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Allen, 45

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About Me

I never would have thought that finding someone to share my life with would be so hard. After being married at age 18 of course that seemed to come quickly and it lasted for 20 years. It never crossed my mind that I would need to go through this process, but here I am on a dating website! I am sure no one wants to be looking for someone this way but at the same time it is an option. The way I look at it is that you might come across someone just perfect for you that you'd never meet any other way...So I am here hoping that is what happens. :-)I moved to LA about 5 years ago to start over. I had always wanted to live here so I took a leap of faith, packed up the U- I've met some of the best friends I have ever had! All of my daughters ***moved down here one at a time and so it means a lot to me to be able to spend time with them. Looking forward to being a grandma one day although that isn't on the table just yet. I believe family is your greatest asset in life and there is nothing more important. I am a small business owner and my business has done better and better each year. I feel stable and secure and that is a great feeling. I have a broad range of interests which include;Soccer (LA Galaxy Fan), Hockey (Sharks Fan)...but hey! :-), Baseball (Angel's Fan) Yes! I realize that doesn't make me popular in these parts! Heh! Basketball (Lakers of course), Football...I really love going to USC games. They are a ton of fun! I love tons of different music and there is nothing better than seeing a live band if they are any good at all. It doesn't have to be a headliner. Just being out and hearing the *** a blast! I personally love to sing although I don't do it as much as I used to. I just got into scuba diving so I am no pro but I love being in the water. Whether it is swimming, boating, scuba, snorkeling, jet skis, or even parasailing...fishing is also fun but its been years. I like to spend time with my friends and family. I enjoy traveling although I am the type who loves coming home as much as leaving to go somewhere. Something about being in your own space that makes you feel good. My next planned trip is to the Azore Islands of Portugal. Many of my ancestors came from those islands. So yes I am a proud Portuguese woman! :-) I am also Italian. I love cooking, (pretty decent at it or so I hear), gardening (flower fanatic), reading, movies, walking on the beach, going to try new restaurants, writing ( trying to write a book although it seems to be taking me a lifetime!) ;- He is the best companion ever! I am a total dog person! I love personal improvement and I think I will be working on me forever but that's ok. I am not perfect but like a fine wine that gets better with time. Hey! That's what I think anyway! Heh Heh...I am down to earth and one of the most genuine people you might meet. I am who I say I am and I don't pull any punches. Life is too short to create situations that either frustrate or hurt other people. Not something I am in to and I hope you aren't either. I do believe in God and so if you are agnostic that is one thing but if you are an atheist I am not interested. I don't want to go through life trying to defend my beliefs to anyone. I am happy with the life that I have created and so when I find that right person I know he will be someone who adds more joy to an already great life. I am not in a hurry and I am living proof that yes you can be single and survive just fine. However, finding someone to love and cherish and share my life with would make things even better so...I am open and ready to see who walks into my life. Will it be you?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    *Guys please post more than one picture of yourself! Take off the hats and sunglasses and show me who you truly are! I think your cars and pets are great but I don't want to date them... I want to know about you! So be yourself and show yourself!My pictures are real and recent! I'm easy going and laid back. I am looking for a relationship that starts with a spark and true friendship and develops into a relationship. I am hoping to find a guy who thinks about me as much as I think about him...who has a genuine desire to spend time with me and take part in new adventures together. I am easy going and flexible with my time and attention. Communication is key with me! If you can't communicate and share your thoughts and feelings then keep looking! I enjoy going out but I love staying in with a movie and popcorn. I have two teenagers who live with their dadI love animals and i have a cat and a fish right now.I am passionate about my work and take pride in my patience and compassion.I enjoy being outdoors and staying active.I would love to tell you about me so if you think I look or sound interesting, shoot me a message and let's talk. The best way to find out if there is a connection is to take that first step!PS: sorry guys but I just don't dig facial hair like a full beard or stash. Love a five o clock shadow! I think the first meeting should be comfortable, relaxed and casual. I am open to meeting for coffee or a drink to get to know one another. You can usually tell in less than 30 mins if there is anything there, so I don't want to waste your time or mine.

  • Jeraldine

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Hi :)Please DO NOT ask for my # just to send Dirty Picks.............no time for little boysBeing Male is a matter of birth, being a Man is a matter of age, But being a Gentleman is a matter of Choice!!..'Impress me, lolI am flattered in advance, if I don't respond Best Wishes to you!word of caution....don't have pics of your children xops: no pic no talk mental stimulation is a Must!!

  • Peggy

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    First off, not interested in anything casual, so if that's you at least you know I'm not wasting your time :-)I believe that new friends often turn up new opportunities that can lead to one's soulmate (which is what I'm ultimately looking for).As far as hobbies &g. BBQ'ing etc.) and go to farmer's markets, funny movies--or any good movie really. Love watching movies at home too. (and Burn Notice, but that's a whole other story) Travel is also a big interest ***or even better somewhere I've never been before. I crave being in nature and sometimes actually take the time to do it; I find it very healing and refreshing, especially the ocean. I also like the gym and walking. Enjoy live music, wine, beer, mixed drinks (my best friend is a bartender), and dancing but I'm not into getting plowed every weekend. I am geeky about finding out which spots have the best happy hour pricing on food and drinks.In terms of goals and aspirations -- working on my business, getting in shape, living in a historical home, fixing up homes, giving to others, and much more. I enjoy reading (and journaling) on topics of spiritual, personal, and business growth.In terms of what makes me unique...I love to laugh...I believe we create our lives. In terms of what kind of guys I like -- LOVE guys who are funny or who least who enjoy having fun. In the end, I believe connecting on a deeper level is also what makes up a good relationship. The type of relationship I am looking for is one with good openness if communication and mutual caring...love, affection, long hugs, kissing, touch...I envision a giving, sensual, life built together with the right person. I love to talk, walk, go to coffee shops, new restaurants, explore, entertain friends & family --Does this sound like you? Coffee, happy hour drink, cheap ethnic restaurant. The best way for me is to message a bit first, then talk on the phone to see if we want to try a no-pressure meetup.

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