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Melda, 43

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About Me

Dear God of Internet Dating, Part the waves and show me just one really really excellent guy made just for me!Bring henceforth a perfectly imperfect renaissance man for whom humorruns through his veins, humility and open-heartedness are his credos, and with whom I may have many/ several mind-blowingyears of love, companionship, sex, laughter, emotional trust, and adventure. Bring it, Gods!(Not one more 'match' "pic" of a guy in a jeep with a dog on a mountaintop with wraparound shades and a baseball cap with a caption that says "just looken" or "loves powder". I don't want to know until date# 5 (if ever) what this guy does to 'work out'. WHAT I'll BRING TO THE TABLE: loyalty. adoration. unfettered attention to what you are saying to me with maybe a 77% retention on average.i'll cook, (you clean), vice/versa. rinse, repeat.in a relationship i'm about 70% team player and 30% (maybe ***if the going is really good).my 43 years have allowed me some time to reflect on who i am and who i am not and i have found that i restore well from the world on my own for a few hours each day. in that time i write or make stuff or just catch up on radio shows and space out on my aqua 50's sofa. it makes me sane, keeps me sane.i'll bring the skills and desire to be myself and accept you as you do the same.i'll hurl myself at karaoke with panache! i climb fences and trees. i like to hike and ride a bike. i can swing a racket around and swivel around on ice skates. i LOVE to play in the ocean and the pool. i can snorkel and camp with the rest of 'em but only to enjoy the nature that surrounds me, i'm not a member of the vertical bragging club and shredding committee.)i dont ballroom dance well...yet! i would learn. i'm a terror on the disco floor though.i'm affectionate. i have a trophy in cuddling. Not a patently, 'cat person', i'm just in dumb-love with Persian cats. i love adventure, travel and experiences without the guidebook or current maps. i just think to myself, 'what would fletch do?' i like to cook...i am perfecting raspberry pancakes from scratch right now. go garage-saleing or antiquing. i read and write almost everyday. i love my records. i love movies! i love museums and old bookstores, libraries, hardware stores. some paradoxes: i do improv comedy but i am shy. i am boy crazy but loyal when i am with a 'steady'. i am high maintenance but i wear levis.love the city as much as the seashore. love a subway as much as horseback. i am a capricorn with a scorpio moon and rising ... pluses: *make me laugh...like, really hard. *share with me the pleasures in everyday life *kindness and affection *sneaking into the movies with a flask of good sipping scotch *pulling over on a road trip just to play mini golf with me? a perfect first date would...never end!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Sheridan

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

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  • Tanner

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Thank you for taking the time to read a little more about me.I am 44; turning 45 in November. I have one smart and beautiful daughter the Lord blessed me with 21 years ago. My daughter and I are both veterans; myself serving in the US Air Force. My daughter chose the US Army. We are both very proud to have served our country. I have traveled world wide and believe we live in one of the best parts of our country. There are still parts of our country I look forward to visiting.I am a professional and enjoy my job. It allows me to indulge in the many activities I enjoy doing. I enjoy hanging out with my friends and family sharing a meal I cooked and a bottle of wine...or two. I am looking for a friend first. I believe that is important when it comes to furthering a relationship. I am a bit old fashion, but believe a good first date would be coffee or wine and perhaps a walk along the river.

  • Raymonda

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    O.k. I'm a proud IRISH girl.I am a Non Conformist!Some might say I have radical views,An I do support certain causes that may seem Extreme to some.I believe as US citizens We are obligated to defend our Constitutional rights with our lives!!..So I am looking for someone with an Open Mind.And maybe a back ground in Explosives,And access to C-4.. (just kidding Homeland security!!)I am looking for someone whose not worried about appearences or what others think about what's appropriate and what's not.I am seeking someone with heart,integrity,Courage,honor.Adventurous,loyal.But can also be affectionate an playful. I Love exploring outdoors,and being near Water.I have tattoos an piercings,I'm Not into crowded places,Or being in Large social settings,not that i can't keep up.It's just draining to me.I like one on ones because I am genuinely curious about When,Where,and Who people are.I detest pretentiousness.An have absolutely no patience for,brainwashed Zombies..I Buck Systems every chance I get.I refuse to Bow down,or conform to the ways of man.And I don't abide in their Laws..They hold no bearing with me.I go by what my creator *** me,Of what is right an wrong,For He wrote on the tablets of my heart..I am very spiritual although I do not participate in Conformed Religions.DEEP,DEEP IN THE FOREST UNDER A TREE IS MY CHURCH! I Don't Judge others if their thoughts or views are different than mine...Actually I can appreciate it.I am extremely affectionate,and am somewhat of a deviant... I have LIVED,LOVED AND HATED with ALL MY HEART,And I can HONESTLY Say I LOVE THIS CRAZY LIFE..... I . "A FOOL COMPLEMENTS HIMSELF,A WISE MAN COMPLEMENTS THE FOOL"........ I"d probably just go on what kind of Energy an Chemistry I feel or Sense,Depending on That Anything could Happen,.Haha Not much for the majority So someplace off the beaten path. ..Seeking someone DEEP.I don't like to swim in Shallow Waters..

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