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About Me

What was it that Whitesnake said...."Here I go again on my own ;)" (There's an 80's reference in case you didn't catch it ***of my favorite songs from that era) So here's me in a nutshell. I'm a nut! ha ha. I have old fashioned values while living a modern lifestyle. I'm independent and have been for awhile, I work full time, own my own home and car and take care of my bills, but I love a man stepping up and being a man. Is it too much to ask for a man to be a gentleman anymore. Would love to see if there are any left out there. This is your challenge, should you choose to accept it. Make a move and I'm flattered, plan the date and I'm giddy, go in for the first kiss when the feeling is there and "HELLO".....Love It!!I'm goofy in that I love dressing up at the Renaissance Festival, will NEVER miss a halloween to dress up for and love being fun, creative and enjoying life. Yes! I said mild.....sorry. I'm a wimp. Take me dancing and you found a weakness of mine, skiing is right around the corner (I already have a pass, just need someone to go with) and who doesn't love snuggling up on the couch with a movie and some kettle corn popcorn with peanut M & Ms poured right in. Love going with my 86 yr old neighbor to play poker. I love going to Thrift Shops (yep..with $20 in my pocket) and see what I can find. I do try to have fun no matter what I'm doing really.I think some of you are taking this "Online" dating too seriously. Do any of you actually want to go outside and have an "In Person" Date. ha ha.. I'm pretty set on messaging, texting, meeting. If all I wanted was to chat on the computer or texting, I'd join the prisoner pen-pal program. Let's meet. Isn't that the point of this whole thing.If you're ready to step up and rise to the challenge, well....then.... Did you see the note above about making the move ;) What are you waiting for? Well we all know the good ole standby's. Can't wait to see what you come up with.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Godiva

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Love life even with the hurdles it sometimes throws at me. Like to see the glass half full.I'm a free spirit at heart and would love to one day live on a beach in Thailand. I love the ocean, the mountains, surfing, backpacking around the world and cannot stand egotistical people. I guess I am kind of a hippy, surfer, raver and just down to earthI am a tomboy and love to rough it and backpack and wash in the lakes and just be in touch with mother earth. But I also like to wear make up and be feminine in my own funky way. I am a real animal lover.if you're afraid of kitty and doggy getting in the bed then we probably won't click. My animals are my family. I love hearing about people's adventures and experiences and successes and failures even. We only learn from failures so its not really a failure right? I love travelling and spent my 20s snd 30s travelling and backpacking around the world. i really cant wait to explore again. Ii want to home school my daughters and travel around the world with them so they cwn experience different cultures and see that we don't need wiiis, and ds's and ipads and soccer lessons and piano lessons to be happy. Seeing children that had nothing and were still happy and smiling made me realize how materialistic weve become as a society. I don't keep up With the joneses, , in fact I do the opposite from what they do. I was born to stand out not fit in!!! I don't care about the car you drive, or how much money you make. i would like to find someone who is in touch with Mother Nature, is genuine, has a kind heart and who who likes to get their groove on to techno house at Burning Man type festivals every once in a while.( yes I still have it in me) :) so a little wild at heart is ok with me ....Peace If you obey all the rules, you'll miss all the fun. A casual drink and let's see if we click....

  • Kalysta

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Music is the sound track of my life. I love listening to music anywhere. I love to laugh and laugh at myself a lot. I have a good job and take care of myself. I would like to find someone who is gainfully employed and can take care of themselves. I will be debt free except for my mortgage in a year. I want a partner that is money conscious.I would much rather stay home and cook an awesome dinner than go out and eat. I would love a partner that enjoys cooking as well. I am independent and enjoy having time to myself. It is important that there is balance in any relationship. I believe in honest and open communication. I don't want to be with someone that just wants to please. It is important to me that we are able to openly talk about our likes and dislikes. I am passionate and can be very intense. Are you strong enough to be my man? I believe that spending time together doesn't have to cost money. Packing a lunch and heading out for a day hike is a perfect day. I enjoy exploring and don't get to do much but would make time for excursions to museums and day trips with the right person. I would much rather have something that you made than a store bought gift.I am in recovery and I do not drink and whomever I date must support me in my sobriety. I still love to go out and listen to live music and dance, but I don't want to be your DD.I hope to build my own cabin or tree house in the next ten years and would like to meet someone that is interested in solar power and living off the grid.I own guns and know how to use them. I enjoy target practice and plan on getting my concealed permit. I am tattooed so if you don't like body art I am not the girl for you.I love gardening, hiking, meditation, silence, happiness, love, truth, honesty, museums, farmer's markets, tourist traps, camping and road trips. I believe in living simply, being healthy and working on making the world better for my being here. If you read this far, thank you...have a blessed day! Let's go bowling or play Mini golf.

  • Grayce

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Giving the brief description right now. :-) I am pretty laidback and not much gets to me except bad traffic (which will make me curse like a sailor in the car sometimes. lol). I like to laugh and laugh at myself often. I believe in honesty in all situations and taking responsibility for myself and my actions. I am a big kid at heart and don't really like all the responsibilities of being a grown up, although, I do take care of my responsibilities. What I'm looking for is someone who wants to be with me as much as I want to be with them. I don't want to be "in a relationship" but still live like two single people. Don't get me wrong though, each person still needs their own time too. :-) You know, like girls night out or hanging with the fellas. I don't care to awful much what people think of me or what I'm doing. lol If I feel like dancing the street I'm going to do it. I enjoy most outdoor activities and also time at home. I like road trips be it in the car or on a motorcycle. I like weekends away and seeing new things. Just got the enhanced license and plan on heading north one of these days.Oh, MUST love pets! My Dog is totally my buddy and part of my family. Something casual and easy going so we are both comfortable in getting to know each other.

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