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Ileen, 42

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About Me

I would say I'm pretty laid back and like to laugh alot, so personality and a sense of humor is huge for me. Obviously, chemistry is a must, and I feel it's either there or it's not. I love animals, especially dogs, and I grew up riding horses, so animal lovers are a definite plus.I love to workout often and stay in shape. I try to live as healthy as I can, not to say I don't enjoy a glass of wine or an occasional "cheat" day of food. I am extremely close with my family and enjoy spending time with them often. I do enjoy watching T.V. and love seeing movies as well. While I'm very comfortable on my own, I would like to find someone that is right for me and makes me feel like I can always be myself or aspire to be better! Really not interested in dating just to date, but rather finding that person that is the perfect fit for me, where we compliment each other, and it just works naturally. Sure, everyone has had relationships, good and bad, but I feel it's all about how you see the next step of your journey going, and I am always thinking anything is possible! I would have to say that first, meeting for coffee or a drink to see if there is any chemistry, is a good idea! Once it's established that there's a mutual spark, I think a great first date is a nice dinner, then maybe a walk (weather permitting, we do live in Wi....LOL..), just spending time talking and hanging out together, getting to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Very honest, down to earth single mom looking for a sincere and honest heart. The only games I want to play involve moving pieces around a board. Short of that, plz don't waste my time. I'm a hopeless romantic, who truly believes in the power of love. I'm fun, spontaneous, adventurous, and I LOVE to laugh!! :-) Not into racist, sexist, homophobic close minded ppl, and I won't tolerate dishonesty. That's a deal breaker for me. My ideal partner will understand that being a great mom is my top priority, and it will only work if he wants a good, strong relationship with my son as well. I'm a very strong willed, convicted, passionate person, but I do not like arguing on the home front. Someone asked me today what I'm doing on here. I told him that I was searching for my "intended." That one special guy that I'm supposed to be with (yes, I do believe in such things!). He then asked what I'm looking for in a guy. This was my response:Ideally, my perfect guy will be very honest (I hate being lied to!); he will be very loyal to me, and he wont cheat; he's faithful not out of fear of being caught but bcz he's happy...; he'll be smart, but not pretentious, (note: for me, smart and educated are NOT synonyms! Some of the most intelligent, well read ppl ik did not go to college; conversely, I know a lot of ppl w/college or even graduate degrees that are dumb as dirt!); he'll have a good sense of humor and will love making me laugh; he won't be judgmental or intolerant of human differences; he'll be adventurous and spontaneous; he will love the water, and feel a certain pull toward it; he'll be sweet and romantic, adoring and respectful; he'll be selfless, a giver not just a taker; he'll be hard working and hard playing; he's protective but not controlling;; he'll be a passionate and intense lover (compatibility here is essential); he's family oriented and he likes to have fun with family, he doesn't just tolerate them at the holidays! He will love all kinds of music, esp 70s and 80s (Although I wont lose sleep if he's not a big fan of rap/hip hop!), and will express himself frequently thru music (ability to play an *** a definite plus!) he'll have a healthy appreciation for movies, be able to quote them on command and get movie references when i make them (if i say "i gave her my heart, she gave me a pen" he'll get it, go play Peter Gabriel and lift his arms into the air!) But most importantly, he'll want a good relationship w/my son and ultimately will love him and be a strong positive role model in his life, helping me to shape and mold him into a great man one day. That's my wish list for my soul mate. I'm hoping to find someone w/at least one or two of these qualities! ;-) Perfect first date starts w/dinner at an amazing, but quiet, intimate restaurant, w/cocktails and/or wine, and shared dessert! Stroll afterward for more conversation, then find something fun to do, like go see a band, maybe meet up with some friends at a Fav bar and cut loose and have fun. Very relaxed and flirty and fun ;-)

  • Modesta

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

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  • Monta

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am a honest, loyal independant woman looking for same in a man. Dont contact me if your intent is just to date, thats bullsh*tor your intent is a booty call, it will never happen here, i am serious about relationship. Yes im 40, looking for someone within 5 years of my age. Yeah i have a pretty face but way more than that to offer. Hoping to find a great guy who can keep up with my sense of humor and challenge me .liars, cheaters, players and bullshitters need not apply. Dinner, movie

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