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About Me

I live life with a passion, and I'm drawn to others who do as well. I'm an eternal optimist, and I marvel at all of the amazing things in this world. I have a lengthy bucket list, and I cross things off of it and add more to it all the time. I love it when I can find friends who will join me in nutty endeavors and soul-stretching passionate explorations of life. I smile all the time. I can't help but see the good in people. I see exciting potential at every fork in the road. I'm quite happy with my life the way it is, and I'm not looking for someone to fix it, or take care of me. I can do that myself. I do want someone to share my joy with, though. I'm likely going to be cautious about committing to marriage or permanence in a relationship, because it affects my children too, but I'd like to know that some sort of long-term goal is a possibility at least. I'm not saying we can't be friends along the way while we figure it out, but if you have no desire for a real relationship, we're probably not on the same page. I'm a balanced mix between responsible and fun. I have a busy job I love, and kids, friends, and family who need me. They all take time and commitment, so practically speaking, dating has to be flexible enough to fit in when I can. This is especially true in the beginning until I see if there's something worth pursuing beyond a few dates. If a true friendship/relationship were to develop, time would become more free, because family life could be integrated into that sort of situation. Until that time, though, you'd have to be patient with working around the times I have available. I want someone I can actually spend time with, without needing to plan a road trip. I live an active life and love hiking, biking, and spending time at the gym. I have had, and will continue to have, some big fitness goals for myself, and I always like to be working toward something that motivates me to make myself better. Right now it's losing some extra weight I gained when I had a stressful job last year, so that I can participate in a triathlon next spring. Although I live an active life, eat (mostly) healthy, and do take care of myself, I do NOT have the body of an athlete. Rather I coerce my body to do great things through sheer force of will and determination. I have curves and squishy spots, and while I sometimes manage to have less of those than other times, they never go away. If you're looking for someone who'll love doing active things with you, I can be your girl. But if you only have an attraction to skinny women, we probably shouldn't waste each other's time. Looking for:*Someone intelligent with a side of wit*A partner in crime for spontaneous adventures*Open-mindedness*Someone who enjoys touching and being touched*A man who knows who he is and what he wants, and lives in ways that make him happy and proud A great first date can be anything, really. It just needs an opportunity for plenty of flirtation and conversation, to see if there's a spark. I'm pretty open to just about any activities. I just want a chance to connect and see if there's a cool chemistry or not.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lorelle

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    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    It is the applicant who shows 4 the interview, the real employee shows up after the probation period... Have met some news friends on here... Never know who you can meet through others... Seriously do not bother to message me for a booty call... Varies

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I would like to meet someone who is genuine and sincere. Who is comfortable with themselves, who knows who they are looking for and what they want. A person who is happy and looking for someone to make things better then they are! I am a dog and cat person, so spoiling my four legged kids is what I enjoy doing !! :) It is very important to me to not have drama, or chaos, I am a very orginized person!! The other day I read that how you feel about yourself is what you attract to yourself !! It is amazing to realize that your own growth, and your own needs, are your responsiblity and not someone elses. I have spent the time single, and learned and grew from the experience, I am looking forward to meeting someone I have things in common with, that shares my values! Each day offers a new experience and a opportunity to learn. Life is a journey for all of us, its the small things everyday that make me smile! Include people in your life that teach you lessons, ones who make you a better person, and open your heart and take chances. Thank you for taking your time to read my profile !! My first date I think would be going out and having dinner somewhere nice. Maybe taking a walk with Honey. ( My dog) Talking, comunicating, laughing, getting silly, and building a friendship. Falling in the snow, bad jokes, imperfection, and mystery.

  • Kassia

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I have just moved to the area . I am a great person looking for a great man !! I am looking for a person to enjoy life and my new surroundings with . Please do not waste your time sending me pictures of you 6 , 7 ,or 10 years ago . My pics are recent and I expect the same from you !! First grade pictures do not count . I am a big kid at heart , so if your old and grouchy don't waste your time here !!! I guess we both would have to decide on that one. I do like coffee.

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