! It all starts with a solid friendship, obviously. Honesty is the best policy! I am always very upfront. I have two kids aged 12 and 15; they spend time with their dad on a regular basis, which means I do have time to myself every now and then. I have a demanding but very fulfilling job. I am not rich, but paying the bills and the mortgage isn't an issue... maybe even Asia, who knows. I like to be active, but I'm not into extreme sports.I seem to be caught between two worlds sometimes… I can be a complete goof ball, or very serious. I still love hair bands from the 80’s, but I also enjoy modern music. You may find me at a Van Halen or Metallica concert, or enjoying the Kamloops Symphonic Orchestra. It’s all about finding a balance, isn’t it? :)I'm a very simple person. I try to find beauty in everything. I don't like people who judge. I believe in second chances.I'd like to find someone who is driven, inspired, who is a critical thinker, has good morals, and who looks beyond the superficial.If you're obsessed with hunting, quadding in the mud, fancy cars, expensive toys, or your bank account, we're not a match.Sense of humour is a must! Good *** Every passing minute is a chance to turn it all around... :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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