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Melda, 43

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About Me

Dear God of Internet Dating, Part the waves and show me just one really really excellent guy made just for me!Bring henceforth a perfectly imperfect renaissance man for whom humorruns through his veins, humility and open-heartedness are his credos, and with whom I may have many/ several mind-blowingyears of love, companionship, sex, laughter, emotional trust, and adventure. Bring it, Gods!(Not one more 'match' "pic" of a guy in a jeep with a dog on a mountaintop with wraparound shades and a baseball cap with a caption that says "just looken" or "loves powder". I don't want to know until date# 5 (if ever) what this guy does to 'work out'. WHAT I'll BRING TO THE TABLE: loyalty. adoration. unfettered attention to what you are saying to me with maybe a 77% retention on average.i'll cook, (you clean), vice/versa. rinse, repeat.in a relationship i'm about 70% team player and 30% (maybe ***if the going is really good).my 43 years have allowed me some time to reflect on who i am and who i am not and i have found that i restore well from the world on my own for a few hours each day. in that time i write or make stuff or just catch up on radio shows and space out on my aqua 50's sofa. it makes me sane, keeps me sane.i'll bring the skills and desire to be myself and accept you as you do the same.i'll hurl myself at karaoke with panache! i climb fences and trees. i like to hike and ride a bike. i can swing a racket around and swivel around on ice skates. i LOVE to play in the ocean and the pool. i can snorkel and camp with the rest of 'em but only to enjoy the nature that surrounds me, i'm not a member of the vertical bragging club and shredding committee.)i dont ballroom dance well...yet! i would learn. i'm a terror on the disco floor though.i'm affectionate. i have a trophy in cuddling. Not a patently, 'cat person', i'm just in dumb-love with Persian cats. i love adventure, travel and experiences without the guidebook or current maps. i just think to myself, 'what would fletch do?' i like to cook...i am perfecting raspberry pancakes from scratch right now. go garage-saleing or antiquing. i read and write almost everyday. i love my records. i love movies! i love museums and old bookstores, libraries, hardware stores. some paradoxes: i do improv comedy but i am shy. i am boy crazy but loyal when i am with a 'steady'. i am high maintenance but i wear levis.love the city as much as the seashore. love a subway as much as horseback. i am a capricorn with a scorpio moon and rising ... pluses: *make me laugh...like, really hard. *share with me the pleasures in everyday life *kindness and affection *sneaking into the movies with a flask of good sipping scotch *pulling over on a road trip just to play mini golf with me? a perfect first date would...never end!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Robbin

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    My faith and family are important to me. I love life and what it has to offer and would really like to meet someone to experience life together. I'm a very loving, affectionate, fun, out-going person. I like camping, traveling, the ocean, walking on the beach, dancing, playing pool, and hiking. I use to snow ski and would love to do so again. I enjoy staying home at times playing board games or cards or just cuddling on the couch to watch a good movie, or favorite TV show. I like to eat out and enjoy a nice meal like seafood, steak, potatoes. I also don't mind wings and a couple beers. Eating at home is fine too; we can cook together.If you think we have common interests and want to meet sometime to play a game of pool, grab a coffee, ice cream, or a drink *** casual like grabbing an ice cream or coffee maybe go a couple games of pool, meet up for appetizers and a drink,.

  • Leontyne

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am intrigued by many things including people, cultures, science, ecosystems, biology, business, wildlife, etc. There isn't much I don’t like to do as long as I am doing something. I also enjoy just relaxing and enjoying a movie and popcorn, conversation (light or deep).I love to make people laugh. I’m a very open minded person and generally look at the positive side of things.Here are a few things I love:• Sitting on a patio outside with a view in the sun, a good friend and maybe a local band playing in the background• Going out/getting dressed up for****ails or a nice dinner or just keeping it casual at a bar• Traveling and exploring new cities and countries• Music • Meeting new people and good conversation• Trying new things• Being outside, hiking, skiing, mountain biking etc.• Animals of any kind• Trips for Kids - a great non-profit where I volunteer that introduces city kids (all kids, really) to mountain biking I truly believe in keeping life easy and enjoying it as much as possible. Good relationships should be reassuring and bring out the best in both people.Qualities I look for in a guy are a sense of adventure, curiosity, sincerity, a love for the outdoors and someone who can cut loose in whatever way. Chemistry is important for sure. I must be physically attracted but am actually mostly attracted to an amazing personality and attitude.

  • Annelle

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Hey! I'm just here looking for friends with possibilities!! I'm a sarcastic smart ass. Sometimes a dumb ass. I love animals more than people and while I love love being single, I miss couply things. I'm also very random and goofy. I prefer to stay in than go out, but can be enticed with a game of mini golf on most occasions. I collect random things that make me smile. I'm a very organized hoarder of cuteness. And kind of a grammar nazi, so please, please type full words to me. I am not a two year old. Deal breakers***I can't date a guy more than 1" I've tried, it doesn't work. I have a mental block or something. Sorry to all you awesome shorties out there. I know I'm probably missing out on some amazing guys..... Eh, let's talk then go from there!

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