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Zola, 38

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About Me

first of all single mom of a beautiful 11 yr old daughter and handsome 9yr old son !!! 2nd i work Monday-Friday and enjoy spending my weekends with my children . 3 rd I'm full of flaws but then who isn't right lol! on the upside I'm full of energy ,have a great sense of humor ( some may find me odd ) , I over analyze everything (due to 2 much free time on my hands is my guess as to why ) . but overall I'm a loving caring person . I tend to be a hermit at times because the world just simply scares the hell out of me or maybe its just because the economy sucks and who can really afford to do much anymore . i find it hard to date due to the fact I have children and I don't like leaving them at a sitter all the time . so definitely need someone who understands the meaning of family and friends . I've not been in a serious relationship in over 6 years now and I'm ready to find someone which i could settle down with if things go right . not just looking for someone to shack up with for a minute . I've never been married and would like to be someday...(every girls dream!!! ) ... I'm looking for friends and possibly the one I'm meant to be with . honesty is the only way to go with me, regardless if it hurts my feelings it's better to know the truth then to have to keep guessing ...and i'll still respect you in the morning ...lol!!!. I like a variety of music ! I want to find that person who inspires me and makes me want to be a better person than i already am . I'm a madcap type who is fond of routine (if that makes any sense !). . If you would honestly like to get to know me then send me an *** you was to ask who my hero was .... i would say my mom and my dad . there is no greater power then love and even tho i grew up in a broken home my life has always been fulfilled by the love of having great parents ....besides.. who else bails you out or is there for you when things get rough ...lol....needless to say even tho my family drives me crazy , i have really strong ties with them . so occasionaly you'll here me complaining ...just nod your head and smile ! ...lol! ok ...i get asked what i look for in a man : I'm looking for that someone who can be an equal ,a sense of humor ,knows the meaning of respect ,has morales and values . I can provide for myself and my children so i'm not looking for money or material things ( but i do want someone that is self sufficent ...) .I could careless about what kind of car you drive or how many toys you have. i want to know whats in that heart because that's what my life seems to be lacking ... The feeling of... finally being complete and fulfilled with that happiness we all desire deep down inside . so what i'm searching for is that love without conditions ! some where we could just hang out and chat for a few to see if we click in person

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    How many want to start talking but stop after " hi how are you?"..get to know someone people geez!I love spending time with my boys the most. I love to read,play on the computer,and i enjoy outside activities. I am a very outgoing person after I warm up to you. I am very kind hearted and love being romantic and snuggling up. I am also going to be VERY upfront! If you are looking for a barbie doll I am not it! Here is my physical make-up...i am 5'3" and ***lbs (but starting back at the gym to get back to 145lbs)....i am not fat but i am not skinny I have 2 children and proud of my body type ...so if this is not for you then pls do not contact me and waste both of our times! My favorite music is country but i listen to a little of everything. I am a photographer and love taking pictures all the time! Please if you wanna chat and get to know me then please contact me BUT if you just want to try to have cyber sex or start talking dirty please move on...I am not your girl! I am here to look for a relationship or at least to make friends with real people and get to know you and see where things lead! also if I say hi to u please send back more than just HI.....talk to me! i am here to meet you! If you contact me please ask me out and not just want an *** site is for finding that special someone.****VERY IMPORTANT*****IF YOU ARE SOME CLINGY PERSON WHO ACTS LIKE I AM NOT TO TALK TO ANYONE ELSE WHILE TALKING TO YOU (ESPECIALLY BEFORE YOU MEET EACH OTHER OR EVEN VOICE VERIFY WITH ME) THEN PLEASE KEEP MOVING ON!!!! I WILL NOT PUT UP WITH IMMATURITY....I LOVE TO JOKE AROUND AND PLAY BUT ACTING LIKE YOU OWN ME IS NOT HAPPENING! I WILL MEET YOU AND SETTLE DOWN IF THE RELATIONSHIP PROGRESSES AND BE 100% FAITHFUL TO YOU WHEN AND IF THAT TIME COMES. THANKS FOR READING. anything fun! I don't drink coffee but will have a nice cup of hot chocolate with ya!

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