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Melda, 43

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About Me

Dear God of Internet Dating, Part the waves and show me just one really really excellent guy made just for me!Bring henceforth a perfectly imperfect renaissance man for whom humorruns through his veins, humility and open-heartedness are his credos, and with whom I may have many/ several mind-blowingyears of love, companionship, sex, laughter, emotional trust, and adventure. Bring it, Gods!(Not one more 'match' "pic" of a guy in a jeep with a dog on a mountaintop with wraparound shades and a baseball cap with a caption that says "just looken" or "loves powder". I don't want to know until date# 5 (if ever) what this guy does to 'work out'. WHAT I'll BRING TO THE TABLE: loyalty. adoration. unfettered attention to what you are saying to me with maybe a 77% retention on average.i'll cook, (you clean), vice/versa. rinse, repeat.in a relationship i'm about 70% team player and 30% (maybe ***if the going is really good).my 43 years have allowed me some time to reflect on who i am and who i am not and i have found that i restore well from the world on my own for a few hours each day. in that time i write or make stuff or just catch up on radio shows and space out on my aqua 50's sofa. it makes me sane, keeps me sane.i'll bring the skills and desire to be myself and accept you as you do the same.i'll hurl myself at karaoke with panache! i climb fences and trees. i like to hike and ride a bike. i can swing a racket around and swivel around on ice skates. i LOVE to play in the ocean and the pool. i can snorkel and camp with the rest of 'em but only to enjoy the nature that surrounds me, i'm not a member of the vertical bragging club and shredding committee.)i dont ballroom dance well...yet! i would learn. i'm a terror on the disco floor though.i'm affectionate. i have a trophy in cuddling. Not a patently, 'cat person', i'm just in dumb-love with Persian cats. i love adventure, travel and experiences without the guidebook or current maps. i just think to myself, 'what would fletch do?' i like to cook...i am perfecting raspberry pancakes from scratch right now. go garage-saleing or antiquing. i read and write almost everyday. i love my records. i love movies! i love museums and old bookstores, libraries, hardware stores. some paradoxes: i do improv comedy but i am shy. i am boy crazy but loyal when i am with a 'steady'. i am high maintenance but i wear levis.love the city as much as the seashore. love a subway as much as horseback. i am a capricorn with a scorpio moon and rising ... pluses: *make me laugh...like, really hard. *share with me the pleasures in everyday life *kindness and affection *sneaking into the movies with a flask of good sipping scotch *pulling over on a road trip just to play mini golf with me? a perfect first date would...never end!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

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    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I love to spend time out in the warm weather like camping, fishing or just hanging out at the river for a few hours after work. I want to meet someone to be friends with and go from there. I enjoy laughing and being goofy and need someone that gets my weird sense of humor. I would prefer something casual and without any expectations. Just spend some time talking and getting know a little bit about each other. Could be over a cup of coffee or a beer. I am pretty much open to anything.

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