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Vernie, 38

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About Me

..I'm an introvert. Not necessarily shy, but more this: *** Please know what you're doing when it comes to introverts :) I'm a Mensa member, but not overly opinionated. I'm a Christian, but not overly judgmental. I'm a registered democrat, leaning libertarian, hoping for GOP reform, but not looking to debate :) I am very driven, ambitious, and hard working. I like to do the best I can in whatever I'm doing. I have a lot of interests, but 99% of them can be done at home... if I can just get some me-time :) I'm not a beauty queen and don't try to be.... I'm going to make sure that I develop my character above all else. Extreme vanity is a turn off for me. I'm a mom... In every sense. I try very hard to mold my children into well rounded, respectful/respectable future adults. I work, but I am a homemaker, too. My goal is large family Holidays with lots of laughter and all the trimmings. My philosophy is "home is where you are always welcome." I try to bring warmth and compassion to the world. That said, I can pick out a snake in the grass faster than most... I've had practice, so don't try to fool me. I really am looking to meet someone special and someone that sees my "special-ness," but it seems in the digital dating age, very few are really interested in deep connection. I'm more than skin deep -- so much more, and I hope you are, too. I won't settle, or enter conversations that start "hey sexy" or whatever... Just coffee I think first to find out whether we want to do dinner or something :). No pressure situation lest I get scared away...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Merrilyn

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    Well if the answer is no way, I don't really blame you lol...About me, we'll I'm funny, cute and outgoing. You, funny, cute and so many more things! Hahaha...most importantly, you MUST be a gentleman. I love to laugh...who doesn't! I love to read, watch MOST sports.... My friends would tell you that I'm fun, sometimes funny..you may laugh at me as opposed to with me!! ...and my family would tell you I would make you smile.It would be great if you are:Mentally saneDon't have too many skeletons in your closetHave a great circle of friends Love your motherTidy and organizedDon't mind a confident woman who will debate with you just for funAnd must love animals..ok, except snakes and spiders...eeek!Who/What is NOT my type?1. Self absorbed men: men who take a body shot of themselves and focus in on the mid section...are you kidding me?? Hilarious!2. Men who are way too serious..smile, laugh, so important to me!!3. and a man who wouldn't protect me from a bear haha A glass of wine sounds good to me.

  • Karleen

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I'm intelligent, creative, a writer, a dreamer. I am a sister, a daughter and an aunt. I am a reformed perfectionist. I'm an introvert and cherish my time alone, sometimes impatient. I love animals and have cats - anyone I date must be a cat person. I'm independent, but I'm not a feminist. I'm a Libertarian. I don't like sports. I love to read and have a library in my house; it's my favorite room. I love sci-fi and horror movies, and I loathe chick flicks. Sometimes I swear a lot. I love quiet, chivalry, old things, British TV shows, cloudy days and cool weather. I prefer winter to summer. My philosophy is work to live, don't live to work, although my job is very important and I work hard. I've been an editor, a journalist, a waitress, a bartender, a pharmacy tech. My favorite job was as an editor, and I really want to be an author when I grow up.I'm looking for an intelligent single guy who is creative and hard-working. Geeks and nerds welcome. I like to move slowly getting to know new people, so coffee or lunch is a good first date for me.

  • Martine

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I am always smiling or laughing! I enjoy life and all it has to offer. I am a happy go lucky kinda of person. Life is too short to dwell on regrets and the should of/would of/could of scenarios. I am a total goof ball, with a side of sarcasm.I am a single mom and my son is the most important person in my life. If that is an issue, then please stop reading now. My life is definitely busy with his schedule, but I realize I need time for me; which is why I am on this site. I am not looking for anyone to "take care" of me and my son; I am looking for someone that can "share" a life with us. I am independent and self-sufficient. I enjoy cooking, going to the movies, theater, circus, sporting events, the beach, local events/festivals, working out , AND I am content to spend the quiet nights at home with a good book, movie or playing board games!Looking for someone who is smart, secure and fun! Someone that can handle the good and bad that life has to offer. There's more to me, but I will leave that a mystery for now! Thanks for reading and good luck in your search! A first date, something simple is what I prefer. Drinks and appetizers/ coffee and bagels to get to know each other. Nothing too elaborate incase the zaa zaa za zoo isn't there...LOL. The romantic fanasties of a first date are too much pressure for basically a blind date.

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