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Tonita, 39

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About Me

In a relationship, I like to be openly affectionate. I would rather sit next to you than across from you at a restaurant. Every now and then I like a relaxing day at home, but not too often. I like to get out and do things: river kayaking, skiing, camping, hiking, seeing some live music -I'll dabble in mountain biking, but I'm not very good at it and I prefer the fire roads. I like cooking dinner together, and I'm terrible with the barbecue, so if you're good at grilling meat, I don't have to learn how to do it. ;) I like occassionaly entertaining guests in my home -I've had a few taco game nights at my house (good times had by all). I want to be in a relationship where, in the hopefully few *** tension arises, we both make the effort to understand each other's perspectives. I'm looking for someone who is laid back about the small stuff, but when it comes to the important things, is direct about how he thinks things should happen. I like it when my boyfriend is a little on the chivalrous side. I tend to be more often on the introverted side when I first meet people, but I can be an extrovert with those I'm comfortable with.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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