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Iola, 43

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About Me

Looking for the next chapter of my life... I have a great career and social life... Looking for someone to spend it with. I love the beach and anything around it. I have a Lab so you must love dogs. Looking for a drama free relationship .... Is that possible?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Dorthy

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    How to sum myself up....First it should be noted that I have two kids and two cats, I am not looking to relocate at all as this is where my children have their lives and I won't change that on them. So if you don't like kids, cats, or are not local or cannot be local - then I am not for you, I will save you the agony of reading further :) Also it should e noted that I have sated that I want a relationship, and yes I suppose I do, just not sure what that relationship is at the moment. Someone to date yes, and I am not looking to multi-date, just one person, but taking things slow. I like to think I am an interesting person, but really who doesn't? I try to balance between keeping busy, and relaxing. I love many different things, camping being my favourite!! Love camp fires and smores, the smell of wood smoke, cool nights with starry skies! I enjoy walking, hiking, biking, roller blading, anything on or in the water. I love to read, watch movies, I enjoy doing a jigsaw puzzle, playing cards or boardgames. These are all things I would rather do than watch tv. I also like to just spend an evening sitting with candlelight, listening to music, chatting, learning about someone, sharing dreams and thoughts. I also love Sunday NFL (Packers girl...) and nachos. One of the things I really love are road trips!!! Planned or spontaneous, I just love getting in the car and going!!! It isn't always about the destination, but sometimes the journey is just as much fun!I can wear a dress and heels, jeans and flip flops, flannels and fuzzy slippers. There is no box for me....I don't think :) I am simply me!I am a cuddler, I am super-affectionate (gosh, I sound like a humane society ad at this point***but it is true. I like that connection! I look for the same in a partner. I love for someone that has no issue with kissing, holding hands, etc.. I am looking for someone that shares some of my interests, doesn't have to be a carbon copy of me, would really rather prefer him not to be :)!! I think a man should know how to cook and clean - there is nothing sexier!! I love the thought of a chivalrous male - someone that will hold a door for me, open a car door, put a hand in the small of my back as we are walking, offer to do small things for me, even though I am perfectly capable of doing them myself, it just seems so romantic! I love a great sense of humour - I think laughter is key to a relationship - if you can't laugh together, it will be hard to get through those tough times.I am honestly hoping to find my "other half". That does not imply that I am not whole. I simply hope that there is someone out there, that I get excited about, that I can't wait to talk to, look forward to seeing, can't keep my hands off of, and that feels exactly the same as I do. How nice would it be to have someone that felt truly lucky because they have me in their life! Someone that looks at me years down the road, and thinks WOW!, she's mine! I look for honesty and openness, someone that can express how they feel, as well as listen to how I feel. Communication is key, I may not always be good at it, but I try. I apologize for the definite lack of organization in the above - there is much rambling - but trying to express what you want/hope for/are is turning out to be even more difficult than I thought it would be!Yes I have pictures, just not for public viewing. Wishing all the best of luck in their search! ...it depends on the people really....a nice casual drink at a pub would be my first choice I think, you can relax, chat, see what is there if anything. Not really a coffee shop interview type of person....

  • Lezlie

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Contrary to what you may be thinking, there are good women in the world...and I am one of them!! To tell you a little bit about myself: I have been single for 4 years. I have a 6 year old son that is the joy of my life. I'm loyal, hard-working and self-supportive. I enjoy being physically fit, doing the Zoo-De-Mac (a 50 mile bicycle trip) has been something I look forward to every spring. Then ending an evening with a glass of wine on the deck.What I am looking for in a man is someone I can spend quality time with that's hard-working, loyal, and easy-going with a great sense of humor. A man that is willing to be spontaneous and try new things, someone that likes to work hard and play hard, but still has a kind and sensitive side. I am interested in casual dating, establishing a friendship with the potential of leading to something more in time. I am seeking someone that wants to put time and effort into getting to know each other before getting serious. Hopefully you are the one! Meeting for coffee, going for a walk & seeing if we both are interested in a second date.

  • Becki

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    SINGLE WHITE FEMALE FOR SINGLE BLACK MALE ONLY! I become very irritated when my preference is not respected. I appreciate the compliments, thank you, but I'm not here looking for friends. And please, DON'T ask WHY black!!!If you earn my attention, therefore affection and abuse and use it, you'll lose it, never regain it and you'll always miss me. Believe it, because it's true.The exit door to my life works much better than the entrance does. You can't force loyalty. Some people will always let you down. Everybody won't always be who you want them to be. I'm never perfect, but I'm always genuine, and I've realized... People are consistent with who they want to be consistent with. They're true to who they want to be true to. They're loyal to who they want to be loyal to. It's all about choices... So in my life, every excuse just gets you closer to an exit, and it's no love lost, I just choose not to waste my time with the games... We can be cool, we just can't be close. Looking for that TRUE .01%.Believe me, 99% of you aren't ready. The one that IS ready will make it known and clear, then my " search" will be over. You others need to stop with your curiosity, you can't hang, trust me, only he can. Now, WHERE is he?FYI, I access meetville through my phone, I've the meetville application, therefore, it shows me as always logged in. I'm NOT ALWAYS HERE, however, I will get a. Notification sent to my phone with every message. This has been a.public service broadcast brought to your by yours truly. ;) NOT INTERESTED IN THE BS 98% OFFER ON HERE. meetville IS JUST ANOTHER ADULT PLAYGROUND.IF YOU'RE A CHILD, MISS ME WITH THAT IMMATURE BULL ISH! I AM A WOMAN NOT A LITTLE GIRL. SAVE YOUR GAMES!!!!! If you're grown, BE grown. Be clear in what you want. I know my worth and my time is AS valuable as yours. I go where I am celebrated, not tolerated. IF YOU DON'T HAVE THE TIME REQUIRED TO SPEND WITH SOMEONE DO NOT MESSAGE ME. I'M NOT YOUR TOY OF CONVENIENCE.My Self Summary: I am Blonde, though my hair has darkened over the years, I keep it highlighted. My eyes change colors, yes for real. I am NOT " high maintenance" though I do keep my finger and toe nails done. I don't dress like a slob, I'm not materialistic. Gucci and Coogi mean NOTHING to me. I can throw on a pair of jeans and a T-shirt, with, or without heels. Lol. The amount of money you make, the vehicle you drive, the place you live in, won't impress me. Only that you do work, have your own, live alone and take care of your own will!I have been separated since December, ***. There is no hope for us, it's been over for a long time, divorce is imminent. I'm open only to someone that's on my level, I'm no longer willing to settle. I have one child at home, a son who is 8. His Father is VERY much involved with him so I've generally no issues with having free time, though due to school being back in session, weekends are most convenient. Because I believe in honesty and no bullish, I must admit my ex still resides in our home. We're both on title and he doesn't want to leave his Son. He sleeps in another room, and we both come n go as we please until we can figure out an arrangement that will have the least amount of stress on our child, he didn't ask for this to happen, it's an adult issue. The situation I am in does NOT affect my " single" life. It will only be a problem if YOU let it be, I've no problem with it. For the inquiring minds that want to know, yes he's black, no he's not a weak minded man, and NO there will not be any drama. Also, even though we're over, I'd NEVER disrespect him by bringing someone I'm seeing home, just so that's clear.Another bit of important information, I am not interested in bearing anymore children and had my tubes tied to ensure that after my Son was born, so that should be taken into consideration by those wishing to find a mate if they eventually want children. Anyone who thinks any part of my profile is BS is encouraged to SKIP me. I'm as real as it gets and I fully understand not everyone is ready to deal with real. ;) The intimate side. Prudes, get over it, we're human and we're intimate by nature. It is PURELY COINCIDENTAL that this section just happens to fall under "FIRST DATE". I ran out of text room in the above section. Let me make this very clear I DON'T need some website to get laid. ;)Moving on, the one I am with will have to understand I am a VERY ( emphasis on VERY) sexual being. I don't tap out first, so I expect stamina. I'm very passionate with my partner and there's no end to my level of commitment in pleasuring/ pleasing him, therefore, I expect the same in return. ( No, I will not do a threesome, trust that I'm all that you can handle). This is not an invitation to anyone here to come at me with requests for sexual favors, or disrespectfulness, but rather a " heads up" to the one who may want to get to know me for me, and this is an important part of me as a package. I do tend to need to kick it up a bit from time to time, more often than not, so my partner needs to be comfortable in his ability to be rough, aggressive and dominant. I am NOT your typical, nor am I to be taken lightly. I am a strong woman in personality, temperament and passion. I am NOT for the unsure, or he who lacks self confidence/ insecure. If he has any kind of sexual dysfunction, erectile or other, our relationship WILL FAIL! Please spare me having to tell you so, because you already know what you've got going on. Anyone that says sex isn't an important part of a relationship is a damn liar! Oh and, size DOES matter, they lied about that too! He needs to bring his A B and C game, and XYZ shouldn't be far behind!I'm NO JOKE!

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