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Tonita, 39

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About Me

In a relationship, I like to be openly affectionate. I would rather sit next to you than across from you at a restaurant. Every now and then I like a relaxing day at home, but not too often. I like to get out and do things: river kayaking, skiing, camping, hiking, seeing some live music -I'll dabble in mountain biking, but I'm not very good at it and I prefer the fire roads. I like cooking dinner together, and I'm terrible with the barbecue, so if you're good at grilling meat, I don't have to learn how to do it. ;) I like occassionaly entertaining guests in my home -I've had a few taco game nights at my house (good times had by all). I want to be in a relationship where, in the hopefully few *** tension arises, we both make the effort to understand each other's perspectives. I'm looking for someone who is laid back about the small stuff, but when it comes to the important things, is direct about how he thinks things should happen. I like it when my boyfriend is a little on the chivalrous side. I tend to be more often on the introverted side when I first meet people, but I can be an extrovert with those I'm comfortable with.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Elenora

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Let's see...well, for starters I have a background in non-profit development but am currently studying to transition into a career in real estate. It's been a bit of a challenge but I think it would be a better fit for me. I'm independent, passionate, playful, and free spirited. Building a solid friendship that also has great chemistry is really important to me. I do want to get married, but it has to be the right person with the same values, life goals, and complimentary personality. I'm honest and expect honesty in return. I like a lot of time with my man but do need some alone time and time with the girls too. I expect you will need the same. I enjoy relaxing at home with a movie and a great glass of cab, but I also like exploring new places and trying activities I've never done before. (I'm all for a little healthy competition.) I am overweight but in nice proportion. I'm a jeans and t-shirt kind of girl but also enjoy wearing a dress and heels on occasion. I don't mind getting dirty and love to play outside. ;) I'd prefer the dive restaurant with great food over the really nice overpriced place with the stuffy atmosphere. I appreciate when a man is sensitive enough to share his heart but confident enough to take control and really be a man...If I respect you, then I have no problem letting you take the lead. I see people in relationships where it is clear that the woman is dominate and wears the pants in the family. That is NOT what I want or need.I'm very inquisitive and like to know what makes people tick. Sometimes that comes off like an interrogation with meeting new people (so I'm working on that) but it's only because people fascinate me and I'm naturally very curious. I'm a Christian who takes my faith seriously and am not willing to date someone that doesn't share my beliefs. Experience has taught me that makes for a rough road and relationships always take effort but shouldn't be THAT hard. If you love going to movies, hanging out with friends, can chill and have a few beers with me and can take a joke and make me laugh then it may be a great fit. Let's go find something fun to do and find out if we click! What I'm looking for in a first date? I think meeting for a beer or cup of coffee in a casual setting is best. Nothing too intense right off the bat. Once I get to know you a bit better I'll be down for a hike in the woods or most whatever else you have in mind. :)One last bit - I find it incredibly hot when a man can take the lead and treats me like a lady.

  • Hildegarde

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    I like to be adventurous, but not dumb. I absolutely love to dance, but I\'m not looking to party every night or weekend. If you’re a hangouter, we’ll do along, looking forward to your message.

  • Nicolasa

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    - in every facet possible. I do a little of everything imaginable. I try to learn everything I can. There's a long list of things I'd like-to/will do, but I'm happy with what I'm currently doing. That's pretty vague - so here's the more-descript version: Im musical, I'm a techie, I'm a dork, I'm a social flutterby, I'm a nature-lover/adventurer, I'm overly-creative...I love life and find beauty and fun in everything. What I Do I have lived a very colorful life - a very full life. I'm trying to settle it down a bit and enjoy a slower pace with my little mini-me. She's awesome - and I'm not saying that simply because I'm biased. "Little A" has come through more in her 1 year of life than most face in their entirety.-mom; dad is not around. There is not really any drama there & little one is with me 100% of the time. I do it all on my own and I feel completely spoiled that I get this little amazing person all to myself. I'm stable, I have a very awesome job. I'm blessed that my mom can watch A while I work...and I wish I could get paid as much as I do to work part time so I could have more time with her. I'm fascinated with how quick she's growing already and watching her learn. She's hella-smart and a complete little sponge! So obviously, if you want to get to know me, you must be kid-friendly. Otherwise, For non-working time, I love being outside...as does the munckin...in the fall, we both (yes her included) LOVE football RAWR!! Basically, any random adventures. I volunteer locally for charity events - usually playing music - usually military/service-related events. Because of little one's "adventures", we also do a few things for Children's or anything heart-related. I also donate all of my old phones to women's/homeless charities. I'd like to start a musical group that plays on occasion at retirement homes....old 40's music. Something to make them smile. Skillz, I has them! I conquer anything I put my mind to. Seriously. I can learn any ***; I can pick up languages; I've spent the past 2 years learning networking stuff (which is what I do for work now); I can dance, sing, paint, draw, build-things, work out complex problems, mediate social problems between friends (or co-workers), pick a killer fantasy football team - and do it all in high heels and backwards. (More points if you get that reference) I'd say I'm pretty awesome at being "me". Movies: I own about ***dvds and could easily add more...I enjoy most genres.- Mindy Project, New Girl, &-9.....oh yeah, and FOOTBALL! Music: I love all music, but generally, my radio is on classical in the car - or country. I sing & play a mix of blues/indie/folk. LOVE bluegrass. Food: I'm a foodie. I love all foods (aside from fast-food which doesn't count as real food). I try to eat healthy - I believe in listening to your own body for the right diet - mine likes a pesce-vegan kind of diet. Less cheese/breads, more veggies/fruits/seafood. It's like I'm at the beach all the time! :D Couldn't-Live-Withouts: MusicFamily & FriendsThe oceanBooksSnuggle-time with munchkinGood food/wine. Inside My Head: There's a constant soundtrack in my head...it never stops. I also picture anything everyone says in cartoon version internally. Randomly, I'm pondering life, music, the beach, adventures with my munchkin, what my little munchkin is doing while I'm away from her...sleep.... You should message me if: 1) You have something interesting to say - if you want a response, I recommend something witty, funny, intelligent, and/or that I can't help but want to respond back to. I'm not going to respond back to "Hi, how are you." Here's your answer: "I'm great! Thanks for asking."B) You're equally awesome and fun/laid-back/exciting (yes, those can go together without complete paradoxical implications)...and looking for quality friendship & laughter.*-set to be a cabana boy, are independently wealthy, and show up with flowers. I'm probably not going to meet up with a random stranger after one conversation. Get to know me here, move to ***, etc. and then we can do something public and kid-friendly. I'm a single mom & munchkin is a year old....so if I'm important enough for you to get to know, you'll understand, respect, and work with this. ;-)

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