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Zola, 44
United States, Georgia, Lyons

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About Me

What was it that Whitesnake said...."Here I go again on my own ;)" (There's an 80's reference in case you didn't catch it ***of my favorite songs from that era) So here's me in a nutshell. I'm a nut! ha ha. I have old fashioned values while living a modern lifestyle. I'm independent and have been for awhile, I work full time, own my own home and car and take care of my bills, but I love a man stepping up and being a man. Is it too much to ask for a man to be a gentleman anymore. Would love to see if there are any left out there. This is your challenge, should you choose to accept it. Make a move and I'm flattered, plan the date and I'm giddy, go in for the first kiss when the feeling is there and "HELLO".....Love It!!I'm goofy in that I love dressing up at the Renaissance Festival, will NEVER miss a halloween to dress up for and love being fun, creative and enjoying life. Yes! I said mild.....sorry. I'm a wimp. Take me dancing and you found a weakness of mine, skiing is right around the corner (I already have a pass, just need someone to go with) and who doesn't love snuggling up on the couch with a movie and some kettle corn popcorn with peanut M & Ms poured right in. Love going with my 86 yr old neighbor to play poker. I love going to Thrift Shops (yep..with $20 in my pocket) and see what I can find. I do try to have fun no matter what I'm doing really.I think some of you are taking this "Online" dating too seriously. Do any of you actually want to go outside and have an "In Person" Date. ha ha.. I'm pretty set on messaging, texting, meeting. If all I wanted was to chat on the computer or texting, I'd join the prisoner pen-pal program. Let's meet. Isn't that the point of this whole thing.If you're ready to step up and rise to the challenge, well....then.... Did you see the note above about making the move ;) What are you waiting for? Well we all know the good ole standby's. Can't wait to see what you come up with.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    im a open,honest and out going 41yr old widow who has not been out in the dating world for a long time.i dont want any drama!life is to short to be dealing with crap.i have three grown children all in college or school,who are my world.i enjoy long drives to nowhere,the beach,loud rock n roll,my dogs,nice dinners, cooking,hicking in the woods, camping.im not your typical 41 yr old widow,i go out to play pool and have a drink,i have tattoes and piercings,and im very independent with a fiesty streak.i want a man who can handle that.i love big dogs,big trucks and big men so i sound like someone you are interested in let me now.no drama or games please!!!!!!!! my ideal first date would be dinner and conversation,afterword maybe a walk or drive ,or just a cup of coffee.i think dating is over rated and people dont talk and get to know each well enough these days.

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am looking for someone to share my time with, get to know and build a relationship with. I am not into playing games...I want to spend my time with someone who is serious about getting to know each other and see if we want to build on that. All I ask for is honesty...if you don't like me or don't think we are a good fit, tell me!!! I am a big girl and can handle it!! Ok, enough of that!! I enjoy going out to see bands, go bowling, play pool at some dive bar. Looking for a partner who enjoys staying in, cooking dinner together and enjoys a glass of wine while talking about our day together. Conversation and communication are very important to me. Those sound like the same thing but they are not, 2 people can have a conversation and never really communicate their feelings. Cuddling on the couch watching a movie is always fun! I enjoy all kinds of music..mostly country. Like to go and listen to live music, be it at a concert or some dive bar. Always more fun with a partner!!! I have 2 boys who mean the world to me. I am not looking for a father for them, they have one. But I do want to spend time with someone who likes kids and likes to include them in activities occasionally. Don't get me wrong, I enjoy adult alone time, but they are a huge part of my life and they aren't going anywhere! I am not looking for perfection, heck, I am not perfect! What I am looking for is that person that is perfect for me..I know he is out there somewhere...could it be you?? :-) A casual meeting at a coffee house or even a restaurant for a drink and conversation. Take time to get to know each other and see if there is a connection!

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  • Jeannie from Lyons | Woman | 43 years old | Aries
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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am a fun-loving person looking for someone to make me smile. I love my kids and family and friends and think that the relationships we create in our lives are a very important part of who we are. I really like being social and nothing is better than hanging out with friends and my special guy! I believe a relationship needs to start with a foundation of friendship and that you will know if you have a connection with someone within a couple of dates- if it's there, you'll feel it!I would like an honest man with a great sense of humor- I love to laugh! Someone that I can be myself with and that is comfortable with himself as well. I am looking for someone who is positive and can see the joy in the little things and who doesn't take life for granted, nor take it too seriously. He needs to be a man with integrity and someone that can accept me and my kids and respects the time that I spend with them.Here's me from A to ZActiveBubblyCoolDivorcedEnergeticFunny- at least I think I amGregariousHonestIntelligentJokesterKookyLovableMysteriousNiceOptimisticPrettyQuirkyRealSassyThankfulUniqueVivaciousWorry-freeXtra SpecialYearningZanyAre you impressed? That took a lot of thinking and I don't think I missed any letters, either! That is proof that I at least graduated kindergarten!!!

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