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Melda, 43

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About Me

Dear God of Internet Dating, Part the waves and show me just one really really excellent guy made just for me!Bring henceforth a perfectly imperfect renaissance man for whom humorruns through his veins, humility and open-heartedness are his credos, and with whom I may have many/ several mind-blowingyears of love, companionship, sex, laughter, emotional trust, and adventure. Bring it, Gods!(Not one more 'match' "pic" of a guy in a jeep with a dog on a mountaintop with wraparound shades and a baseball cap with a caption that says "just looken" or "loves powder". I don't want to know until date# 5 (if ever) what this guy does to 'work out'. WHAT I'll BRING TO THE TABLE: loyalty. adoration. unfettered attention to what you are saying to me with maybe a 77% retention on average.i'll cook, (you clean), vice/versa. rinse, repeat.in a relationship i'm about 70% team player and 30% (maybe ***if the going is really good).my 43 years have allowed me some time to reflect on who i am and who i am not and i have found that i restore well from the world on my own for a few hours each day. in that time i write or make stuff or just catch up on radio shows and space out on my aqua 50's sofa. it makes me sane, keeps me sane.i'll bring the skills and desire to be myself and accept you as you do the same.i'll hurl myself at karaoke with panache! i climb fences and trees. i like to hike and ride a bike. i can swing a racket around and swivel around on ice skates. i LOVE to play in the ocean and the pool. i can snorkel and camp with the rest of 'em but only to enjoy the nature that surrounds me, i'm not a member of the vertical bragging club and shredding committee.)i dont ballroom dance well...yet! i would learn. i'm a terror on the disco floor though.i'm affectionate. i have a trophy in cuddling. Not a patently, 'cat person', i'm just in dumb-love with Persian cats. i love adventure, travel and experiences without the guidebook or current maps. i just think to myself, 'what would fletch do?' i like to cook...i am perfecting raspberry pancakes from scratch right now. go garage-saleing or antiquing. i read and write almost everyday. i love my records. i love movies! i love museums and old bookstores, libraries, hardware stores. some paradoxes: i do improv comedy but i am shy. i am boy crazy but loyal when i am with a 'steady'. i am high maintenance but i wear levis.love the city as much as the seashore. love a subway as much as horseback. i am a capricorn with a scorpio moon and rising ... pluses: *make me laugh...like, really hard. *share with me the pleasures in everyday life *kindness and affection *sneaking into the movies with a flask of good sipping scotch *pulling over on a road trip just to play mini golf with me? a perfect first date would...never end!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Danette

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Don't judge a book by its cover you might just pass up the story of a lifetime. Beautys only skin deep its what lies in the heart that matters most !!!I'm blunt honest and not looking for games .seems to be a game sight on here.so if that's your plan keep m ov ing .I'm also not here for sex so much more to me than that . I like a guy whos physically fit dont have to be a work out junkie ,but like fit. If you like animals ,I'm your girl ,as I rescue them, my Passion. I like anything out doors and god is number one in my life .I'm not a bible thumper but I am christian and spiritual. Love music all kinds rock,country you get the idea, but christian rock my favorite.I work hard for what I have so I am no sugar moma or gold digger.I'm looking for my equal not a control freak or taker.Life is like a box of chocolates you never know what your gonna get but if you taste bad I'll put you right back in the box. I say it how i see it so if you can't handle the truth then sorry not your girl .if you can handle real , honest and fun that's me . Also if your old enough to be my dad or young enough to be my son come on don't bother clicking on me your wasting both are time as we would have nothing in common. So let's see were the meetville road leads ready .........??? Just something simple. Easy going not to fancy . Even just a walk or simply conversation .

  • Nevada

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I want to be in a relationship with someone. That being said, I do not want a ***, always together, never alone type of relationship. I am very independent, but will admit it would be nice to wake up with someone sometimes. I am hoping to find someone to hang out with.... see a movie, go to the zoo, a drive in the mountains, maybe even a week-end away for a nice treat. I treasure my alone time, but I want to share my time with someone special. Even more, I want out of the dating game........ and to be with only one man ( and that man only with me). I was asked recently ... "are you beating men off with a stick?" LOL........ well, I don't fight anyone with a stick. My independence, feisty (at times) attitude and lack of need to be fixed or taken care of seems to take care of weeding out those who couldn't handle me ..... :-) I get my share of ***, and some are very rude, but I just respond... tell them they are an ass.... and move on to the next one, always in hopes of finding the guy that makes me delete my profile. :-)I am very PROUD to be a woman. I am very secure and comfortable in my own skin. If that bothers you, then you are clearly not the right man for me. I am not a whore, tease, slut or ****......... but I know what I want and what I do not want. Please do not contact me if you are not honest in your profile. If you want a hook-up, relationship, marriage.... just be honest!!! I'm not sure it really matters what we write here....... but if you have read this far and think we might click.... then send a message. Happy Fishing!!!! I believe attraction is important, and whether admitted by some or not, is a huge part of the first meeting. Must be true to yourself before you can be true to anyone else. A first date can sometimes feel like a job interview! Make it casual, or upscale...... just be you!! And want to know me!

  • Annabelle

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I like walks in the park, summer nights, camping, anything in the mountains, love riding with someone on a harley! Ain't nothing like the wind in your hair and the freedom that you feel on it!! No, its not my bike any longer. I'm not a rider I am the passenger. It's more fun that way!!!I love the races and fast cars! I missed every race this year :***coming up though!! ***and maybe one more, summer isn't over yet! :***day I would like to see the pro's on the big tracks!!! I'm a very caring person with a big heart! I enjoy spending time with my adult children and especially my grandchildren! I'm looking for someone that wants to ride life together. I am looking for the one who is ready to grow old together, enjoying what life offers us now that the kids are grown and enjoying one of the best parts of being a parent is being a Grandparent!! Something to decide together. I would prefer grabbing coffee and go to a park or someplace quiet where we can talk and learn more about each other, if the feeling is right than we can decide together again if we should keep the date going and have lunch, dinner or whatever it may be. I feel uncomfortable eating while trying to talk and learn about this man across from me or next to me (if the feeling was right for the first part of our date) the interruptions of a waiter or waitress is annoying. lol :) agree? Who says ya gotta be traditional? Uniqueness is ideal :)

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