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About Me

I live life with a passion, and I'm drawn to others who do as well. I'm an eternal optimist, and I marvel at all of the amazing things in this world. I have a lengthy bucket list, and I cross things off of it and add more to it all the time. I love it when I can find friends who will join me in nutty endeavors and soul-stretching passionate explorations of life. I smile all the time. I can't help but see the good in people. I see exciting potential at every fork in the road. I'm quite happy with my life the way it is, and I'm not looking for someone to fix it, or take care of me. I can do that myself. I do want someone to share my joy with, though. I'm likely going to be cautious about committing to marriage or permanence in a relationship, because it affects my children too, but I'd like to know that some sort of long-term goal is a possibility at least. I'm not saying we can't be friends along the way while we figure it out, but if you have no desire for a real relationship, we're probably not on the same page. I'm a balanced mix between responsible and fun. I have a busy job I love, and kids, friends, and family who need me. They all take time and commitment, so practically speaking, dating has to be flexible enough to fit in when I can. This is especially true in the beginning until I see if there's something worth pursuing beyond a few dates. If a true friendship/relationship were to develop, time would become more free, because family life could be integrated into that sort of situation. Until that time, though, you'd have to be patient with working around the times I have available. I want someone I can actually spend time with, without needing to plan a road trip. I live an active life and love hiking, biking, and spending time at the gym. I have had, and will continue to have, some big fitness goals for myself, and I always like to be working toward something that motivates me to make myself better. Right now it's losing some extra weight I gained when I had a stressful job last year, so that I can participate in a triathlon next spring. Although I live an active life, eat (mostly) healthy, and do take care of myself, I do NOT have the body of an athlete. Rather I coerce my body to do great things through sheer force of will and determination. I have curves and squishy spots, and while I sometimes manage to have less of those than other times, they never go away. If you're looking for someone who'll love doing active things with you, I can be your girl. But if you only have an attraction to skinny women, we probably shouldn't waste each other's time. Looking for:*Someone intelligent with a side of wit*A partner in crime for spontaneous adventures*Open-mindedness*Someone who enjoys touching and being touched*A man who knows who he is and what he wants, and lives in ways that make him happy and proud A great first date can be anything, really. It just needs an opportunity for plenty of flirtation and conversation, to see if there's a spark. I'm pretty open to just about any activities. I just want a chance to connect and see if there's a cool chemistry or not.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Florence

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    *as a rule, if you don't have a picture or willing to share one from the start, I won't respond to your inquiry* sorry...I live by the beach in my own home with a great dog. No kids/divorced once. I am physically fit and staying that way is very important to me. I love running :) I have a great job that I have been at for over 8 years. I am not looking to settle down right now, but I am looking for a great person to spend time with and perhaps it may lead to something more. I am looking for a mutually respectful relationship. No drama! I like the simpler things I life and I am not into material objects. What a person does for a living is not important to me (as long as it is legal :), but it is important that a person be happy, productive and self sufficient. I have a great sense of humor, but a little sarcastic. I would consider myself a calm, reasonable, and responsible person. I am honest - a no BS type of person. I am looking for a connection with someone who does not play games and is honest about what they are looking for. Essentially...a nice guy :) I am not a huge partier, so those looking for one, we are not a match. I like to go out to dinner, the movies, and enjoy outdoor activities like hiking, running and going to the beach. I love to hang with friends and enjoy time out. I am a straight shooter who doesn't play games and I would be looking for the same.

  • Nyasia

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Here I go... I hate having to write about my likes and dislikes however I guess that is what this is all about. How else would you know if there was any potential chemistry? I like to hike, ski, kayak or swim but I also like to sit and read a good book curled up in my bed on a rainy day. I enjoy what the city has to offer and definitely take advantage of the art scene as much as possible. Sporting events are good too, my favorite being the US Open Tennis. I am always looking for a tennis partner as well. My absolute favorite passion is traveling however. Every year I make a point of going somewhere new and treasure the whole experience, from buying the travel books to booking the flight and hotel to actually going. It brings a smile on my face and yes my friends laugh at me when they see me carrying around a travel book. I live life to the fullest and love to take advantage of anything new that life has to bring my way. My motto is if you live your life right, once is enough.I am looking for a nice man who is ready to share their heart with me. I am looking for that special someone who can be my best friend and my lover but I guess isn't that why we are all on this sight? First date should be grabbing a coffee or a drink to start to get to know someone. Even just meeting and taking a walk could be nice as well.

  • Roselle

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    If you are just looking for a casual encounter, please keep looking. I am usually the one who people are drawn to when we are out. I can be wild and crazy. I love the outdoors., skiing, boating, bonfires. I am always willing to try something new. I have great friends who I spend time with. I have just not found the right guy yet. I am not looking for perfect. I want someone who has some similar interests. Someone who likes to be doing things yet also enjoys quiet time together.

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