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Melda, 43

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Dear God of Internet Dating, Part the waves and show me just one really really excellent guy made just for me!Bring henceforth a perfectly imperfect renaissance man for whom humorruns through his veins, humility and open-heartedness are his credos, and with whom I may have many/ several mind-blowingyears of love, companionship, sex, laughter, emotional trust, and adventure. Bring it, Gods!(Not one more 'match' "pic" of a guy in a jeep with a dog on a mountaintop with wraparound shades and a baseball cap with a caption that says "just looken" or "loves powder". I don't want to know until date# 5 (if ever) what this guy does to 'work out'. WHAT I'll BRING TO THE TABLE: loyalty. adoration. unfettered attention to what you are saying to me with maybe a 77% retention on average.i'll cook, (you clean), vice/versa. rinse, repeat.in a relationship i'm about 70% team player and 30% (maybe ***if the going is really good).my 43 years have allowed me some time to reflect on who i am and who i am not and i have found that i restore well from the world on my own for a few hours each day. in that time i write or make stuff or just catch up on radio shows and space out on my aqua 50's sofa. it makes me sane, keeps me sane.i'll bring the skills and desire to be myself and accept you as you do the same.i'll hurl myself at karaoke with panache! i climb fences and trees. i like to hike and ride a bike. i can swing a racket around and swivel around on ice skates. i LOVE to play in the ocean and the pool. i can snorkel and camp with the rest of 'em but only to enjoy the nature that surrounds me, i'm not a member of the vertical bragging club and shredding committee.)i dont ballroom dance well...yet! i would learn. i'm a terror on the disco floor though.i'm affectionate. i have a trophy in cuddling. Not a patently, 'cat person', i'm just in dumb-love with Persian cats. i love adventure, travel and experiences without the guidebook or current maps. i just think to myself, 'what would fletch do?' i like to cook...i am perfecting raspberry pancakes from scratch right now. go garage-saleing or antiquing. i read and write almost everyday. i love my records. i love movies! i love museums and old bookstores, libraries, hardware stores. some paradoxes: i do improv comedy but i am shy. i am boy crazy but loyal when i am with a 'steady'. i am high maintenance but i wear levis.love the city as much as the seashore. love a subway as much as horseback. i am a capricorn with a scorpio moon and rising ... pluses: *make me laugh...like, really hard. *share with me the pleasures in everyday life *kindness and affection *sneaking into the movies with a flask of good sipping scotch *pulling over on a road trip just to play mini golf with me? a perfect first date would...never end!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Hey there! Thanks for stopping by. Getting to know someone by reading a few choice words can never compare to meeting in person but here we are. So, here we go. *smiles*After marriage, children, divorce, running a business and raising teenagers I have learned many things about myself. Mostly, that I am tenacious and that I don’t give in easily. I have learned that keeping balance in all areas of my life is a great goal and one that I strive for on a daily basis. I have also learned that it is ok if I let some things go. Sometimes there is serenity in not having constant balance.My absolute favorite thing to do is anything in the mountains. It does not matter if I am hiking, walking, exploring or just sitting with my journal. I feel such a connection to that which is greater than me when I am surrounded by trees and mountain air. Taking time to quiet my mind allows me to hear the wisdom from within.I love music. Especially live music and small venues. My taste is pretty diverse and I will listen to just about anything from Classical and Jazz to Rock. My main musical focus however is rock, and you will find me listening to anything from 70’s to current metal. (My daughters also love music and often we can be found singing loudly together.)I believe that your health is your only true wealth and I have a daily practice of yoga, meditation and exercise. I do my best to stay away from junk food (unless its chocolate and then I give in 100% of the time) and almost never eat fast food.I am a believer in the law of attraction and that we get to choose how our days go. I can’t remember that last time I had a bad day. Even when I receive news that some would see as negative, I do my best to make the adjustments that need to be made and move forward. (and yes, sometimes that is a struggle, but that is all the reason I need to fight on) In doing this, I grow and learn and the experience becomes positive. I love being present at the beginning of the day and witnessing the world wake. The second most magical time is the sunset. A beautiful end to a day fulfilled. I love moongazing and stargazing. I have a thousands of pictures of the sky and various hikes. I belong to a drum circle, am interning for my level 2 in Reiki,. I am researching and planning what steps I need to take to become certified as a life coach. I have a great life, and I have no complaints. Finding a partner would just be an added bonus. But if all I find here is friends, then my life will still be enriched.So,... here is a glimmer of insight of who I am. If anything sparks your interst, feel free to *** one bit of advice here, if you really want my attention, please say something more than "hi" or a comment about my eyes.Today is a beautiful day. May you live it to your fullest potential and enjoy every second of it.PeaceLife is what YOU make it. Do what makes you happy... be with the ones who make you smile... laugh as much as you breathe... love as long as you live. I consider this a first meet, not a date. So something casual. Appetizers, drinks, something active... That way there is no pressure. Lets chat and figure it out together. If we have mutual interest then we can go from there.

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I love the summer, boating ,wine tasting, BBQ and having fun with my friends and family.I feel very fortunate I have a great family, friends and a career I love... In life I have found that finding someone to live with is easy, but I want to find someone I can't live with out! A man with honor & Integrity,I work hard so I can play hard, and want to find someone who shares the same values, who can communicate their feelings openly and just enjoy what life has to offer.I am a proud mother of two, my boys are grown and living there dreams. If you would like to know more? Feel free to ask. Glass of wine, What ever we feel comfortable with.

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

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