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Elly, 45

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About Me

I am affection-ate :) creative,compassionate, curious, perceptive, Passionate, adventurous, spontaneous, and...........so much more all wrapped up in a 5' package. I know when I should behave like a lady and when it's time to let my hair down ;PI love being in nature; amongst the trees on trails, near the water, fire. It makes me feel centered and awakens all of my senses. I like to have fun and I have learned that most everything can be fun when you are with the right person. So we can be sitting under the stars with a bottle of wine, out dancing, or curled up in front of a fire so long as we are in good company ( compatible ), right?If we are a match then our affection and adoration for one another will feed off of each other. We will know because Everything we do together will be exciting because just being together makes it a fun new experience.I enjoy going to the gym. I think that learning is a lifelong journey. I like to work with my hands. I am a good cook but I am not the best house keeper. I dream of traveling to as many different places as I can. But I do not like cold weather. Im not a motorcycle fan, sorry :/I have a young daughter and i would love to give her the best life i can. she is the best thing that has ever happened to me!! Of all the things that I have ever experienced or learned, all the places I have been she has taught me more than anything else. I am monogamous. I was with my ex 11yrs and NEVER cheated; believe it! I have a conscience, I believe that God is the creator of all things and that everything has energy and that whatever yours is is what will come back to you. You have a right to believe in your God. Though I am independent, the woman in me still NEEDS a man that will always be my protector. He must have the ability to display his love and affection through his actions and words. He likes to laugh and play but knows where the line of respect is.I have found that in a relationship it is imperative to deal with issues as they come up. Otherwise, things just pile up so high that one day we are sitting there facing a big mountain that we can no longer climb.Your feelings and your ability to express them to me is ImPortanT and I need you to be able to reciprocate the same with me. When we are together we should both feel as if we have found home :D I am seeking a down to earth Man with Depth that can go below the surface. Meaning that he is not just looking for a superficial relationship that looks great to everyone on the outside (image) but is really lacking substance and is empty.He has the desire to communicate his needs and is also willing and able to validate mine.He can laugh at me and himself and can be silly.He is driven and established and well into a career, intelligent,respectful, educated but willing to learn, have fun, and experience new things..Note: A few drinks out socially is fun but I am not the one if you drink every day.I do not smoke, do drugs, and do not drink regularly. It just won't work if you do :( I am a nature lover. My idea of a fun date is a picnicking by the water and a walk through the woods on the trails. At the same time, an evening out to a musical, a movie, dancing, or a summer concert with a bottle of wine is just as much fun. I am not into sports but it would still be fun to go to a football game or a boxing match. I like a guy that can be silly and make me laugh. He must be willing to go out and be foot loose and fancy free too.Warning--any person and/or *** this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including but not limited to my photos. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee(s), agent(s), student(s) or any personnel under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this one.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Bula

    Online

    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    So here I go again! Moving on after a 3 year relationship. I am going to ease into this dating thing once again. Just in case you wont read on - please note I am 5 foot 10 inches tall. I prefer to date tall men who are at least my height.My friends would describe me as outgoing, kind and caring. I have a 13 year old son who lives with me full time. I am emotional and financially stable (LOL). I am settled in my career. I enjoy home renovations and decorating. I love the outdoors - tent camping, hiking, paddling. The fall is my favourite time of the year. I love walking on a trail and listening to the leaves underfoot. I would like to say I am a good communicator but clearly writing a few lines about oneself can be challenging. Being able to communicate and open (once some trust is established) to a greater emotional intimacy is really key to winning my heart. A good sense of humour doesn't hurt either. I do enjoy witty banter. I guess what I would like you to know is I'm a passionate person (not talking about sexual passion at this moment - but not denying that with the right person***talking about passion for life - commitment to the people or causes I care about. I want to look at the world with excitement and try new adventures - now I may need some coaxing when it come to heights but being with a partner I trust and connect with I can overcome just about any fear. Maybe that is really the key to life - Finding someone who loves us just as we are but inspires us to be even more. I know that I am only truly happy when I can be myself. So I will not be putting on any acts or pretend to be someone I'm not.I'm romantic by nature - I like holding hands and playful teasing. I like public displays of affection (well not the type we could receive compensation for in the seedier parts of town). I am looking for a connection - both physical and emotional. I want closeness but not clingy. I think couples are most satisfied when they maintain a true sense of themselves. So guys enjoys boys night - or a play hockey - just come home to me - LOLI am not looking for a long term relationship right now. It would be nice to meet someone that makes me change my mind about that but I am happy to meet new people and enjoy each others company with no pressure. A committed dating relationship would suit me just fine with the right guy.As for physical appearance - I am 5 foot 10 inches tall and would prefer to date someone my height or taller. I am blonde and right now my hair is about to my shoulder. My figure is curvy (hourglass) and I have some extra pounds that I am working on losing. If that bothers you we would not be a good match. I do go to the gym a couple days a week and enjoy hot yoga. I would love to find someone who enjoys spending time outdoors or being active in general. I believe in chemistry but I do not have a "type". I agree that physical attraction is important. A nice smile goes a long way. I would like someone who shares my interests and has a positive outlook. Maintaining a healthy lifestyle is important. I am not much of a drinker and I try to eat right. Yes I splurge sometimes just not everyday. We all have baggage but if yours is weighing you down then pass me by. Good luck in your search!

  • Tilly

    Online

    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I'm looking for someone that enjoys being outdoors as much as I do, someone who loves anything to do with the water, the beach and doesn't mind exercise. I'm not perfect but I do workout regularly and I am physically fit. I enjoy being active and desire to meet someone that has the same lifestyle. I enjoy watching sports; which should be something in common. I love to cook and grill out and also enjoy relaxing at home with a glass of wine to share in your company. I'm very laid back and have a great sense of humor. I have a fun, loving, caring spirit. I am very loyal, and will always be honest with whomever I meet. I have a big heart, and there is the romance side to me as well and would love to share that with the right person. My smile is contagious and I love to laugh and when you spend time with me you will laugh too. My life is fantastic but having a special partner to join me would make it that much more special. Let's experience what else life has to offer us together I’m looking for someone who is sincere, compassionate, romantic, genuine and open to conversation. I’m looking for a real relationship. I believe that the first time we meet we’ll know whether or not there will be a second time. When there’s chemistry you just know it. I would like to meet someone who is educated, has goals, financially secure, and confident with himself. Please do not contact me unless you have photos. Thank you, I look forward to meeting you. mutual decision

  • Lakendra

    Online

    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Giving this online dating thing a try! I've asked around for anyone who knows a good single man and am not having any luck. I know they are out there so I hope this gets things started.I am a single mom with two daughters. I have been divorced for seven years and am ready to get back out there! I enjoy trying new things and am attracted to a great smile and someone who can make me laugh. A good first date could be for coffee, drinks or dinner. Sporting event would be fun too!

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