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Becki, 42

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SINGLE WHITE FEMALE FOR SINGLE BLACK MALE ONLY! I become very irritated when my preference is not respected. I appreciate the compliments, thank you, but I'm not here looking for friends. And please, DON'T ask WHY black!!!If you earn my attention, therefore affection and abuse and use it, you'll lose it, never regain it and you'll always miss me. Believe it, because it's true.The exit door to my life works much better than the entrance does. You can't force loyalty. Some people will always let you down. Everybody won't always be who you want them to be. I'm never perfect, but I'm always genuine, and I've realized... People are consistent with who they want to be consistent with. They're true to who they want to be true to. They're loyal to who they want to be loyal to. It's all about choices... So in my life, every excuse just gets you closer to an exit, and it's no love lost, I just choose not to waste my time with the games... We can be cool, we just can't be close. Looking for that TRUE .01%.Believe me, 99% of you aren't ready. The one that IS ready will make it known and clear, then my " search" will be over. You others need to stop with your curiosity, you can't hang, trust me, only he can. Now, WHERE is he?FYI, I access meetville through my phone, I've the meetville application, therefore, it shows me as always logged in. I'm NOT ALWAYS HERE, however, I will get a. Notification sent to my phone with every message. This has been a.public service broadcast brought to your by yours truly. ;) NOT INTERESTED IN THE BS 98% OFFER ON HERE. meetville IS JUST ANOTHER ADULT PLAYGROUND.IF YOU'RE A CHILD, MISS ME WITH THAT IMMATURE BULL ISH! I AM A WOMAN NOT A LITTLE GIRL. SAVE YOUR GAMES!!!!! If you're grown, BE grown. Be clear in what you want. I know my worth and my time is AS valuable as yours. I go where I am celebrated, not tolerated. IF YOU DON'T HAVE THE TIME REQUIRED TO SPEND WITH SOMEONE DO NOT MESSAGE ME. I'M NOT YOUR TOY OF CONVENIENCE.My Self Summary: I am Blonde, though my hair has darkened over the years, I keep it highlighted. My eyes change colors, yes for real. I am NOT " high maintenance" though I do keep my finger and toe nails done. I don't dress like a slob, I'm not materialistic. Gucci and Coogi mean NOTHING to me. I can throw on a pair of jeans and a T-shirt, with, or without heels. Lol. The amount of money you make, the vehicle you drive, the place you live in, won't impress me. Only that you do work, have your own, live alone and take care of your own will!I have been separated since December, ***. There is no hope for us, it's been over for a long time, divorce is imminent. I'm open only to someone that's on my level, I'm no longer willing to settle. I have one child at home, a son who is 8. His Father is VERY much involved with him so I've generally no issues with having free time, though due to school being back in session, weekends are most convenient. Because I believe in honesty and no bullish, I must admit my ex still resides in our home. We're both on title and he doesn't want to leave his Son. He sleeps in another room, and we both come n go as we please until we can figure out an arrangement that will have the least amount of stress on our child, he didn't ask for this to happen, it's an adult issue. The situation I am in does NOT affect my " single" life. It will only be a problem if YOU let it be, I've no problem with it. For the inquiring minds that want to know, yes he's black, no he's not a weak minded man, and NO there will not be any drama. Also, even though we're over, I'd NEVER disrespect him by bringing someone I'm seeing home, just so that's clear.Another bit of important information, I am not interested in bearing anymore children and had my tubes tied to ensure that after my Son was born, so that should be taken into consideration by those wishing to find a mate if they eventually want children. Anyone who thinks any part of my profile is BS is encouraged to SKIP me. I'm as real as it gets and I fully understand not everyone is ready to deal with real. ;) The intimate side. Prudes, get over it, we're human and we're intimate by nature. It is PURELY COINCIDENTAL that this section just happens to fall under "FIRST DATE". I ran out of text room in the above section. Let me make this very clear I DON'T need some website to get laid. ;)Moving on, the one I am with will have to understand I am a VERY ( emphasis on VERY) sexual being. I don't tap out first, so I expect stamina. I'm very passionate with my partner and there's no end to my level of commitment in pleasuring/ pleasing him, therefore, I expect the same in return. ( No, I will not do a threesome, trust that I'm all that you can handle). This is not an invitation to anyone here to come at me with requests for sexual favors, or disrespectfulness, but rather a " heads up" to the one who may want to get to know me for me, and this is an important part of me as a package. I do tend to need to kick it up a bit from time to time, more often than not, so my partner needs to be comfortable in his ability to be rough, aggressive and dominant. I am NOT your typical, nor am I to be taken lightly. I am a strong woman in personality, temperament and passion. I am NOT for the unsure, or he who lacks self confidence/ insecure. If he has any kind of sexual dysfunction, erectile or other, our relationship WILL FAIL! Please spare me having to tell you so, because you already know what you've got going on. Anyone that says sex isn't an important part of a relationship is a damn liar! Oh and, size DOES matter, they lied about that too! He needs to bring his A B and C game, and XYZ shouldn't be far behind!I'm NO JOKE!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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