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Patti, 43

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About Me

im a open,honest and out going 41yr old widow who has not been out in the dating world for a long time.i dont want any drama!life is to short to be dealing with crap.i have three grown children all in college or school,who are my world.i enjoy long drives to nowhere,the beach,loud rock n roll,my dogs,nice dinners, cooking,hicking in the woods, camping.im not your typical 41 yr old widow,i go out to play pool and have a drink,i have tattoes and piercings,and im very independent with a fiesty streak.i want a man who can handle that.i love big dogs,big trucks and big men so i sound like someone you are interested in let me now.no drama or games please!!!!!!!! my ideal first date would be dinner and conversation,afterword maybe a walk or drive ,or just a cup of coffee.i think dating is over rated and people dont talk and get to know each well enough these days.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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