SIMILAR PEOPLE
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Cher
Online
Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 35-45
Relationship is: Not about AGE, Not about DISTANCE, Not about Communicating every moment of every day. What's more important is having TRUST & LOYALTY...The TRUST of girl to her man and the LOYALTY of man to his girl...Before you begin reading you should know...I often do NOT respond to profiles in which children are in the main photo...I'm sure you're all proud of your children and want them to be seen...I'm just not to keen on them being seen here. After all it is a dating site and not the face book! ;) If you're mentally depressed (I am not a pick me up), manic depressant, bi-polar or any other type of thing, we are probably are not a good fit. Indeed I have a great sympathy but have dealt with it more times than I care to admit. I have no need to help society in that manner. And please dudes...put some clothes on! ;)All around good girl...mother of two fantastically brilliant children, writer, author, substitute teacher, cheer-leading coach. As a writer you'd think something like this would be a breeze...not so. I am an avid gardener and nothing relieves stress more than digging in the dirt. I love children and have housed over a dozen children that do not belong to me b/c their parents didn't feel the need to raise them further. I'm very goal oriented as well as educated. I'm not looking for 'someone' just to take care of me...I do that pretty well on my own. The same goes for someone that is looking for me to 'take care' of them. I love butterflies and lying on the beach, big dogs and anything unique or 'weird'. I'm not into the bar scene and rarely get out due to me being a writer. I am presently starting a foundation for the deaf and have been doing so for the last year and a half. Hearing is a 'gift', should we not all be able to utilize it? I am NOT a ***kind of girl so if that's what you're into please proceed to the next profile...I value my time as much as the next person and have no desire to become joined at the hip. I love being in a relationship but do not want my life *** around someone else's goals and dramas. (No drama here, if you love the drama, please proceed!!) Shared goals are important but one must remain independent from being thrown into a rut in life.I am extremely honest and rude to a point. Rude only after you do not want to hear the truth, lol. Life is too short to 'candy-coat' and dance around how you feel. I am a tyrant in the defense of the 'underdog' and would give the shirt off my back for the greater good. My hobbies are extensive, i.e. gardening, writing, crocheting, cooking, sewing, drawing (My favorite medium is charcoal.)...yadda yadda...just your typical domestic goddess. There isn't anything that I can't do and if there were my children would say, "Then she'd only buy a book..." I can lay stone and brick as well as build an addition. I grow tremendous gardens and can as much of it as I can to feed the masses. I dig old cemeteries and adventuring into the dark unknown...playing baseball and football as well as cheering on my favorite team (The Pack) on television. I appreciate life and am grateful and thankful every day that I can put both of my feet onto the floor and stand and then...to hear the beautiful voices of my children. Grateful for everything that I am and for what I have and daily I remind myself that someone has it much worse than I ever have, it keeps me very grounded. My musical tastes are heavy metal and classical/symphony with Metallica, Chevelle, Tool and A Perfect Circle being on the top of the list. Not much into Rap/Country/R&B...if you are, great, I'm always willing to listen.I've met some amazing ppl through this site and some...well...not so amazing. LOL! If I've sparked an interest drop me a line, if not, I wish you all the luck in the world, and FYI I am not a 'booty' call and perverse messaging isn't appreciated. I'm just not that kind of girl (Well unless you've known me a long while!) :D Something relaxed and comfortable...I'm always down for a cup of hot tea and intriguing conversation.
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Neta
Online
Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: man. In age: 35-45
Let me be more specific about what I'm looking for. Because of my hectic schedule, it's hard to find time for a serious relationship at this time in my life. However, I'm willing to give it my best shot. I definitely want more than just hook ups. First and foremost, I want a friend, someone I can hang out with, do things with, have good conversations with, and if things click and the chemistry's right, maybe more. I want someone I can connect with. I want inimacy, but that doesn 't mean sex. Sex is not a top priority for me. This doesn't mean I don't like it. I'm just tired of meaningless, empty sex, so I'm willing to wait till I find someone who can make it meaningful. If you expect sex on the first or even the second date, then I'm not the girl for you. There is no guarantee on when sex will happen, or that it will at all. Mutual trust and respect need to be built first. My living situation is unusual and some guys have issues with it. My ex-husband lives in the lower level of my split level house. We're not together, but we're still friends, and we think it's best for our daughter to have both her parents around. We don't have dates over to the house. Not because it would bother either of us, but because our daughter is always here, and we both agree that we don't want to bring other people into her life until we're sure they're going to be around for a while. She's top priority. Keeping her life as stable and happy as possible is top priority for both of us. It makes dating complicated sometimes, but it's worth it.A little tip: Starting off with an overtly sexual comment or blatant come on is a sure fire way to get on my bad side. I've spent over half my life playing in bands with male musicians. I learned to be one of the guys in order to survive, and I'm more comfortable being treated like a buddy than a piece of meat. Keep that in mind when you message me, please. Here's another update:ATTENTION YOUNGER MEN! I don't have a problem with age difference. However, I am not here to fulfill your milf fantasies. The above expectations will apply to you the same as anyone else. If you're not interested in actually getting to know me, then don't bother. Sorry. I'm a working single mom. My daughter is the most amazing person I've ever met. Music is my passion, and I've been playing bass guitar for almost 20 years. I used to operate my own business designing and making custom clothing and corsetry, and i still enjoy it but prefer to do so for fun rather than work. So, these days, I have a regular day job in the optometry field. I enjoy playing music, reading, spending time with friends and family, going to concerts and other performances, and watching movies. Most of my time is spent being mommy and working, but I still try to have some fun. I'm trying to build up the courage and motivation to go back to school for a second degree, something that makes me question my sanity sometimes. I'm an avid reader, music is a huge part of my life, I love all kinds of movies, and I enjoy trying different kinds of food. I'm open minded and adventurous in most aspects of life.I used to be a good girl. Really, I swear! Oh, and a semi-professional ballet dancer. No kidding! That was a lifetime ago, though, before I sold my soul to rock n roll. ;-)Message me if you want to know more about me. I'm horrible at writing about myself, so this profile doesn't even begin to scratch the surface of who I am. I'm also a little shy about initiating contact, so I'm more likely to reply to you if you message me than I am to message you first. Creativity can earn you bonus points, but I'm happy with just meeting somewhere we can talk and get to know each other.
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Nereida
Online
Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: man. In age: 33-43
I am very outgoing and friendly. I love people and can talk to anybody. I am very much a people person. I have a wide range of friends of all different beliefs and backgrounds. I work in a nursing home , I love old people. I'm friends with many other department heads as well as the laundry and kitchen staff. I have a big heart and I'm a good listener, although I do love to talk. I also have a home and 2 beautiful boys, ages 8 and 3. I normally prefer to start out with dinner for a first date, so that we can have time to talk and get to know each other