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Zola, 44
United States, Georgia, Lyons

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About Me

What was it that Whitesnake said...."Here I go again on my own ;)" (There's an 80's reference in case you didn't catch it ***of my favorite songs from that era) So here's me in a nutshell. I'm a nut! ha ha. I have old fashioned values while living a modern lifestyle. I'm independent and have been for awhile, I work full time, own my own home and car and take care of my bills, but I love a man stepping up and being a man. Is it too much to ask for a man to be a gentleman anymore. Would love to see if there are any left out there. This is your challenge, should you choose to accept it. Make a move and I'm flattered, plan the date and I'm giddy, go in for the first kiss when the feeling is there and "HELLO".....Love It!!I'm goofy in that I love dressing up at the Renaissance Festival, will NEVER miss a halloween to dress up for and love being fun, creative and enjoying life. Yes! I said mild.....sorry. I'm a wimp. Take me dancing and you found a weakness of mine, skiing is right around the corner (I already have a pass, just need someone to go with) and who doesn't love snuggling up on the couch with a movie and some kettle corn popcorn with peanut M & Ms poured right in. Love going with my 86 yr old neighbor to play poker. I love going to Thrift Shops (yep..with $20 in my pocket) and see what I can find. I do try to have fun no matter what I'm doing really.I think some of you are taking this "Online" dating too seriously. Do any of you actually want to go outside and have an "In Person" Date. ha ha.. I'm pretty set on messaging, texting, meeting. If all I wanted was to chat on the computer or texting, I'd join the prisoner pen-pal program. Let's meet. Isn't that the point of this whole thing.If you're ready to step up and rise to the challenge, well....then.... Did you see the note above about making the move ;) What are you waiting for? Well we all know the good ole standby's. Can't wait to see what you come up with.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Chinese Indonesian Irish Korean Mexican Adult Drama Fantasy Mystery
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