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Essa, 42

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About Me

I'm an easy going person. Love to laugh an make others laugh. I'm family oriented. My daughter is my world. I Love children. Things I enjoy doing are cooking..entertaining..movies..concerts..shows..clubs dancing..dining. or just spending quality time with family or friends or time with a significant someone. If your looking for a barbie doll... Well I'm not her...shallow guys stay away...I am a confident BBW. A BBW means Big Beautiful Woman. There is more to me than meets the eye. I'm looking for someone with a passion for life...someone who is fun an adventurous. Oh and did I mention loves to laugh! LOL! I'm Italian so you have to be able to handle my joking sarcasm! I'm pretty blunt and to the point. I'm all about honesty...because it is the best policy. So if you read my status it said separated which means legally still married . Theses things take time especially when a child is involved. So bare with me. If you have questions just ask...Are you willing to looking into mine?Please if your visiting Vegas...I don't want be your tour guide or your one night fling! There are plenty of working girls here for that! A casual meet an greet..a drink or coffee to see if there is chemistry ;)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Jayde

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Really not trying to waste anyones time but, no picture, no response.....Dont bother. I am trying to find a "real" relationship. With that said...I live each day with kindness and compassion. I am happy, positive, and I have a great sense of humor. I love to laugh and play. I am open minded and will try most anything at least once. I tend to be somewhat shy at first but, I warm up quickly. I love movies, music, and art. My family and friends are very important to me. I spend most of my free time with them but, I would be open to making time for the right person. I am looking for someone to be a friend first. A man that is secure with himself. Has a sense of purpose, is positive, and loves life. I am looking for a man that can challenge my intellect and inspire me to be a better person. A man who thinks I am the most beautiful woman in the world and can appreciate my goofiness. Although I think physical attraction is important, I am not as concerned with how you look as I am with how you make me feel.

  • Ulrica

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Well let's see...I'm every love song ever written and although I'm not young, I can love like I've never been hurt before.If you were to ask any of my friends about me; they would tell you I'm strong, loyal, funny, honest, hard working and generous. I like all sorts of music. I like to cook and BBQ. I like to hike and be outside. I have two children that are with me most of the time; and I like to do things that are somewhat geared around them and their interests. My ideal partner:probably has children (or is aware of the complexities that surround the fact that I have my children 95% of the time)has been in a committed relationshipis not a serial datercan laugh at himself or embarrassing situationsis somewhat handyhas family and friends (and loves his family)is a romantic at heartlikes to snuggleis patient and kinddoes not do drugsis over the strip club/bar scene looks forward to meeting their next loveIs willing to contribute to building a trusting and loving (and monogamous) relationshipBest of luck to you on your search!When the sky is falling from above you And the wind is raging in from the coast, And you want someone who truly loves you, I will be the one who loves you the most............Ive been fobbed off, and Ive been fooledIve been robbed and ridiculedIn day care centers and night schoolsHandle me with care............ Surprise me or let's plan it together!

  • Melda

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Dear God of Internet Dating, Part the waves and show me just one really really excellent guy made just for me!Bring henceforth a perfectly imperfect renaissance man for whom humorruns through his veins, humility and open-heartedness are his credos, and with whom I may have many/ several mind-blowingyears of love, companionship, sex, laughter, emotional trust, and adventure. Bring it, Gods!(Not one more 'match' "pic" of a guy in a jeep with a dog on a mountaintop with wraparound shades and a baseball cap with a caption that says "just looken" or "loves powder". I don't want to know until date# 5 (if ever) what this guy does to 'work out'. WHAT I'll BRING TO THE TABLE: loyalty. adoration. unfettered attention to what you are saying to me with maybe a 77% retention on average.i'll cook, (you clean), vice/versa. rinse, repeat.in a relationship i'm about 70% team player and 30% (maybe ***if the going is really good).my 43 years have allowed me some time to reflect on who i am and who i am not and i have found that i restore well from the world on my own for a few hours each day. in that time i write or make stuff or just catch up on radio shows and space out on my aqua 50's sofa. it makes me sane, keeps me sane.i'll bring the skills and desire to be myself and accept you as you do the same.i'll hurl myself at karaoke with panache! i climb fences and trees. i like to hike and ride a bike. i can swing a racket around and swivel around on ice skates. i LOVE to play in the ocean and the pool. i can snorkel and camp with the rest of 'em but only to enjoy the nature that surrounds me, i'm not a member of the vertical bragging club and shredding committee.)i dont ballroom dance well...yet! i would learn. i'm a terror on the disco floor though.i'm affectionate. i have a trophy in cuddling. Not a patently, 'cat person', i'm just in dumb-love with Persian cats. i love adventure, travel and experiences without the guidebook or current maps. i just think to myself, 'what would fletch do?' i like to cook...i am perfecting raspberry pancakes from scratch right now. go garage-saleing or antiquing. i read and write almost everyday. i love my records. i love movies! i love museums and old bookstores, libraries, hardware stores. some paradoxes: i do improv comedy but i am shy. i am boy crazy but loyal when i am with a 'steady'. i am high maintenance but i wear levis.love the city as much as the seashore. love a subway as much as horseback. i am a capricorn with a scorpio moon and rising ... pluses: *make me laugh...like, really hard. *share with me the pleasures in everyday life *kindness and affection *sneaking into the movies with a flask of good sipping scotch *pulling over on a road trip just to play mini golf with me? a perfect first date would...never end!

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