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Hartley, 44

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About Me

I'm a single mom of 2 grown kids. They both moved out & that leaves me here having laptop parties with my sister...lol. We have fun but I'm not a die hard game player. This is not the life I had dreamed of & being alone is not what I want. I'm looking for a guy to show me adventure & to n"Joy". I'm honest and easy to talk to. I don't judge others and I don't like to be stero-typed. I beleive in no "Drama" and a little "Carma". Jealousy is b.s. "TRUST THE ONE YOUR WITH" that's my dream....man! My first date would be a casual drive in the country. Getting to know each other, finding out about you and what you like. Having conversation about your past, your family, your interests. Maybe dinner or visiting some friends....partying. I am easy going and enjoy all kinds of things. Make me smile!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Allie

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I'm not interested in fluff and bullshit. I like men who know what they believe but are open enough to listen to other points of view and who can carry on a conversation. I want a man who can plan a date, who can decide where we will go and what we will do and when he would like to do it before asking me out. I'm very open to new experiences. I like to have FUN. I like to be around people who put out positive energy. Myself: free-spirited, adventurous, creative, opinionated, smart, sarcastic, not easily offended, I cuss and I'm heavily tattooed, I love art, books and movies. Music is very important to me and I love all types."The challenge is to be yourself in a world that's trying to get you to be like everyone else."I've been told I need to be more specific about what I'm looking for on here even though I feel like most people never make it past the pictures, but here goes.I DON'T TEXT!!!! So don't ask. You can message me here and there are a few other options that we can discuss should we choose to continue a conversation.What do I mean by I want to date but nothing serious? I DON'T mean that I'm looking for a one night stand. I do mean that I'm looking for someone to go out and have fun with and see where it goes. If it's just fun, that's cool. If it goes somewhere more, that's ok too. I'm just not looking to jump into a serious relationship right away.I don't date outside my race, if that offends any one, sorry.Age doesn't matter to me but generally I don't date people older than me, mainly because in my experience most people older than me (or even my age for that matter) act like they are ***years old and can't leave the house.I'm not a "party girl" but I do like to go out every now and then and yes to a club or a bar. I like to do lots of other things too, but generally they do not involve "snuggling on the couch and watching a movie", to me that's something you do when you are recovering from the fun you had the night before!No, I don't want to work on your car. If you ask me on a date, I want you to plan it!

  • Shila

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    This is always such a hard thing to write. Ugh. Ok, well I am 42 years old and I have one son that is going to be 12 years old, who is my LOVE! My son has Asperger's Syndrome and ADHD, so if that bothers you, please keep fishing. Sorry not trying to be rude but he is a wonderful kid and we are a package deal, enough said. I am a Hospice RN Team Manager and I love my job. I am a laid back person who is always smiling and loves to laugh. I am independent and do not need a sugar daddy nor am I looking for a "hook up". I am just looking to see if there might be some like minded men out there that are looking for normalcy. Anybody? lol Anyway, if you would like to know more, drop me a line. :) Coffee or drink and see from there

  • Mao

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    The short version- it would just be nice to have someone to do things with, have adult, intelligent conversations with and explore the world and all it has to offer. I am pretty much cool with whatever but still sensible and logical, I love trying new things going to new places, meeting new people. Looking for someone who is educated, responsible, respectful, a professional, perhaps over 5'10" and under 45, a doer not a dreamer, with a positive attitude who understands my kids come first. Im just a normal person trying my best each day to live a good life. The rest you can find out if we meet ;) Im up for anything and always lookingto do something funbut please 1. have some manners2. if you don't want to actually meet don't waste my time, I don't need a pen pal3. I don't want dirty pictures of you nor do i want your wife contacting me4. if you can't read, spell, speak English or post a recent picture, please don't bother. thanks :)

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