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Zola, 38

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About Me

first of all single mom of a beautiful 11 yr old daughter and handsome 9yr old son !!! 2nd i work Monday-Friday and enjoy spending my weekends with my children . 3 rd I'm full of flaws but then who isn't right lol! on the upside I'm full of energy ,have a great sense of humor ( some may find me odd ) , I over analyze everything (due to 2 much free time on my hands is my guess as to why ) . but overall I'm a loving caring person . I tend to be a hermit at times because the world just simply scares the hell out of me or maybe its just because the economy sucks and who can really afford to do much anymore . i find it hard to date due to the fact I have children and I don't like leaving them at a sitter all the time . so definitely need someone who understands the meaning of family and friends . I've not been in a serious relationship in over 6 years now and I'm ready to find someone which i could settle down with if things go right . not just looking for someone to shack up with for a minute . I've never been married and would like to be someday...(every girls dream!!! ) ... I'm looking for friends and possibly the one I'm meant to be with . honesty is the only way to go with me, regardless if it hurts my feelings it's better to know the truth then to have to keep guessing ...and i'll still respect you in the morning ...lol!!!. I like a variety of music ! I want to find that person who inspires me and makes me want to be a better person than i already am . I'm a madcap type who is fond of routine (if that makes any sense !). . If you would honestly like to get to know me then send me an *** you was to ask who my hero was .... i would say my mom and my dad . there is no greater power then love and even tho i grew up in a broken home my life has always been fulfilled by the love of having great parents ....besides.. who else bails you out or is there for you when things get rough ...lol....needless to say even tho my family drives me crazy , i have really strong ties with them . so occasionaly you'll here me complaining ...just nod your head and smile ! ...lol! ok ...i get asked what i look for in a man : I'm looking for that someone who can be an equal ,a sense of humor ,knows the meaning of respect ,has morales and values . I can provide for myself and my children so i'm not looking for money or material things ( but i do want someone that is self sufficent ...) .I could careless about what kind of car you drive or how many toys you have. i want to know whats in that heart because that's what my life seems to be lacking ... The feeling of... finally being complete and fulfilled with that happiness we all desire deep down inside . so what i'm searching for is that love without conditions ! some where we could just hang out and chat for a few to see if we click in person

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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