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Elly, 45

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About Me

I am affection-ate :) creative,compassionate, curious, perceptive, Passionate, adventurous, spontaneous, and...........so much more all wrapped up in a 5' package. I know when I should behave like a lady and when it's time to let my hair down ;PI love being in nature; amongst the trees on trails, near the water, fire. It makes me feel centered and awakens all of my senses. I like to have fun and I have learned that most everything can be fun when you are with the right person. So we can be sitting under the stars with a bottle of wine, out dancing, or curled up in front of a fire so long as we are in good company ( compatible ), right?If we are a match then our affection and adoration for one another will feed off of each other. We will know because Everything we do together will be exciting because just being together makes it a fun new experience.I enjoy going to the gym. I think that learning is a lifelong journey. I like to work with my hands. I am a good cook but I am not the best house keeper. I dream of traveling to as many different places as I can. But I do not like cold weather. Im not a motorcycle fan, sorry :/I have a young daughter and i would love to give her the best life i can. she is the best thing that has ever happened to me!! Of all the things that I have ever experienced or learned, all the places I have been she has taught me more than anything else. I am monogamous. I was with my ex 11yrs and NEVER cheated; believe it! I have a conscience, I believe that God is the creator of all things and that everything has energy and that whatever yours is is what will come back to you. You have a right to believe in your God. Though I am independent, the woman in me still NEEDS a man that will always be my protector. He must have the ability to display his love and affection through his actions and words. He likes to laugh and play but knows where the line of respect is.I have found that in a relationship it is imperative to deal with issues as they come up. Otherwise, things just pile up so high that one day we are sitting there facing a big mountain that we can no longer climb.Your feelings and your ability to express them to me is ImPortanT and I need you to be able to reciprocate the same with me. When we are together we should both feel as if we have found home :D I am seeking a down to earth Man with Depth that can go below the surface. Meaning that he is not just looking for a superficial relationship that looks great to everyone on the outside (image) but is really lacking substance and is empty.He has the desire to communicate his needs and is also willing and able to validate mine.He can laugh at me and himself and can be silly.He is driven and established and well into a career, intelligent,respectful, educated but willing to learn, have fun, and experience new things..Note: A few drinks out socially is fun but I am not the one if you drink every day.I do not smoke, do drugs, and do not drink regularly. It just won't work if you do :( I am a nature lover. My idea of a fun date is a picnicking by the water and a walk through the woods on the trails. At the same time, an evening out to a musical, a movie, dancing, or a summer concert with a bottle of wine is just as much fun. I am not into sports but it would still be fun to go to a football game or a boxing match. I like a guy that can be silly and make me laugh. He must be willing to go out and be foot loose and fancy free too.Warning--any person and/or *** this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including but not limited to my photos. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee(s), agent(s), student(s) or any personnel under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this one.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    If you are looking for someone genuine, I’m your woman! I fully believe that laughter truly is the best medicine. I think fun comes from who you are with rather than what you are doing. However, that said, I do know when and where to be serious and respect that trait in others as well . I'm a single human being on my life voyage. Ideally I would prefer a companion for the journey. I am anti drama and am big on patience and loyalty. I believe in unconditional love. What does that mean? For me, I embrace the "love is blind" notion in a relationship. I am a live and let live type and choose to look for the best in my partner and I don't dwell on the negatives because Love is blind. I'm not perfect, I don't expect nor demand that you be either. We reap what we sow, so I tend to focus on my mate's happiness and believe in karma, meaning I will be rewarded 10 fold for my efforts. I enjoy all that life has to offer, from fine meals, dive bars, warm beaches and walking in the pouring rain. I like long bouts of silence as we read the paper, or cat naps and adore pillow talk during the wee hours of the morning. All of it is gold in my mind and you should at the very least understand where I am coming from.I'm looking for a man who likes to play,but can live in reality.You are comfortable in your own skin,have a strong sense of self and are not afraid to expose your flaws.Perfection is impossible. Laughing is essential.You love music and dancing,spontaneous fun,intelligent,good kisser is a must. :)

  • Tessie

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    It really doesn't matter what I write here. You will only the truth if you meet me. I have seen so many profiles that say " laid back" and "easy going" like it's a standard sentence used on a dating site. Speak in complete sentences. I will NOT give you my NUMBER until we have met and we decide whether or not we can hang out. If you don't like Halloween, camping ( and by that i mean you go camping, not just like the idea of it)and horror movies..we won't get along. Everything is too serious for most. Pay the bills..straighten the house up and let's go to the river. No movie.... Can't talk in there.

  • Clarity

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    A very happy woman always wants to laugh and smile. She also wants a good friend she can trust. I am a hard working woman and want the same in a man. I don't have time in my life to chase someone around. I want someone attentive but at the same time not clingy. Im not a sugar mama and Im not looking for a sugar daddy. I want something real. If youre looking for a roll in the hay.... move on because youre not getting it here. If you dont like to dance thats gonna be a downer for me. I love music and to dance. All kinds of music Something fun... Like bowling or the batting cages.

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