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Patti, 43

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About Me

im a open,honest and out going 41yr old widow who has not been out in the dating world for a long time.i dont want any drama!life is to short to be dealing with crap.i have three grown children all in college or school,who are my world.i enjoy long drives to nowhere,the beach,loud rock n roll,my dogs,nice dinners, cooking,hicking in the woods, camping.im not your typical 41 yr old widow,i go out to play pool and have a drink,i have tattoes and piercings,and im very independent with a fiesty streak.i want a man who can handle that.i love big dogs,big trucks and big men so i sound like someone you are interested in let me now.no drama or games please!!!!!!!! my ideal first date would be dinner and conversation,afterword maybe a walk or drive ,or just a cup of coffee.i think dating is over rated and people dont talk and get to know each well enough these days.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Joisse

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I'm not your average women. I am self sufficient and not looking for someone to support me. I play on a soccer teams and workout at the gym at 5:00 am every day. I'm not into game playing that is why I play soccer. What you see is what you get. I can be a girly girl but also don't mind getting my hands dirty. I'm looking for that certain guy I can connect with. I like to laugh and have a positive outlook. The man I am searching for has to have a sense of humor and the chemisty has to be there. He has to be self sufficient. I want someone I can open up a bottle of wine with and fight with who has the last piece of pizza. Someone I can cuddle up on the couch and watch scary movies with and will take my hand when I get scared and I'll take his too and won't even tell.Who I am looking for... Someone who can be committed and excited to be in a relationship. I love a man who has his own opinions and can express them in a sympathetic way. I am looking for the man who is the exception to the normal. Independent, strong, cares about his health and is physically active. I want someone who is interested in learning more about himself and me. MUST be smart. He does not have to be book smarts though. I want someone who is supportive and giving. I want someone to build the rest of my life with. I want someone who has his own interests and hobbies, and is okay with me having mine. Discovering things we can share is even better. I want someone who can identify and call me on my stuff. I want someone who loves to give and receive attention. I am very attentive. He should enjoy the simple pleasures. A little jealousy is healthy but not overboard. I want a man with dreams and ambitions of his own and be okay with me trying to help realize them. *Update to my profile*I feel a man should enhance your life not complete your life...I'm very happy where I'm at and love to laugh and have fun....it would be fun to have someone there to enjoy it with me....I have to be attracted to you and its not always about the looks...it could be something that just stands out about you...I'm just not willing to settle and I don't need to....I also like to watch football....go Cowboys..... Probably for a first date we would meet over coffee and see if there is any attraction.

  • Aveline

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Wow... This is not easy! Like my headline says, I'm looking for my best friend. Life can get lonely and I want to share it with someone. I'm pretty easy going, I hate confrontation. I'm a lover not a fighter, but I will fight with all that I have for my love. I'm a girly girl... but can hold my own. I don't have a problem with asking a man for help nor do I get upset if I have to do it myself. Romance is awesome.. Candle lit dinners, flowers, notes hidden in my purse, morning texts, and encouraging words makes me weak in the knees. Its all about who you are with! I give to a relationship as much as I get, I believe a relationship is a work in progress, it's usually not perfect but neither am I. I will always give my best fight. Haven't had much time for hobbies, always up for trying something new. Pepper, and I need a regular dose of Big Bang Theory. Laughing keeps me sane, I don't care if I'm laughing at the T.V., someone else, or at myself, it keeps life in perspective. For the first date.... Hmmmmmm.. No dark parking lots please! I don't want to leave out a potentially great idea so I will leave that up to you :)

  • Zola

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    What was it that Whitesnake said...."Here I go again on my own ;)" (There's an 80's reference in case you didn't catch it ***of my favorite songs from that era) So here's me in a nutshell. I'm a nut! ha ha. I have old fashioned values while living a modern lifestyle. I'm independent and have been for awhile, I work full time, own my own home and car and take care of my bills, but I love a man stepping up and being a man. Is it too much to ask for a man to be a gentleman anymore. Would love to see if there are any left out there. This is your challenge, should you choose to accept it. Make a move and I'm flattered, plan the date and I'm giddy, go in for the first kiss when the feeling is there and "HELLO".....Love It!!I'm goofy in that I love dressing up at the Renaissance Festival, will NEVER miss a halloween to dress up for and love being fun, creative and enjoying life. Yes! I said mild.....sorry. I'm a wimp. Take me dancing and you found a weakness of mine, skiing is right around the corner (I already have a pass, just need someone to go with) and who doesn't love snuggling up on the couch with a movie and some kettle corn popcorn with peanut M & Ms poured right in. Love going with my 86 yr old neighbor to play poker. I love going to Thrift Shops (yep..with $20 in my pocket) and see what I can find. I do try to have fun no matter what I'm doing really.I think some of you are taking this "Online" dating too seriously. Do any of you actually want to go outside and have an "In Person" Date. ha ha.. I'm pretty set on messaging, texting, meeting. If all I wanted was to chat on the computer or texting, I'd join the prisoner pen-pal program. Let's meet. Isn't that the point of this whole thing.If you're ready to step up and rise to the challenge, well....then.... Did you see the note above about making the move ;) What are you waiting for? Well we all know the good ole standby's. Can't wait to see what you come up with.

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