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Atv- I like my coffee in the morning,..preferably on the porch while the birds are chirping and the sun is rising. My favorite colors are tourquiose, magenta and black. I don't care to try sushi... I like to cook;) never been sky diving,..it's not on my bucket list either lol I strongly dislike to argue and will de-esculate a situation if possible. What I'm looking for? A clown ninja lol Funny but can make me feel safe in his arms. That's what you were dying to know right lol I attend college full time and have my kids full time. *I've found that it's easy to make SOME kind of a connection with almost anyone your ATTRACTED to,..problem is,..people get it twisted.Dig deeper than looks as they won't last forever. *No one is ever going to do exactly everything you like or want to do....but thats a good thing,...think about it; Do you really want to be attached at the hip? Absence makes the heart grow fonder, I've always heard. But, then you have the other side of that argument,....not spending enough time together,..there has to be a happy medium and it's different for everyone. Never compare one to another;) Although I've obviously not met my match, as I am still here,.. I have met a select few that I call friend. Nothing more, nothing less. They are just good people. Things I dislike:*Messeges sent that say " having any luck?"* My answer..I'm still here aren't I? Is that a loaded question or what?*Tattoos on the face.* I have no tattoos but have no problem with anyone that does,...as long as its not on the face.*Men that have piercings on the eyebrows,lips or nose* Sorry I'm just not into it.( My ears are pierced,that is all)*Bible thumpers" I believe in God,...but i dont believe i have to go to church to be excepted by him.*Full blown beards that are long* unless it's no shave November..(I guess it's a hunting thing?..lol)*People that suck**Vacuums that don't* lol*People that have a "woe is me" attitude* Listen, no ones perfect, everyone is fighting their own battle, just be kind. When people ask me how I'm doing out in the real world my reply is usually " Better than some, worse than others" I don't feel sorry for myself,....I make changes ;-)*People that are conceited* It's great to be confident,...but never****.*Jazz, screaming metal, hard core rap* I like to be able to understand what Im listening to and my music choices are vast.oThings I like that weren't listed in my interests section :*Hearing my children laugh**Rain on a tin roof**kind eyes**busting out dancing when i'm cleaning house,...lol"*random kisses from a significant other**being goofy at times**the stories my daughter writes* she's 8*the thinking behind the things my son builds* he's 7 lol*my fathers advice**my mothers silliness/laughter*when a man opens a door for me**fresh downy smelling sheets and clean shaved legs*.........talk about snuggly,cozy sleep,...ahhhhh*the smell of honeysuckle and the warm sun on my face*etc etc etc..lolOk so you've made it this far,....wanna know more?I'm 5 '9" with tennie shoes on...when I wear heels, and I do from time to time, I'm 2 to 3 inches taller.I'm naturally dark blond but dye my hair deep brown/blackI weigh 175lbs usually through the summer, give or take. I wear it well. Don't think so?...move along move along lolI'm currently attending college for social services/corrections/criminal justice and I work.I have two children that couldn't be more different than night and day lol My daughter is very well rounded,creative, adores animals and has her mothers goofy side. My son honestly,...is a handful. He has issues that the average person would probably have to google to understand. I love both my children and am doing my best to raise them right. If your interested in me,...this is something for you to think about. I do NOT bring men in and out of their lives so don't expect to meet them right away ;-) We'll cross that bridge when we get to it.Other things to think about:Distance. I would rather not have a long distance relationship, but am not opposed to dating someone an hour away. That being said,...communication is key. Can we handle each others schedules? How will our children get along Somewhere we can talk. You cant really talk in a movie theater, or while your eating so I'd rather not do that on a first date lol. Lets just meet and see if we click. Coffee? Tea? lol ***Don't laugh I've actually done that...my idea lol ;-)P.S. Ok I know this is a dating site,..but please fellas, put your shirt on and quit with the fish lips. SeriouslyAlso,.....Flipping the bird, giving the finger?,throwing out gang signs? uuuuuh yea. I wanna take that home to mom and dad said no woman ever. lol just saying ;-)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I hate describing myself. I am a BLAST! I mean really, simply put. There isn't really anything I'm not willing to try once (I have a scar to prove it!) I have a TON of energy, I like to go, do, see & be. Yet, there is nothing like a quiet evening home curled up with wine & movies. I love to travel; I wish I could do it all the time. Unfortunately, no matter how often I check my backyard, there is no money tree! ;-) I tend to be a bit on the sarcastic side & borderline sassy. Consider yourself warned. As long as I'm laughing...it’s FUNNY! My children are the sun, moon and stars. I will not expect any man to love them like I do, nor do I expect my children to love him, as they do me. What I will expect is respect, honor, kindness, strength & loyalty to my family, they are all I have. If I deem you so worthy as to allow you into the lives of my children & invite you to become a part of my family; I will expect that you protect us, love us & be passionate about us. Sounds a bit demanding you say? I don't think so at all. I'm a great Mom, with great children, because I'm raising them with great authority, great self-esteem & great respect for all human kind. I will not allow anyone to screw that up! LOL I can do that all by myself! LOL I don't have D.T.F. written on my forehead. So, if you're just looking to "get it in", I am NOT the "hit-it & quit-it" girl. Nope, you've got the WRONG one. I am looking for a serious long-term relationship. I don't care about your past ex's & I'm sure you don't care about mine. If you keep looking behind you, you are sure to miss the amazing things in front of you. So, if you're "hung-up" on her, do yourself a favor & don't respond...LOL...seriously. I love life and everything life has to offer, I want to share my passion for life with someone who is easy going, fun, caring, compassionate, trustworthy, kind, loving & attractive. Yup, she said it....attractive! Looks are important to me. We might connect on a mental level and have that just fit, but if I'm not physically attracted to you, it's still not gonna work. I guess what I'm trying to get at is I want romance, passion, desire & unconditional love all tied up in a big red bow! Considering my last profile was too "mean" for some of you boys...(please note that if you are a man, then you know I am not talking about you...duh). I am gonna try very hard to be as diplomatic as I possibly can. So, let's not get it all twisted, I know the tooth count in this town is less than 100, rest assured, my children & I possess approximately 84 of them (please note my daughter is missing teeth, let's cut her some slack, she is only 9 and still enjoys a visit from the tooth fairy!) Just sayin'...2) Really, if I don't respond to your ***, it's because I'M NOT INTERESTED. It may be a multitude of reasons why I'm not. If you *** why I didn't respond to your first message, I'm gonna respond with brutal honesty & it is highly unlikely that you will take my response as constructive criticism. You WILL be offended. So save yourself the embarrassment & keep lookin'.3) I cannot I believe I have to say this again but seriously, LOOKS MATTER~!! Call me shallow, call me superficial, I really don't care what you think I am. If I am not physically attracted to you, it's just not gonna work. Really, I understand falling out of the ugly tree on occasion & whacking a couple of branches on the way down; some of you look like you got gangbanged by the entire effing forest~! Look in the mirror, and then send me a message.4) Don't send me a message if you are questioning your own sexuality. (Yes, there is a story that goes with that.) Don't send me a message if you just want me to keep you company while you are deployed. (Yup...got a great story for that one too.) Don't propose to me on the first date. (Ring...knee...whole 9 yards...good story there too.)

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I am a very energetic person that likes to stay busy. I enjoy a good laugh, it can make any situation better. I think I have a pretty good sense of humor, with a hint of sarcasm. I take him anywhere I can. He is a part of the family. My friends say I have OCD since I love to clean and organize, and I think they might be right. :)I like cooking when I have someone to cook for. I do not have children of my own but I am caring for my 8 year old niece while my brother gets his life in order. She is a great kid that keeps me on my toes. I'm looking for someone who is honest, loving, funny and fun. Light and easy is ideal.

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Just fresh out of a relationship looking for someone to talk to be friends. Not looking for anyone to cry on about what happened to me just someone to hang with and adjust to my new life.

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