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Shaylyn, 44

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About Me

I WANT TO MAKE SOMETHING PERFECTLY CLEAR... I AM AT A POINT IN MY LIFE WHERE I WANT TO FIND SOMEONE THAT CAN SPOIL ME (NOT WITH MATERIAL THING) THE ONE THING I WANT IS QUALITY TIME, that does NOT require money, JUST THE PERSON SHOWING ME A TRUE INTEREST. THAT IS VERY IMPORTANT TO ME. WITH THE SAME RESPECT I WANT A GUY THAT I CAN SPOIL TOO, but CAN APPRECIATE THAT IN A ME!! AND NOT FOR EITHER PERSON TO TAKE IT FOR GRANTED. I have 2 grown children that are out of the "nest", and a 14 yr old that lives with me full time.I prefer to date someone who does not have small children (under 10). I know it requires a lot of time raising children. I know because I am a parent. Love kids but, I am at a different time in my life where I have more me time. Than all that's required with smaller children.I am NOT looking for someone to take care of me and my child. I do work, I'm not rich but I don't want to base life on the material things. Money does make life easier BUT not always BETTER. I do want someone that has good work ethics. I work in an Assisted Living Community, not a nursing home. I am a supervisor so lots of lives are counting on me. I have a true caregiver nature, Im like that at home guess thats why I am in this line of work.I'm am very outgoing love to be outside. I run almost everyday after I get off work. I try to take care of myself although I don't have the body of a 20 year old. So, if your looking for someone with a "perfect body" you will need to find someone else. JUST being honest.I am a person who likes to joke around, humor is a MUST. I have a range of things I like to do..... so this would be a great thing to talk about not write about. That's enough said.... lets talk and see what may happen. Meet and Greet.... simple no pressure see if there is an interest.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Jennie

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I want a simple life with simple things; the things that are important. I believe in always doing the right thing and always being honest. I may seem old fashioned. Maybe because I don't have any tattoos, or because I actually want to speak on the phone and not just text indefinitely. AND I have never been arrested!! Lol. I’ve been told my “type” is strong-willed and independent. I suppose I am, but I believe in compromise and am usually the first one to bend for someone I care about; family, friends, or significant other. I very much want to find my one and only, always and forever. I want a man in my life for the right reasons. I don’t need someone to take care of me financially or otherwise, but I am tired of being Miss Independent. I want a best friend and partner in life with a soft shoulder and a compassionate heart. I need a strong confident man who will treat me like a lady. I describe myself as stable, rational, caring and extremely loyal. I have zero drama in my life. I have my flaws, and as we get acquainted I have NO problem disclosing them. We deserve to know the truth about each other. I have a good job and I'm very good at what I do. I don't have a lot of accomplishments to list, but I wouldn't trade my gift of common sense for anything. I have been divorced 6 yrs after 16 yrs of marriage. I'm not damaged or carrying emotional baggage. I may actually propose to the first man I meet that I can get through more than one date or phone conversation without hearing the words "my ex". Don’t know why, but it really turns me off. Guess I’m selfish and want it to be about “us” and not our pasts. One thing is for sure, I am a home body. But I can easily be persuaded to get out. I can have fun doing any activity if it is with someone I enjoy. I like being outdoors, especially at a pool or lake in the summer. I love watching football in the fall. I love horses, but never have a chance to be around them. Mostly my girly side will show. I like my fingernails and toenails to be painted at all times. MEETING: I believe the first "meeting" IS a meeting and I should pay for my own dinner, drinks, whatever. It’s not fair to men to meet women and pay every time when things may go no further. There are women out there with questionable intentions, but I’m not one of them. It won’t offend me if you insist on paying, I just don’t expect it. If we begin dating I have no problem letting you pay, but I wouldn't expect it all the time.

  • Becki

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    SINGLE WHITE FEMALE FOR SINGLE BLACK MALE ONLY! I become very irritated when my preference is not respected. I appreciate the compliments, thank you, but I'm not here looking for friends. And please, DON'T ask WHY black!!!If you earn my attention, therefore affection and abuse and use it, you'll lose it, never regain it and you'll always miss me. Believe it, because it's true.The exit door to my life works much better than the entrance does. You can't force loyalty. Some people will always let you down. Everybody won't always be who you want them to be. I'm never perfect, but I'm always genuine, and I've realized... People are consistent with who they want to be consistent with. They're true to who they want to be true to. They're loyal to who they want to be loyal to. It's all about choices... So in my life, every excuse just gets you closer to an exit, and it's no love lost, I just choose not to waste my time with the games... We can be cool, we just can't be close. Looking for that TRUE .01%.Believe me, 99% of you aren't ready. The one that IS ready will make it known and clear, then my " search" will be over. You others need to stop with your curiosity, you can't hang, trust me, only he can. Now, WHERE is he?FYI, I access meetville through my phone, I've the meetville application, therefore, it shows me as always logged in. I'm NOT ALWAYS HERE, however, I will get a. Notification sent to my phone with every message. This has been a.public service broadcast brought to your by yours truly. ;) NOT INTERESTED IN THE BS 98% OFFER ON HERE. meetville IS JUST ANOTHER ADULT PLAYGROUND.IF YOU'RE A CHILD, MISS ME WITH THAT IMMATURE BULL ISH! I AM A WOMAN NOT A LITTLE GIRL. SAVE YOUR GAMES!!!!! If you're grown, BE grown. Be clear in what you want. I know my worth and my time is AS valuable as yours. I go where I am celebrated, not tolerated. IF YOU DON'T HAVE THE TIME REQUIRED TO SPEND WITH SOMEONE DO NOT MESSAGE ME. I'M NOT YOUR TOY OF CONVENIENCE.My Self Summary: I am Blonde, though my hair has darkened over the years, I keep it highlighted. My eyes change colors, yes for real. I am NOT " high maintenance" though I do keep my finger and toe nails done. I don't dress like a slob, I'm not materialistic. Gucci and Coogi mean NOTHING to me. I can throw on a pair of jeans and a T-shirt, with, or without heels. Lol. The amount of money you make, the vehicle you drive, the place you live in, won't impress me. Only that you do work, have your own, live alone and take care of your own will!I have been separated since December, ***. There is no hope for us, it's been over for a long time, divorce is imminent. I'm open only to someone that's on my level, I'm no longer willing to settle. I have one child at home, a son who is 8. His Father is VERY much involved with him so I've generally no issues with having free time, though due to school being back in session, weekends are most convenient. Because I believe in honesty and no bullish, I must admit my ex still resides in our home. We're both on title and he doesn't want to leave his Son. He sleeps in another room, and we both come n go as we please until we can figure out an arrangement that will have the least amount of stress on our child, he didn't ask for this to happen, it's an adult issue. The situation I am in does NOT affect my " single" life. It will only be a problem if YOU let it be, I've no problem with it. For the inquiring minds that want to know, yes he's black, no he's not a weak minded man, and NO there will not be any drama. Also, even though we're over, I'd NEVER disrespect him by bringing someone I'm seeing home, just so that's clear.Another bit of important information, I am not interested in bearing anymore children and had my tubes tied to ensure that after my Son was born, so that should be taken into consideration by those wishing to find a mate if they eventually want children. Anyone who thinks any part of my profile is BS is encouraged to SKIP me. I'm as real as it gets and I fully understand not everyone is ready to deal with real. ;) The intimate side. Prudes, get over it, we're human and we're intimate by nature. It is PURELY COINCIDENTAL that this section just happens to fall under "FIRST DATE". I ran out of text room in the above section. Let me make this very clear I DON'T need some website to get laid. ;)Moving on, the one I am with will have to understand I am a VERY ( emphasis on VERY) sexual being. I don't tap out first, so I expect stamina. I'm very passionate with my partner and there's no end to my level of commitment in pleasuring/ pleasing him, therefore, I expect the same in return. ( No, I will not do a threesome, trust that I'm all that you can handle). This is not an invitation to anyone here to come at me with requests for sexual favors, or disrespectfulness, but rather a " heads up" to the one who may want to get to know me for me, and this is an important part of me as a package. I do tend to need to kick it up a bit from time to time, more often than not, so my partner needs to be comfortable in his ability to be rough, aggressive and dominant. I am NOT your typical, nor am I to be taken lightly. I am a strong woman in personality, temperament and passion. I am NOT for the unsure, or he who lacks self confidence/ insecure. If he has any kind of sexual dysfunction, erectile or other, our relationship WILL FAIL! Please spare me having to tell you so, because you already know what you've got going on. Anyone that says sex isn't an important part of a relationship is a damn liar! Oh and, size DOES matter, they lied about that too! He needs to bring his A B and C game, and XYZ shouldn't be far behind!I'm NO JOKE!

  • Hazel

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I consider myself a down-2-earth woman. Looking for a man that has himself together....that is honest and can communicate (for some that is asking a lot!). Someone that can make me laugh and be laughed at. A man that will make the time and effort to get to know me. I like both going out as well as just staying in and having dinner and a movie. I love summer. I like picnics/BBQs, flowers, bike rides, bonfires, the zoo, road trips, chocolate, the warm weather, etc etc....Have a good day, happy fishing!!! We'll figure it out...

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