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Tonisha, 38

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About Me

I am seeking a relationship. I am looking for a man with a well balanced personality. I am not your typical dummy. I am smart and independent and strong. I will not be disrespected nor play games with you. If you are interested in that non sense then move along. You should have a job, car, your own home, if you have children, I expect you to be more than a 4 day per month every other weekend dad, and most of all, looking for more that just trying to get your penis wet. Family comes first for me, I am willing to make sacrifice of my personal needs and wants to better the family. Are you grown enough to understand this? No, I am not your mom! if you are emotionally under developed to the point that you need or want a momma, do not contact me. I am looking for a partner, not a dependent. I do not discriminate. I have found that I am attracted to different races, I base my opinion of a person based on their behavior, response to situations, and how they treat me, not ethnicity. If you are not fully independent, employed full time and have a home of your own. Also, if you do not know the difference between bullsh*tand whats real then I am out of your league. I do not have pictures, if I did, you would not have read this profile, you would have sent an message based on pics alone, how shallow of you. I also will not send you a picture, so dont ask. Dinner, something at least decent, and it does not include fast food. If you are not willing to take the time to understand who I am, what I want and you are just trying to get laid. Then do not contact me.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Hana

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Not sure why we even have to fill out this section. No one reads it until they look at your picture anyway. Then if they look at it they ***, you aren't sure if what people put down is actually true or not. But I will follow the rules and fill it out. I love sports, art and music. I love traveling and I love walks on the beach. I am always told I am full of life and have a huge heart. When you are my friend, you are my friend for life. When I give my heart to someone (whether it's a friend or love) I give it all.

  • Love

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I like to do many different things such as walking my dogs, hitting the gym, going to football & baseball games, festivals, ice skating, camping & traveling. I also enjoy movies, comedy clubs, live music and going downtown. I like to dance occasionally but am not someone who has to be on the go all the time or entertained. I like staying in with good books/movies and good company! I am definitley a "news junkie" as far as tv goes but I will admit that I've gotten pulled into a few reality shows. I have also always wanted to visit a Vineyard. Swimming in the ocean and snorkeling is something I could do every day! There's really not much I won't try as long as it's legal lol, I just got back from Cancun where I did zip lining upside down.; Going to Yankee Stadium is something I am hoping to do this summer/fall because yes I am a huge Yankee fan.........it runs in my family.%. I have a small family but I am close with some of them that live near me and I have wonderful friends that I am thankful for. My music taste varies. I have always been passionate about music as I played the piano and sax when I was younger, I love the theater too!I like cooking on holidays and weekends. Seafood, Mexican and Polish are my favorite foods but I try to eat pretty healthy. I love Halloween parties and still will dress up. My friends say I am big hearted, dependable, a great listener/problem solver and that they are happy to know me (that was on a birthday card I got this year!). I have always been a good judge of character and have a good head on my shoulders. I am financially responsible and have worked for all I have. Generally I would say I am a pretty optimistic person, you never know what the future holds and never say never. I am basically hoping to find someone that I have a great time with and also that I am attracted to. I am looking for a well rounded, intelligent, sercure, confident, sociable man who is strong but not insensitive. I would like someone who is happy with life in general and ready to experience things with that someone special. I haven't put too much effort in a while into dating as I've just been doing my own thing and enjoying life but I definitley think it can be better with a partner in crime. My "Match" needs to know how to have fun and be flexible/open minded when it comes to making plans. I believe a lasting relationship needs to contain a mutual respect and support of one another. The most important thing in a functional relationship is for both people to be themselves. I'm sure the competition/selection is high on both ends but I do believe that all good things come to those who wait, however I don't believe in e-mailing too long before meeting. I am not looking for someone with an overly needy personality or a man that wants to be a life long serial dater. I am looking to start slow and see where things go. I welcome any questions you may have and wish everyone the best of luck! : ) For a first meeting I like to keep it simple, maybe meet at a place like Champs or grab a coffee to see what we think about a future date. If I am in good company then it really doesn't matter where we are.

  • Tonia

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Lets try the ****y approach! The reality is I’m a normal woman who is happy with life but would like to enhance it with someone special. Im not here for head games and I don’t care about how many times you have been hurt in the past. I am willing to bet we have all been hurt at one point so move on! If your still bitter you likely are not ready for a dating site. I love to laugh and enjoy spending time outdoors, going to movies, travel, art, zoo’s and of course spending time with my family and friends. I am willing to spend time getting to know someone but honestly if you message me with “hi” that more than likely won’t get a response back don’t waste my time and I wont waste yours. I find it very funny that most are looking for true love yet few are willing to take a chance on someone different. Why bother writing a profile if you take a pass on the picture. Yes I do think there should be an attraction to a person but good god looks fade we cant all be 5’10’’ blond haired blue eyed bombshells. Besides if that is what you have dated in the past and are on here it seems it didn’t work out so how about trying something different, I am! If you don’t want to be judged solely on looks try not to do the same with me. Oh and one last thing... If I took the time to message you it is because this silly site matched us somehow... If you are not interested it would be wonderful if you could send me a message back saying "not interested". I swear I wont cyber stalk you or send a nasty note back.LOLThere is much more to write but I think I have said enough for now! Take care ! First date? It depends on the connection. If we click and hit it off great maybe a nice dinner where we can sit and chat and get to know each other better. If things are still a little shaky maybe someplace where we have a quick escape route like starbucks!

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