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Chrysanta, 45

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About Me

Hey there! Thanks for stopping by. Getting to know someone by reading a few choice words can never compare to meeting in person but here we are. So, here we go. *smiles*After marriage, children, divorce, running a business and raising teenagers I have learned many things about myself. Mostly, that I am tenacious and that I don’t give in easily. I have learned that keeping balance in all areas of my life is a great goal and one that I strive for on a daily basis. I have also learned that it is ok if I let some things go. Sometimes there is serenity in not having constant balance.My absolute favorite thing to do is anything in the mountains. It does not matter if I am hiking, walking, exploring or just sitting with my journal. I feel such a connection to that which is greater than me when I am surrounded by trees and mountain air. Taking time to quiet my mind allows me to hear the wisdom from within.I love music. Especially live music and small venues. My taste is pretty diverse and I will listen to just about anything from Classical and Jazz to Rock. My main musical focus however is rock, and you will find me listening to anything from 70’s to current metal. (My daughters also love music and often we can be found singing loudly together.)I believe that your health is your only true wealth and I have a daily practice of yoga, meditation and exercise. I do my best to stay away from junk food (unless its chocolate and then I give in 100% of the time) and almost never eat fast food.I am a believer in the law of attraction and that we get to choose how our days go. I can’t remember that last time I had a bad day. Even when I receive news that some would see as negative, I do my best to make the adjustments that need to be made and move forward. (and yes, sometimes that is a struggle, but that is all the reason I need to fight on) In doing this, I grow and learn and the experience becomes positive. I love being present at the beginning of the day and witnessing the world wake. The second most magical time is the sunset. A beautiful end to a day fulfilled. I love moongazing and stargazing. I have a thousands of pictures of the sky and various hikes. I belong to a drum circle, am interning for my level 2 in Reiki,. I am researching and planning what steps I need to take to become certified as a life coach. I have a great life, and I have no complaints. Finding a partner would just be an added bonus. But if all I find here is friends, then my life will still be enriched.So,... here is a glimmer of insight of who I am. If anything sparks your interst, feel free to *** one bit of advice here, if you really want my attention, please say something more than "hi" or a comment about my eyes.Today is a beautiful day. May you live it to your fullest potential and enjoy every second of it.PeaceLife is what YOU make it. Do what makes you happy... be with the ones who make you smile... laugh as much as you breathe... love as long as you live. I consider this a first meet, not a date. So something casual. Appetizers, drinks, something active... That way there is no pressure. Lets chat and figure it out together. If we have mutual interest then we can go from there.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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